Van123
Male Feminist
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The night game fallacy
When I began game, I couldn't understand why so many products focus on the "bar or club" scene. When I heard about game, i accepted that only daygame exist and nightgame is a special place but not "the" place. This is one of the problem I have with most puas is they tend to go towards the abnormal places to go and get women, where you might get a kiss, but the next day your number means nothing. I can recall so Many instances of where I hot a number at night, and the girl liked me, but the next day the number was nothing. To me, game means gaming in your usual normal enviroment,I.e day. Classes, campusses, streets, etc. If I were to give you a manual on how to run on a treadmill when your searching for a manual on "running exercises", you will be angry at me. The same thing with game. Why focus on game centered around an habitat that few people go to? How many hours do we spend in the night in bars and clubs, that is most of us? If it's me, I'd day, I go to malls during day and sleep at night. Clubs and bars are way too obvious anyway, and just because you can't call yourself a good runner running a treadmill, you can't call yourself a pua if the scene you rise is in the night. Game should be scentered towards the living habitat where we tend to spend most of our lives, vs. A drunk place where only a dew hangout anyway. Spend time during the day if you want to approach girls. It's time you learn to calibrate in yourcown habitat. Bars is a bonus tactic, not the center of game; that is the day. I'd love to see more pickup artist hitting malls and campusses; girls won't find it so weird for only me to approach them anyway. And tge weird thing is, girls complain about guts not hitting on them in the day. So why game at night where you gain no skill in tge place that it matters? Game where you should, day. Let's stop this contradiction of nightgame and make it a thing you do to bring into daygame.
(This post was last modified: 11-08-2010 01:55 AM by Van123.)
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| 11-08-2010 01:36 AM |
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speakeasy
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RE: The night game fallacy
Keep in mind, most women don't meet via game or in stranger situations, most meet through their social network. Through mutual friends, family, work, someone's birthday party, school, military, church or whatever. Increasingly more are meeting online too of course. But if you ask most people how they met their significant other, usually it is not from gaming a random stranger. Just talking to women I know, they seem to assume that every guy that randomly approaches them is only after their pussy. Of course they right in most cases, no doubt, but that doesn't mean it can't transition to something else. But nonetheless, a guy they meet through their network is considered more "safe" I suppose.
So when you mention why women aren't in the clubs and they're cockfests, I think most women are just meeting guys through their network. The ones in the clubs are probably the ones that have tapped out their network and aren't sure where else to turn. Either there or online.
I agree though that daygame is where it should be at. Daygame is all waking hours whereas nightgame is just a couple hours. Especially if you're an over 30 guy like me, nightclubs and bars just start losing their appeal quick and I have no interest in being the old guy at the club.
(This post was last modified: 11-08-2010 03:30 PM by speakeasy.)
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| 11-08-2010 03:27 PM |
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