^Sometimes the Game has nothing to do with us.

There are variables out of our control. No matter how good you look, how great you dress and no matter how tight your Game is you won't bat 1,000.

Here's one - a little back story. This girl is an acquaintance I met last year through friends. I've alway had a little bit of a dickhead reputation with her. She had a short thing with a friend of mine last summer and lo and behold I caught her creeping my okc profile the other night. So messaged her with a neg "hah creep" and she proceeded to try and make small talk with me. I told her "I don't use okc to chit chat and make pen pals so unless we're banging switch this to text" I gave her my cell and here is the conversation thus far:

(9:42am) HER: I have your number. I'm not gonna fuck you. Maybe a year ago but not now.
(9:47am) ME: Lol
(9:59am) HER: So how successful are you at getting laid through okc?
(10:22am) ME: Just made the account 2 days ago ask me in a month
(11:20am) HER: Ok good luck on your adventure.
(11:21am) HER: We're neighbors now
(11:29am) ME: Word so why'd you feel the need to tell me you wanted to bang me a year ago
(11:50am) HER: idk that was weird of me huh. thought that was what you were implying at first but maybe I had it wrong.

Thinking I might want to parlay this into a bang. Not sure where I should go from here. I'm thinking she may still be interested just trying to shit test me. She is 26 and like a 6.5

^She's a right skank.

You started out well assuming the sale.

Then you asked for validation from her. "Why do you love me?" basically. Not so sure about that. For a 6.5? Who cares.

But she's interested, for sure. You've got the whole chasing dynamic going.

You could change the subject to something totally different. If she's got her mind on sex with you, but is on the fence, letting her dwell on the thought is likely to give her cold feet as her tingles dry and she begins to use her brain again. By changing the subject to something totally different, you subconciously let her "off" the hook, and she can stay in the illusion she's actually a good girl and that you're cool.

Then: "Headed over to [insert venue] to check out [insert thing]. Come along"

(03-13-2014 11:08 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  (9:42am) HER: I have your number. I'm not gonna fuck you. Maybe a year ago but not now.
(9:47am) ME: Lol
(9:59am) HER: So how successful are you at getting laid through okc?
(10:22am) ME: Just made the account 2 days ago ask me in a month
(11:20am) HER: Ok good luck on your adventure.
(11:21am) HER: We're neighbors now
(11:29am) ME: Word so why'd you feel the need to tell me you wanted to bang me a year ago
(11:50am) HER: idk that was weird of me huh. thought that was what you were implying at first but maybe I had it wrong.

(1:16pm) ME: Yeah yeah I know what's on your mind

No response yet. I'll let it stew. That's the thing, I don't care about banging her so it's no much of a deal. She could never respond and it wouldn't matter. I guess I'm just experimenting text game with her. She is a very typical mid-20's hamster.

I popped my question about her bringing up wanting to fuck me when she first met me to keep her mind on the topic of sex, and I tried to word it in a way that kept me in a frame but maybe it was kinda try hard. Meh we'll see.

(03-13-2014 11:08 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Here's one - a little back story. This girl is an acquaintance I met last year through friends. I've alway had a little bit of a dickhead reputation with her. She had a short thing with a friend of mine last summer and lo and behold I caught her creeping my okc profile the other night. So messaged her with a neg "hah creep" and she proceeded to try and make small talk with me. I told her "I don't use okc to chit chat and make pen pals so unless we're banging switch this to text" I gave her my cell and here is the conversation thus far:

(9:42am) HER: I have your number. I'm not gonna fuck you. Maybe a year ago but not now.
(9:47am) ME: Lol
(9:59am) HER: So how successful are you at getting laid through okc?
(10:22am) ME: Just made the account 2 days ago ask me in a month
(11:20am) HER: Ok good luck on your adventure.
(11:21am) HER: We're neighbors now
(11:29am) ME: Word so why'd you feel the need to tell me you wanted to bang me a year ago
(11:50am) HER: idk that was weird of me huh. thought that was what you were implying at first but maybe I had it wrong.

Thinking I might want to parlay this into a bang. Not sure where I should go from here. I'm thinking she may still be interested just trying to shit test me. She is 26 and like a 6.5

Try this:

ME: Don't worry, it's totally cool to be craving me. I don't judge
Her: You're such an asshole!
ME: No, I am the BIGGEST asshole!!! You love it!

Cool. go for it!

"Eww.. stop fucking contacting me. Please!!"

Do you guys know how I should reply to this one? I think she is shit testing me. The one before she threatened to call the cops.. I think she wanted to build tension.

(03-14-2014 12:46 PM)Feo Wrote:  "Eww.. stop fucking contacting me. Please!!"

Do you guys know how I should reply to this one? I think she is shit testing me. The one before she threatened to call the cops.. I think she wanted to build tension.

Impossible to draw conclusion without getting previous texts..

anyone got a good response to this?

(03-15-2014 09:38 AM)Pinocchio Wrote:  anyone got a good response to this?

"I am glad your borefriend will be occupied by those single friends while you entertain me"

I'm wondering whether I should text at all?
There's this girl who's like a 9, all my friends have tried it with her and she rejected them, I didn't even bother trying. But 2 days ago we matched on Tinder so I said we should meet up on Tuesday, she said yeah.
Now I'm just wondering should I bother texting her up until Tuesday? I don't wanna force conversation and I really prefer getting to know people in person anyway.
I haven't been on a proper 'date' for like 4-5 years so not sure how that'll even go, but it should be fine.

