Post: #26

(11-05-2013 08:04 AM)soup Wrote:  PUAs call this getting into state.

Yes, I need to be warmed up. The highest level for me is usually when I'm walking home in the morning after banging an ONS girl. It's the walk of fame (instead of shame), where I'm still a little drunk, and my body language is totally loose and confident. I'm opening girls left and right and get eyes and phone numbers.

Not to knock this thread, because I think it's definitely worthy of discussion, but, for the amount hate the word PUA gets around here, we often re-invent the wheel on a lot of topics that they already laid out years ago.

But, we diss them because of "fuzzy hats" etc.

When it becomes instinctual, they called it "sarger's aura".

Post: #27

Yeah it definitely feels like something I have to switch on or force myself to do against my overly logical natural brain state. This is probably because my game is fairly shitty and I'm an introvert by nature, so I hope it gets better with time. Although sometimes there are those days where everything just flows and feels natural and no effort has to be made to feel social or flirty, unfortunately most of the time it takes serious effort to get there.

Post: #28

It's not completely off and on, but there are major differences ...

When I have major momentum and lots of recent success and experience in my mind, I'm less likely to miss out on those few second windows to open a girl during day game..

When I've been just in my own world, busy, working, not approaching much, I'm much more likely to let a cute girl walk by me without saying anything..

I don't really notice an on or off in other areas though; night game.. that just depends on how drunk and/or horny I am, not necessarily some on or off switch. Though, I guess again recent momentum for me is helpful too.

Post: #29

For me, the key word here is -- MOMENTUM.

If I approach a few girls everyday, I maintain momentum and stay in "game mode".

If I take a few days off, I lose momentum and fall out of game mode.

The more days I take off, the more approaches I have to do to get back into "mode".

As a teen and young adult, I was always in mode because as kid, I didn't know any difference, I thought talking to girls was the most important thing in life, after playing ball, of course.

When I graduated from college and entered the working world, my "Game Momentum" suffered. I got brainwashed into thinking that work and career were more important then my masculine magnetism.

After a few years, I realized that I had to retake control of my time and energy. I got back into hardcore gaming like I did when I was in high school and college. It took me a few hundred approaches to really get some solid momentum going.

The hardest part is the beginning, the first 100-200 approaches, CONSISTENCY IS KEY IN ORDER TO CREATE AND SUSTAIN MOMENTUM!!! As a beginner, you shouldn't take breaks, don't stop and take days or weeks off! Approach at least 2-3 every day! When you have enertia, you must maintain it. Otherwise, you are likely to lose your momentum and basically have to start over again.

As a veteran, you can days days and weeks off and still bounce back in a short period of time. For veterans, IT IS "like riding a bike", they have been "riding a bike" for years. Newbies can't do this because they have never learned to "ride".

Now, I am in mode when I wake up in the morning. It has finally become instinctive. It took a few years and a few thousand approaches. It feels great to have very little social fear.

Post: #30

I def have a game mode:

In my normal life, i'm very polite, friendly and fragile BUT when its time to game, i'm more the opposite....just less polite and fragile around the opposite sex. The friendliness is still the same though

Post: #31

I think I do. I treat girls different than guys when texting and in alot of other situations. As in I respond to texts and calls quicker. I'll hangout with my friends two or three days in a row. I guess on more a technical level I treat them differently. My personality stays the same more or less.

Post: #32

Yeah, momentum is key. Giovonny, you got it. Both in terms of keeping your confidence up and just staying fresh and not getting out of practice.