Post: #1

Wassap everyone. So, a week or so ago i met this girl at the bus, she was like HOT. Basically she sat next to me, smiled, sent lots of IOI's, but the thing is, i was waaay to stupid and got scared and ended up not saying anything. On the other hand, i made strong eye contact while getting out of the bus, kind of responding to her signals. Anyways what happens is that today i met her again, she kind of sat in the back and i was in the front, while i reached my point, i walk up to her, and lean in to her seat. It was crazy cause likee she goes on and kisses my cheek, and im like WHAAAT XD ahah anyway, i said "I like you, give me your phone number". She basically just said her phone, LOL to be honest i was expecting some other kind of reaction. Anyway, i kiss her again and then i leave the bus.

But heres the thing, im not really good with phone game, and since i havent really TALKED to her or anything im not sure about how to proceed. Should i try to build attraction through the phone? or should i be straight up and arrange the date?

Post: #2

(10-23-2013 04:11 PM)GoldPlayer Wrote:  Wassap everyone. So, a week or so ago i met this girl at the bus, she was like HOT. Basically she sat next to me, smiled, sent lots of IOI's, but the thing is, i was waaay to stupid and got scared and ended up not saying anything. On the other hand, i made strong eye contact while getting out of the bus, kind of responding to her signals. Anyways what happens is that today i met her again, she kind of sat in the back and i was in the front, while i reached my point, i walk up to her, and lean in to her seat. It was crazy cause likee she goes on and kisses my cheek, and im like WHAAAT XD ahah anyway, i said "I like you, give me your phone number". She basically just said her phone, LOL to be honest i was expecting some other kind of reaction. Anyway, i kiss her again and then i leave the bus.

But heres the thing, im not really good with phone game, and since i havent really TALKED to her or anything im not sure about how to proceed. Should i try to build attraction through the phone? or should i be straight up and arrange the date?

This is going to be moved to the newbie forum I think.

Doesn't seem like attraction needs to be built, she clearly likes you, so imo just text her until you get one more IOI (even a small one) then set up a date. If you like her to go out with her, then maybe a date, if not, just suggest her to come round to yours or viceversa.

I'm sure others would have even better advice though!

Post: #3

Your best bet is to text her to call her and ask her when she's free to hang out.
Do bother with a "date" or dinner and a movie.
Go bowling or mini-golf with her.
Escalate as needed. Kiss her at least once before you venue change.
Grab a light drink or ice cream (depending on time of day/climate)
Bounce to your place to escalate further and f-close.

Post: #4

(10-23-2013 04:21 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Your best bet is to text her to call her and ask her when she's free to hang out.
Do bother with a "date" or dinner and a movie.
Go bowling or mini-golf with her.
Escalate as needed. Kiss her at least once before you venue change.
Grab a light drink or ice cream (depending on time of day/climate)
Bounce to your place to escalate further and f-close.

Yeah man, i was thinking of taking her out in daytime. I thought about like taking her to the shopping mall (thats basically one of the most interesting things to do in my city btw ) then like take her to the arcade or something, then grab some ice cream and finish with a movie but idk...

Post: #5

She's yours man, you don't need any phone game. Do the back and forth and get her to meet you somewhere just before sunset near a bang spot (have this in mind ahead of time: house, beach, bathroom), venue change once or twice so she feels comfortable...then take her to the bang spot to "chill". She sounds interested so she'll probably go along with it the whole way.

Post: #6

(10-23-2013 07:10 PM)Feo Wrote:  She's yours man, you don't need any phone game. Do the back and forth and get her to meet you somewhere just before sunset near a bang spot (have this in mind ahead of time: house, beach, bathroom), venue change once or twice so she feels comfortable...then take her to the bang spot to "chill". She sounds interested so she'll probably go along with it the whole way.

