MongolianAbroad
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RE: Hooking up with a married girl
(11-08-2013 10:38 PM)ChiTown Wrote: A question for those of you that have successfully achieved the married bang: Did you ever find that you encountered a certain level of resistance on her behalf, or was this never an issue?
It's the opposite, I had to tell her no for almost 6 months over and over. Finally one day I cracked and I was like, "Want to have a drink after work?"
Half a beer and one hour later, we're fucking in my bedroom.
It's one thing to not go after married girls, it's another to tell them no for 6 months and then keep telling them no after that...
In my defense, she was separated, but still. I never slept with her again, though. It's just not what I'm looking for, I was out of her league, too. Was surprisingly tight, only girl I'd ever slept with that had a kid, not that you could tell, she weighed maybe 100 pounds, about 20 years old, very youthful.
I don't plan on doing it again.
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the.king
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RE: Hooking up with a married girl
Currently banging a married chick (she is 31 yo, Slavic, a 7.25/10, has one daughter, lives with husband). We meet every 7-10 days in my place, I fuck her brains out, then send her home.
My observations:
- My idea of marriage and other people's concept of marriage is completely different. This girl is married to her husband out of necessity (she needs a visa otherwise she cannot stay in my country). She literally despises everything about her marriage and wants out. Husband is a proper beta. They will get a divorce in the near future. They don’t have sex anymore. It was an eye opening experience for me to see first-hand a woman resent her husband so much and yet being married to him cause she has no better option in life.
- Married chicks are the only chicks who can be fuck buddies (without pushing a lot for commitment). I’m early 30s, single, unmarried, make decent money, have a nice flat, I tick a lot of boxes. A lot of girls I meet want commitment from me. I admit casual sex is difficult where I live (most girls are relationship-oriented, esp if you are both local). This married chick knows I have a girlfriend, will show up to my house on call, doesn’t push much for commitment, does everything I ask. It’s the most stress-free sex of my life. She cannot do any crazy shit either cause she knows I have massive leverage over her. Its like having a private porn star on call.
- If I wasn’t fucking her, someone else would be. The idea of ‘morality’ and ‘civilisation decline’ is simply wrong in this situation. This girl checked out of her marriage a long time ago. If it wasn’t me it would be someone else, guaranteed. Maybe next week or maybe next year, but there would be someone else. I literally think I am doing her a favour. If it wasn’t me it could be some loser who’s game may very well have been insufficient for this situation.
- I fuck raw. I fucked her once in her place for the thrill of it (would not do again and recommend against). I am pushing her to 'influence' her best friend for a threesome. Married chick is down for it but her friend seems too conservative I think. I almost never ask about her husband, never made a big deal out of the whole situation. We use a private messaging app for communication, which requires fingerprint access. She often buys me gifts and is generally very grateful, respectful towards me.
(This post was last modified: 11-26-2018 05:32 AM by the.king.)
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Polniy_Sostav
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RE: Hooking up with a married girl
(11-26-2018 05:26 AM)the.king Wrote: Currently banging a married chick (she is 31 yo, Slavic, a 7.25/10, has one daughter, lives with husband). We meet every 7-10 days in my place, I fuck her brains out, then send her home.
My observations:
- My idea of marriage and other people's concept of marriage is completely different. This girl is married to her husband out of necessity (she needs a visa otherwise she cannot stay in my country). She literally despises everything about her marriage and wants out. Husband is a proper beta. They will get a divorce in the near future. They don’t have sex anymore. It was an eye opening experience for me to see first-hand a woman resent her husband so much and yet being married to him cause she has no better option in life.
- Married chicks are the only chicks who can be fuck buddies (without pushing a lot for commitment). I’m early 30s, single, unmarried, make decent money, have a nice flat, I tick a lot of boxes. A lot of girls I meet want commitment from me. I admit casual sex is difficult where I live (most girls are relationship-oriented, esp if you are both local). This married chick knows I have a girlfriend, will show up to my house on call, doesn’t push much for commitment, does everything I ask. It’s the most stress-free sex of my life. She cannot do any crazy shit either cause she knows I have massive leverage over her. Its like having a private porn star on call.
- If I wasn’t fucking her, someone else would be. The idea of ‘morality’ and ‘civilisation decline’ is simply wrong in this situation. This girl checked out of her marriage a long time ago. If it wasn’t me it would be someone else, guaranteed. Maybe next week or maybe next year, but there would be someone else. I literally think I am doing her a favour. If it wasn’t me it could be some loser who’s game may very well have been insufficient for this situation.
- I fuck raw. I fucked her once in her place for the thrill of it (would not do again and recommend against). I am pushing her to 'influence' her best friend for a threesome. Married chick is down for it but her friend seems too conservative I think. I almost never ask about her husband, never made a big deal out of the whole situation. We use a private messaging app for communication, which requires fingerprint access. She often buys me gifts and is generally very grateful, respectful towards me.
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the fact that you firmly believe in what you say in the first paragraph ( My idea of marriage and other people's concept of marriage is completely different) explains why you are single. This girl is /was playing you big time
(This post was last modified: 11-27-2018 04:31 PM by Polniy_Sostav.)
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