Post: #1

This is some rudimentary shit, so maybe I should aim it more towards the newbies, a lot of seasoned cats may say it's the "oldest trick in the book."

If and when you are in a situation where the girl is giving you a fair amount of last minute resistance, but you already have started fooling around with her in a private location (making out, sucking breasts on the couch in your apartment), there is sexual momentum and tension, but she won't give it up... Whip out your cock and start jerking it to get hard, if it's not already.

Chances are she is horny and the sight of your dick will be the straw that breaks the camels back. This has worked for me the last two times I got laid, last night went out with this crazy chick I met at the grocery store a week prior.

The date was going alright, but as the night progressed and she got more and more buzzed she started acting more and more annoying and strange, and I could tell she probably had a few "screws loose".

It's "homecoming weekend" here at the local university, and the bars were packed last night, we got a couple drinks, but weren't feeling the vibe, so I bounced her back to her spot. At the bars I had already made out with her, and got a good bit of kino and flirting going. I was originally thinking of bouncing her to my spot, but I decided that something was "off" about her, and she had mentioned that she had the place to herself, her roommates were out of town, and that we could hang out back there.

We were on the couch in her living room, and were kind of cuddling and making out, but every time I reached for her tits or tried to put my hand on her pussy, she pushed it away.

She started getting really annoying, playing really bad loud music on her lap top, then putting on some Eddie Murphy comedy clip that was obvious she'd listened to dozens of time, and laughing hysterically when I didn't even think it was funny. I got to a point where I was just going to say fuck it and bounce, she was pushing my had away when I tried to escalate, obviously seemed like she had issues, and it was tired, and she was annoying me.

That said however, I had the feeling that if I tried a little harder I could get laid, she wasn't bad looking probably objectively a 6.5-7, but not really hot. It had been exactly 4 weeks since I last got laid and I was aching for the pussy real bad. Also in the car about an hour earlier before I drove her to her place, I popped a free sample of this "male libido enhancer", which is basically a natural boner pill, which may have had an effect on my boner which was developing.

Basically I started to say I was tired and excuse myself, and said I thought I was going to go. She encouraging me to stay and hang out longer and offered to let me crash at her place, but was adamant that nothing was going to happen between us. I took this as a sign and decided to kick it a bit longer and try to escalate again. Once again she was saying "sorry I just met you, I'm not going to have sex with you or suck your cock."

I told her that I understand and that it's cool, but I'm really horny and my dick is hard, and I'll probably jerk myself off right when I get home. She said that she would probably masturbate as soon as I left too. I was like well that doesn't make sense if we are both going to masturbate we should just hook up with each other.

She said no, and I tried to change the subject to porn, she said she likes to watch it, but only when she's alone and only to girl on girl (though she claims not to be bi-curious). I asked her if she would put some porn on and she said no, I told her I want to jerk off and asked if she wanted to watch, she said no, go to the bathroom and do it there.

At that point, I just said fuck it, and unzipped my pants, pulled my dick out which was already hard. She was like "oh my God you have a huge cock" in an admiring way, then she said "maybe I do want to have sex with you." I tried to basically stick my dick in her face to see if she would suck it, but she wouldn't and said she would probably gage and puke.

She asked me if I had a condom, which I replied I did, she led me to her bedroom, and went through two fits of "I don't know if I can do this", and "I shouldn't do this", and "were not going to do this." Meanwhile I'm just on the bed jerking my shit, she says she's got to take a piss, but when she comes back, she start to take her clothes off.

She has a pretty decent body, and when she get's on the bed she says she's got a tight pussy, which she did, I fingered her for a bit, she wanted me to do it longer, but I sensed a bit of urgency, so I put the condom on, mounted her and began plowing away.

Her pussy was tight and wet, but she was acting really weird, saying "no one has ever made me cum, I can't cum", then she was telling me "hurry up and cum, just get it over with." Normally, I'd like to pump for as long as I can, but since she was acting so bizarrely and was telling me to cum, I pretty much tried to bust as soon as I could, she did have a nice pussy which made it easier.

Afterwards she was acting all emotionally, and weird and I tried to play the nice guy and cuddle with her for a bit, and tell her she was great and I had a good time, but I knew that as soon as I got out of there, I'd never look back, and would never contact her again.

I got the notch and ended my dry spell, and I think a lot of it boiled to "when in doubt, whip it out", if a girl is already horny, the sight of your dick may be the last thing that puts her over the edge, and lets her throw logic and reason out the window.

Now obviously you want to be calibrated and only do this in the proper situation, that should go without saying. You don't whip your dick out at the wrong place at the wrong time, with the wrong girl, that could be a bad recipe.

The last chick I fucked before this one, I pretty much used the same maneuver. I had already fucked her before, she was an old fuck buddy that I was able to relight the flame with so to speak. We had sex a few times in the previous two weeks, but for some reason that night, she was trying to shut me down. I ran into her a the bars, and we went back to her place. It was pretty obvious we were on the outs for whatever reason, I was still down to hit it, but she was acting like she didn't want to.

Back at her place we made out, but she refused all my attempts at sex. Eventually I just pulled my dick out, and put her hand on it, and she started stroking it. I then put my had down her skirt, and started fingering her pussy, so we were effectively masturbating each other. She got too horny and pulled her skirt and panties down and jumped on my dick and started riding it. Unfortunately she texted me a couple days later and said she didn't want to see me anymore, but at least I got that one last fuck in.