Real shit bro! Actually i just set up the date for tomorrow, the thing is that i still live with my parents -__-" but, fortunately she lives near me, so imma try to get to her place. DAAMMM man im so happy, good shit happening tomorrow XD imma post the result of the date here guys, hope i get some great shit going on

Post: #7

Awesome. Don't count on her place though...have a backup spot. You'll be surprised how easy it is to talk her into public sex at a dark beach/park or something.

Post: #8

(10-23-2013 04:33 PM)GoldPlayer Wrote:  

(10-23-2013 04:21 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Your best bet is to text her to call her and ask her when she's free to hang out.
Do bother with a "date" or dinner and a movie.
Go bowling or mini-golf with her.
Escalate as needed. Kiss her at least once before you venue change.
Grab a light drink or ice cream (depending on time of day/climate)
Bounce to your place to escalate further and f-close.

Yeah man, i was thinking of taking her out in daytime. I thought about like taking her to the shopping mall (thats basically one of the most interesting things to do in my city btw ) then like take her to the arcade or something, then grab some ice cream and finish with a movie but idk...

Take some deep breaths and relax. I don't normally do day dates unless it's necessary, and you can still do things were you can build attraction at night like mini golf. After that have some drinks. I wouldn't mess around with the arcade, movie or ice cream...do that after the bang. I agree with what someone else wrote, given your situation be prepared for anything. Have a blanket and some alcohol available for a transition to a private location. Take things as far as you can with her...as I believe McQueen as pointed out, and from experience, most girls will forgive you for pushing the limits of physical contact, but not for being a pussy.

Post: #9

Hey guys, WASSUP! So the date went well actually, we walked around, made out and stuff, but i couldnt get to close the deal, in fact i didnt really have a place to take her anyway, fucked up shit, i guess i need to use alcohol, umm. Anyways, she seemed to enjoy herself, even though my game is still kinda pretty basic, i guess i did a good job. The thing right now is, shes not responding my texts, i dont know why, like i sent her one in the night we went out, and yesterday i met her in the bus, we chatted a bit, she seemed a lot into me yet, but when i asked her about the text, she said she didnt get anything, anyways, i ended the talk by kissing her, and told her we should go out again, afterwards i bite my lip. She smiles and agreeds, so im just like, aight. But i texted her yesterday night tho, and up to now i have no response... i guess i should keep it cool right? not anwering and waiting for her to talk back, after all im the one who has to be chased right? LOL i appreciate your responses guys

Post: #10

Don't text her again too soon if she doesn't respond to your first text. You should wait sometime and try with restart text.

Post: #11

(10-26-2013 07:23 AM)GoldPlayer Wrote:  Hey guys, WASSUP! So the date went well actually, we walked around, made out and stuff, but i couldnt get to close the deal, in fact i didnt really have a place to take her anyway, fucked up shit, i guess i need to use alcohol, umm. Anyways, she seemed to enjoy herself, even though my game is still kinda pretty basic, i guess i did a good job. The thing right now is, shes not responding my texts, i dont know why, like i sent her one in the night we went out, and yesterday i met her in the bus, we chatted a bit, she seemed a lot into me yet, but when i asked her about the text, she said she didnt get anything, anyways, i ended the talk by kissing her, and told her we should go out again, afterwards i bite my lip. She smiles and agreeds, so im just like, aight. But i texted her yesterday night tho, and up to now i have no response... i guess i should keep it cool right? not anwering and waiting for her to talk back, after all im the one who has to be chased right? LOL i appreciate your responses guys

Yeah do not text her again for a few weeks...and if you want then try the restart text. If she doesn't text you, then forget about her. However, don't send an angry text. Just don't say anything. You never know when things could spark back up or you catch her in a horny mood. Unless a girl has been a bitch/disrespected you then it's best to forget about it. In the meantime keep gaming multiple women...you should never stop doing that. You need to read up on McQueen's stuff about closing with women...also read some stuff on "texting game." I think you could benefit from it. When you take a girl out, don't wait for or expect things to happen. You need a clear plan in your head from the start. But make it a basic plan because things always change, so you have to be flexible.