Post: #1

I'm not talking about solo club dancing. I'm talking about club dancing with a girl. There is grinding and all sorts of ways to dance with a girl like holding hands moving around and letting her turn and all kind of variations. I'm totally lost about this subject. This is a major obstacle in my game. I have enough girls give me eye contact in clubs but talking won't get you far in clubs, you have to dance and perhaps shout some short sentences in their ears.

I know about dancing in sync with girls. I had couple of times where girls started dancing towards me and I didn't sync them so they stopped dancing towards me. Then I learned my lesson and tried to sync the girl's move but it never goes further than 30 seconds because I have no clue what to do when dancing with a female counterpart.

I observed some other people to learn from example and it is so complicated. I'm decent dancer but I couldn't get how some guys can dance with girls they never spoken to. It seems like magic. There was one guy who was doing all kinds of flips and moves where I was like where did you learn this? Of course I guess before going in you need eye contact of the girl and feel her out before full out dancing so to say but I totally no clue how to learn this. Some people will say "just TRY".. I did. I tried dancing with just girls I know from outside the club. I knew she liked me, which is not really important since girls also dance with guys they don't "like" or "choose" but I guess I was so awkward she stopped dancing with me after 30 seconds. She didn't loose interest in me after that f-up by the way.

Roosh says you don't have to dance in his books. Maybe it is like that in US but if you are like that in Europe they will see you as low value/looser who is just standing sipping beer. I missed many opportunies because I don't know how to dance. It goes like this. I'm dancing, girl dances next to me, checking me out. At this point I just keep dancing solo and she too until to the point where she lost hope/interest in me. Or second option: some other guy, comes and takes the girl and dances with her even though the girl is not interested in him, she dances with him because girls like to dance. The point is knowing how to dance is key. Are you guys good in dancing with partner? How did you learn? I know there are some youtube videos but those are totally shit.

Post: #2

Samseau has the definitive thread on this, search "dance game" or something like that.

I think I'm a decent dancer and I usually callibrate depending on the girl's style and venue. If its an electric club or she's an obvious candy-girl, start with the EDM vibe: short staccato movements. I guess you're in Europe and I hear that tektonics is big too although I always feel a little homersexual doing the moves.

R&B and hip hop venues/clubs I either reach for the hand to twirl and get in there or side glide over to them in their direction to be cheeky.

In the end though, it's always my goal to escalate to grinding and then making out on the dance floor so maybe that's what you need to practice.

Post: #3

You mean this?
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Post: #4

Yup, that one.