^ Tues. is too late, she can flake based on you "not confirming"

Hit her up Sun/Mon. to confirm, make sure you take the lead with clear plans:

i.e. "I'll pick you up for a drink at ____. Don't forget the heels." or "Come by my place for ____. I got some new drinks we can make together..."

But make sure you keep it short, dominant, and if she flakes, keep it aloof and fun, so she realizes you're different if rejection comes up at first (esp. if you'll be seeing her around).

i.e. a girl I've been slow rolling told me recently she couldn't meet me when I was gonna be in town, since she was gonna be on vacation in the Caribbean

Me: "You're horrible haha, unfollowed "

Her: "Noooo! Wish you could be there with me!"

You get the idea.

Yeah, I know Tuesday was sort of a bad move but its my earliest convenience

Everything else you said I've done right, think I stole the line from McQueen, I'm not sure, "We'll go ---- at 8 for drinks, wear something pretty"

I'll hit her up monday just something casual, thanks man

(03-15-2014 05:48 PM)bret Wrote:  Yeah, I know Tuesday was sort of a bad move but its my earliest convenience

Everything else you said I've done right, think I stole the line from McQueen, I'm not sure, "We'll go ---- at 8 for drinks, wear something pretty"

I'll hit her up monday just something casual, thanks man

No prob, let us know how it goes.

Just to clarify, it's not about the day of the week that you chose.

In fact, Tues-Thurs. can be great times, since there's less expectations put on "going out", and she's less likely to flake compared to Fri-Sun.

I just meant that you wouldn't wanna go like from a vague plan on Thurs. and have no contact up until the meetup date, since she'd be more likely to flake after not hearing from you till the last minute.

A girl on okc who I've been on a date with/have made half hearted plans the day before visited my profile today an said

"You look like the type of person Id go for drinks with"

I wanna say something witty. Anyone got anything?

(03-15-2014 08:40 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  A girl on okc who I've been on a date with/have made half hearted plans the day before visited my profile today an said

"You look like the type of person Id go for drinks with"

I wanna say something witty. Anyone got anything?

Great first round on me, second on you...830 at XYZ bar, let's see what ya got

(03-15-2014 08:40 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  A girl on okc who I've been on a date with/have made half hearted plans the day before visited my profile today an said

"You look like the type of person Id go for drinks with"

I wanna say something witty. Anyone got anything?

Great first round on me, second on you...830 at XYZ bar, let's see what ya got

(03-14-2014 02:11 PM)Evolute Wrote:  

(03-14-2014 12:46 PM)Feo Wrote:  "Eww.. stop fucking contacting me. Please!!"

Do you guys know how I should reply to this one? I think she is shit testing me. The one before she threatened to call the cops.. I think she wanted to build tension.

Impossible to draw conclusion without getting previous texts..

I was trolling bro..

(03-15-2014 08:40 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  A girl on okc who I've been on a date with/have made half hearted plans the day before visited my profile today an said

"You look like the type of person Id go for drinks with"

I wanna say something witty. Anyone got anything?

"Don't be so sure..I'm bad news"

OK. Posting for my red pill roommate here.
Neither of us have received this before.


Met girl at club, looks like Khaleesi off Game of Thrones.

Just texted her like a week later (forgot he had number)

Him: Some greeting
Her: greeting who is this
Him: Its the guy from *club* that thought you looked like Khaleesi
*radio silence so an hour later we say fuck it and send one more*
Him: Guess you didn't want to talk. Nice meeting you
Her (quickly): sorry I'm in class right now. I'm surprised you kept my number.



What do you say back to that? Definitely a shit test... but can't figure how to play it.

^
"surprised u forgot my dashing self"

Always flip the script. Make the challenge which requires them to qualify themselves to You, not you qualifying yourself.

It's not surprising she forgot though (due to that time length), that's why I advocate sending a text immediately so it's in her phone and this excuse can't come up.

Christian, this just cracked me up because I specifically told him I hoped you'd be involved on the reply.

We always discuss game but he's been skeptical about RVF.

Thanks for a solid answer man.

Some random okc that i spoke to on the phone before but things fizzled, so i messaged her and we chatted for a little and i asked her out, gave her a k when she shit tested then sent her a message a few weeks later asking her out probably. I deleted our convo so i have no idea wtf she's talking about. She loves to throw out shit tests, which makes me wanna fuck her more
like this reply

"You asked me out and I'm not interested because i refuse to be on anyone's time"

good replies?

(03-19-2014 11:30 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  "You asked me out and I'm not interested because i refuse to be on anyone's time"

good replies?

Wow, this chick is really self-absorbed. You could tell her to have fun masturbating with her clock.

No i actually wanna fuck her though.
These type of girls feed off butthurt
I enjoy dominating these type of bitchy girls in bed

She's loves to play games/throwing shit tests and has said before

You could simply say "I have no idea what you are talking about, you aren't making any sense"

I don't really have the patience for the women you are describing(difficult for the sake of being difficult)