Post: #1

Makes me cringe reading that sex text, but we did send sexual texts before. I was a few drinks & shots in, so I said fuck it. she was open to it before, why would this time be any different? I dont think that was the nail in the coffin.. since we exchanged a few more texts after that night.

But she did come to NYC, but she never texted me. And I didnt text her. Is she a lost cause now?

Post: #2

Why are you worried about a chick who flaked on you? You're in NY right? Go meet one who wants to hang out with you.

Post: #3

You answered your own question: the sex text made her flake.

Post: #4

Don't use texts to talk about sex, pure and simple.

Post: #5

It's impossible to say..

Maybe you scared her away with the sex text, maybe she had plans with another guy, maybe she had plans with friends, maybe she wanted to have a girls night, maybe she doesn't like you...

Learn from it and move on.

Post: #6

Your text game is bad enough by itself there was no need to double down with the sex all night message.

Post: #7

Just keep it to logistics.

You can tease and flirt a little bit, but don't be so blunt about having sex until you've already fucked her, and especially since you're not 100% sure you guys are meeting up.

Just lock down a time and place for you 2 to meet...apply this with the next girl.

Post: #8

(10-13-2013 11:25 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  It's impossible to say..

Maybe you scared her away with the sex text, maybe she had plans with another guy, maybe she had plans with friends, maybe she wanted to have a girls night, maybe she doesn't like you...

Learn from it and move on.

she was coming with her friend. I was hoping to fuck her before she went out and partied with her friend.

I suppose I was too impatience

Post: #9

Girl was planning on meeting you with her friend. I would have flaked on her first.

Post: #10

(10-13-2013 06:06 PM)babelfish669 Wrote:  Girl was planning on meeting you with her friend. I would have flaked on her first.

This.

Had it happen only once and it was earlier this year. You can't do any of the moves you would make if it were just the two you. Has anyone here managed to get the bang the same night or eventually down the line?

Also, the sex text was too soon. You spun your tires there for sure.

Post: #11

Girl: Heeey how are you? Maybe I`m going to NYC! notice how she used heeey and not hey or heey, three e`s is the magic number which indicates she wants the D, this is a scientific fact.

You: All good, let me know when you get here. No need to say more, less is more.

Girl: Tomorrow with my bff! Again two winks signals that this girl, is in fact eager to take some D. She says she is coming with a friend, no problem most young girls dont travel alone, take both of them out, get them to your place send the other girl to buy some beer or something while you bang your girl.

Your response: Should be fun. I`d love to see u . As beta as you can get, you shouldnt have texted her at all. And why would you tell her you would love to see her as if you were a little highschool girl . And then the wink at then end damn

Girl: Here what`s up? Hee You have plans for tomorrow?

Your response: No. Who doesnt have plans for a saturday on NYC? And even if you didnt why would you tell her that? I would have said i dunno yet, why are you coming tomorrow?

Girl: Nice
You: Nothing, you should have said absolutely nothing anyway

Girl: No tomorrow
You: Ok let me know ill pick you up and show you around or maybe tell her there is a party tomorrow at XYZ ill definitely have to take you. She is visiting your city after all, it wouldnt hurt to show her around.

Im surprised she even responded your last text, if you already had sex with her why would you send her that, did you want confirmation that in fact she was gonna have sex with you that day?

Post: #12

(10-13-2013 06:06 PM)babelfish669 Wrote:  Girl was planning on meeting you with her friend. I would have flaked on her first.

So...invite your wingman and have a double date!

Post: #13

(10-13-2013 06:06 PM)babelfish669 Wrote:  Girl was planning on meeting you with her friend. I would have flaked on her first.

Why? Unless your poon calendar is filled up just go but... String them along until they're buzzed enough to make bad decisions. In other words make them wait for hours.

Post: #14

Although you and her know you guys are going to have sex like a monkey, you should've said something else.
I bet such txt will kill her mood even though she received the txt while she was shaving her pussy for sex

Post: #15

(10-13-2013 01:08 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

(10-13-2013 11:25 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  It's impossible to say..

Maybe you scared her away with the sex text, maybe she had plans with another guy, maybe she had plans with friends, maybe she wanted to have a girls night, maybe she doesn't like you...

Learn from it and move on.

she was coming with her friend. I was hoping to fuck her before she went out and partied with her friend.

I suppose I was too impatience

Maybe you just used the wrong words?

Don't worry about it. Find your next girl!

Post: #16

Don't be surprised if she texts you a couple weeks from now anyway.

The fact you don't pursue it and keep shut will maintain your value in her eyes.

And when she's thirsty for dick one night, she could text you.

If that time comes, don't beat around the bush too much. Get her to come over.

Post: #17

we texted some today and said it'd be better if we just be friends

What the fuck just happened?

Post: #18

(10-15-2013 10:05 AM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  we texted some today and said it'd be better if we just be friends

What the fuck just happened?

Lets see the text

Post: #19

I asked her when she's coming back here and she said when. Then she said it would be better if I'm just a "buddy"

Post: #20

What's the backstory here? Where did you meet, how'd you get her number etc...

Post: #21

(10-13-2013 09:10 AM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  "we could have sex all night"

her. Is she a lost cause now?

Yes its a lost cause, you fucked up, move on.

Don't ever say shit like that over text.

Don't say shit like that untill after youve banged a woman.

Texting should only be for setting up dates

"Ill be free ___(day/time), lets meet up for drinks."

This is not rocket science
dudes need to stop texting so damn much.


Also, get over this chick, stop contacting her, you're investing way too much time on her. don't be her "buddy" unless its a fuck buddy (don't ask that either -.-) move on and if she contacts you for some dick so be it. But, youve got to find other women, you're VERY close to getting one itis over a chick you fucked up on.