Post: #1

Ok so, I have my wheel house with girls and I have my grey areas. This new girl is a grey area.

Background: This girl is white Latina, real freak. She is divorced and does not want marriage attachment etc. She has sent me very nice / hot pics, stated she likes threesome's, foursome's , role playing, toys, basically all kinds of kinky far out shit that I could try with her. I met her in person at a work happy hour and I got the digits, since then we have talked on the phone several times, chatted etc. She lives like 30 minutes away.

She has her son on weekends, so this was the problem last weekend and the wkd before I was gone out of town. I am trying to close this weekend with her.

Problem: I can only assume she has tons of dudes lined up to hit it (she is very very sexy) when I tried to make plans to meet her this wkd, she said she could meet me after work if she didn't have too many chores. She had to "check her schedule" and get back to me. I know in her case this is not a shit test, but rather unfortunately for me, a true case of her probably having tons of other guys calling her.

Now, I am used to meeting girls and doing my thing, but these are regular girls, not the s3x vixen this one is. I think this chick has tons of dudes chasing her and while I do refuse to chase her, I am def. intrigued by her propositions (she wants to watch me bang her gf) I don't really run into chicks like this and it could be an opportunity I've not yet had.

Thoughts? How should I approach this A. Without chasing B. Without bieng too alpha and just telling her to fuck off? At the moment my first reaction is to just be a dick to her and blow her off.

Post: #2

A divorcee like her self riding the cock carousel shouldn't be too much of a surprise nor a disappointment for you. You've already realized the real reasons why she's busy, so in order to be alpha and yet work around the schedule simply requires some longer term scheduling than you might be used to. If she doesn't get back to you with a reasonable answer, try this, call her or text and tell her work is giving you hell and you'll be unavailable until a weekend three weeks out. Tell her to keep the whole weekend free, bring her gf, have the roleplay outfits ready, and in general devote the entire weekend for one gigantic f-fest. That way you get it all at once, so if she does have many cocks on the side, you won't have to worry about scheduling anymore, and if she's makes more time for you, go back for seconds.

Post: #3

Yeah thanks Aurelius, I will take that into account.

From what I understand she wants to meet for drinks again and then just her and I go have some fun..later she will introduce me into her "circuit" of friends. I don't plan to get too inovolved, but tagging her and one of her friends perhaps on more than one occasion and in various settings sure does sound interesting. This lady borders on like sex addict cock hound.

Example: I was in an all day meeting with men and women all around me, she knew this. She continued throughout the day to send pics of her vag, her thong, tts and everything. Getting me all worked up. Wants to call her ex on the phone and make him listen while Im hitting it, that kind of stuff.

Post: #4

Sounds like she is into the 'polyamory' community pretty deep. I'm only thinking that since she referred to her friends as a 'circuit' this might be the case. While that community has some social rules about safety and honesty particularly in the matter of STDs be prepared to triple wrap for peace of mind. There's another thought, her scheduling issues may be due to flareups from the old herp-train.

Post: #5

Hahah damn bro...never thought of that shit. Either way I will play this one safe as milk.

Post: #6

Surprised at the lack of feedback on this post ... come on fellas.

Post: #7

Stop being so persistant and don't act like she is that important. Keep in touch with her but don't act like it's a big deal, act like you don't really give a shit about hanging out with her. Bang other chicks and hopefully she'll see you aren't desperate and go out with you.

Post: #8

every excuse is a lie even if it's true. if they want to fuck you they find a way because they are completely hedonistic like children.

Post: #9

Ok first off, you talk about this stuff on the phone but, that doesn't mean you're going to meet up and be in a 3some right away (in her mind even though it could very well happen). This chick has to be SURE of whatever it is that attracts her to you. That's why you meet up for drinks causually. To stay alpha you have to be the leader who doesn't give a fuck if she can make it or not. You text her a time and place when you're free. Don't ask her. "Hey, short day for me tomrw, let's meet up at xyz and grab a cocktail". Don't be witty, don't be all "haha" every gd time you text her, just be cool. With this chick, all you have to do is get her to meet up and then it's on. But remember, you aren't dating this girl, you have to fuck her once you get past the initial barrier during drinks. Then you have to really smash her so the other doors open up. In the meantime, when she sends you pics, don't gush all over and talk about how much you want her. Bitches like this want the attention and can get into a mindset where the teasing and attention satisfies them. You have to express to her that you are pleased and that's it. "MMMMm good girl". Keep us posted.

Post: #10

Yeah that is some good feedback guys. As I said, I'm used to meeting girls that are either "cold" that I have to work on or open, or girls that are sluts but atleast attempt to hide that they are sluts. This is one of the few times I've met such an open and horny whore. (I've met some slutty ones before..but she takes the cake)

Again I have met her in person, but we havn't been able to make it happen again..despite her calling and texting me nude pics and shit. I also have other girls in my stable and I am in no way putting this slut on a pedistal, but I would be lying if I said I wasn't reptty psyched about the possibilities that could come along with this chick.

@Fisto: I know I won't be getting some 3some action right off the bat, I know its never that simple. But that is the carrot I'm chasing as a mid term goal.

Post: #11

Any chance you can post the pics here
lol

Post: #12

I will think about it Bad..I dont really like to do that shit but maybe I can PM you a few.

Post: #13

Im in a similar spot. I met this girl and we have seriously had some of the dirtiest text message exchanges imaginable but then she flakes. Weve actually made out a couple times, once at a bar and another time at my place but it was RIGHT after she got her tits done so we couldnt have sex. Her responses are so hot and cold one day shes all over me with the texts then the next day I wont hear from her from hours. Im thinking about just blowing her off totally and just seeing what happens since its not too big a deal either way.

Let me know how it goes for you.

Post: #14

Yeah Jack, my experience is similar. It started at a bar, just talking and flirting. She is a nurse and was with her "team" of slutty nurse friends. I was with my jerk off group of consultant amigos at a work happy hour.

All was going well, she actually had a "boyfriend" that she was promising to creep on. Then she mentioned one of her GF's and that sounded good. You know the rest of the story.

At this point I am thinking of just never calling her again. I had my hopes and thoughts of crazy freak sex with ease, but I'm starting to think the dude might still be in the picture and she is more complicated and possibly mentally 'touched' if you will, than I had first expected.

Post: #15

The chick Im talking to is a nurse as well, I guess we're missing out on a whole super freaky demographic. Im gonna have to meet another nurse to see if its all of em.

Just dont call her and see what happens, whenever I dont call this chick for a bit she always ends up blowing me up but then I answer, Im just gonna let her twist in the wind for a bit.

Post: #16

I hope we are not going to bang the same chick...maybe we can high five each other at the gang bang

Anyhow, in my past experiences, nurses seem to be more open with their bodies. This doesn't mean they are necessarily slutty so to speak, but maybe they know the risks (or non risks) of sex and they are comfortable with fluids and body parts and things after seeing it so much.