Post: #1

Its still warm here in SD and I was on the beach this past weekend juggling my soccer ball. Im in really good shape and the soft warm sand of the beach provides for an excellent workout as well as prime opportunity to showoff. Anyway im walking back and rinsing the sand off my feet when I see this stunningly gorgeous girl that couldn't have been older than 19 just sitting alone on the side wall by the restrooms. It would have been a sin not to approach, so I ready my familiarity routine and walk over to her. She sees me coming and right as I get up to her she looks up and makes eye contact with me. If I thought she was beautiful from the side I had no idea how ambushed the beauty of her face would effect me. A perfect 10 all around-- 5'5, 110, long brunette hair kissed my the sun and perfectly tanned skin around a perfect stomach and ass.
I open my mouth to talk and nothing comes out. I realize very quickly that not only am im i standing there staring with my mouth open, but that even worse my beta subconscious has already pedastolized her...
so I say:
Hi...
she says Hi...
I say: I came over here to tell you something but when you looked up at me I forgot what it was
she gets super red and smiles and looks down (I take this as a good sign).
I introduce myself and she tells me her name.
I remember that I wanted to say she looked familiar, but any other line or direction I had planned for the interaction had been completely forgotten. Since I didn't really have much to say beyond standard lines I finally said:
we should meet back up here some time
and I got her number and left

Wondering if any you guys ever get this even after months of practice? I dont mind the whole love/lust at first sight feeling, but forgetting everything ive painstakingly learned up to this point is just unacceptable and I really got disappointed in myself because of this, even though it was nice to number close a young 10

Post: #2

You need MOMENTUM! Psychological momentum, verbal momentum, conversational momentum, confidence momentum!

It's hard to go from not talking to any girls ---> to gaming a tight 19yo.

It takes practice.

"Warming up" is important in life. MAINTAINING MOMENTUM is also very important!

If you approach 5 girls a day you will solve this issue.

Post: #3

Freezing up doesn't happen to me anymore.
I just relax and let it flow.

When you stop putting so much pressure on yourself talking to anyone not just attractive female will become easier.
A tip i was doing when i 1st started out was opening the first 3 people i saw whenever i left the house. I used it as a warm-up for when i saw an attractive girl i was already in the right place to be having fun and interesting conversations.

Post: #4

yea I was completely cold approaching her.
but i honestly couldn't Not approach, had to be done

"You need MOMENTUM! Psychological momentum, verbal momentum, conversational momentum, confidence momentum!"
Thanks for this

Post: #5

That was just a warm up. Go and find 10 more girls of the same quality. Approach all of them.

Do it again the next day.

Make it a routine, a habit, a way of life.

Approaching cute 19 year olds is just another day at the office!