Post: #2

Subject line of the year.

Post: #3

(09-29-2013 05:57 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Chances are she is horny and the sight of your dick will be the straw that breaks the camels back.

(09-29-2013 05:57 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  I got the notch and ended my dry spell, and I think a lot of it boiled to "when in doubt, whip it out", if a girl is already horny, the sight of your dick may be the last thing that puts her over the edge, and lets her throw logic and reason out the window.

Post: #4

Great move. I've also had this work in relationships where you get the shit-test, "Girls are not like guys, sometimes they just don't want to have sex, I'm not interested right now."

First of all, women have an organ with twice the number of nerve endings as the male penis that plays no other role in their life except with which to experience sexual pleasure.

That said, *whips it out* ... come get some.

Post: #5

Too many guys wait for the green light to escalate. I like how ballsy you are. You gotta take charge. Once you get them alone just about anything goes. Once I get them in bed it usually starts with some basic kissing. I do a reverse kino thing where I encourage them to touch me. Shit I'm usually naked first Just unbutton your shirt and say "You can touch me if you want" as I guide her hand first to my stomach and later to my cock. Let her rub it outside your pants then just unbutton and whip it out like OG says. Game on

Post: #6

Agreed, I do this all the time. I've never had a girl become angry with me for doing it.

Post: #7

I laughed when I saw this thread because I said the exact same thing in a text message to my best friend last week:

   

Post: #8

"...but as the night progressed and she got more and more buzzed she started acting more and more annoying and strange, and I could tell she probably had a few "screws loose"."

That has only happened to me with american women. Latin or european girls just aren't as fucked up in the head.

Well done men. I will take note of that manouver for future LMRs.

Post: #9

I just encountered this thread. I've been in that situation twice in the past month; where I'm making out with a chick, have my hand in her skirt, but can't close. This option definitely takes some "balls," but I have to try it out. It's a logical next step in the process. But, I fear that, upon whipping it out, the chick will back away or do something ridiculous/quit on me. I guess it's a risk...I'm willing to try it out.

Post: #10

George: "Wow. I spend so much time trying to get their clothes off I never thought of taking mine off. (2:34)

Post: #11

I'd highly recommend (if you're positioned adequately for this maneuver) that you put her hand dead on it. Your dick should be fully erect for best results

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Post: #13

(06-01-2014 11:23 AM)TonySandos Wrote:  I'd highly recommend (if you're positioned adequately for this maneuver) that you put her hand dead on it. Your dick should be fully erect for best results

If you're not as bold as to just unzip and whip it out, you can always grab her hand and have her stick it down your pants. Not quite as bold, but usually has the same effect.

Post: #14

Well, it's the dirtbag method lol

Post: #15

(06-01-2014 10:01 PM)From Vegas to Tokyo Wrote:  

(06-01-2014 11:23 AM)TonySandos Wrote:  I'd highly recommend (if you're positioned adequately for this maneuver) that you put her hand dead on it. Your dick should be fully erect for best results

If you're not as bold as to just unzip and whip it out, you can always grab her hand and have her stick it down your pants. Not quite as bold, but usually has the same effect.

OK, so we're going there, are we? Well, I remember in high school girls telling me about when they dated older guys and the guys needed their car keys. Instead of getting the keys themselves, these guys would get the girls to fish around in their pocket for them.

I think you have to have a certain persona to do that. Having a Camaro or four-wheeler probably means you're on the right track. Those with Jettas and Toyotas need not apply...

Post: #16

I was trying to bang this cute black girl a while back. Was big on wanted to wait for a few days before getting sexual, but we found ourselves making out and laying on my bed a couple times. Got pissed taking her out on dates, getting up to my room, jut for her to say "No" to taking her shirt of or doing anything besides making out and dry humping. Threw a hail mary and started undoing my pants when she started with her LMR. Once she noticed I was about to whip it out she goes:

"Did you just undo your pants?"
"Maybe"
"That's my cue to leave"

Bunk. It's by no means fool proof, even if all the signs point to "She's into it, just needs more bold encouragement"

Post: #17

Black women can be stupid sometimes. They tend to respect it if you're 'smooth' enough to stealth past her.

To put it plainly I think you would have gotten away that one if she didn't catch you mid-move or she was just using to begin with.


Recent example: I was at a hotel room with a young hood chick. I already knew that she liked me and my friend left the room to go on a run with her friend. It was her birthday. I brought a bottle when we came in to warm things up. We were doing the cuddling thing with her straddling me between her legs while everybody was there and as soon as they left I went full aggressive. I started with some shit like "while they're gone we gotta sneak our kisses in". Knowing I'm strapped for time, I yank her pants down after dry fingering her and sucking on some nipple. All was going well as long as the tension wasn't broken then...




I remember I left the condoms in the car

Post: #18

Does "whipping" it out have a much different effect than telling a girl to suck/jerk it?

Post: #19

(06-01-2014 10:32 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  I was trying to bang this cute black girl a while back. Was big on wanted to wait for a few days before getting sexual, but we found ourselves making out and laying on my bed a couple times. Got pissed taking her out on dates, getting up to my room, jut for her to say "No" to taking her shirt of or doing anything besides making out and dry humping. Threw a hail mary and started undoing my pants when she started with her LMR. Once she noticed I was about to whip it out she goes:

"Did you just undo your pants?"
"Maybe"
"That's my cue to leave"

Bunk. It's by no means fool proof, even if all the signs point to "She's into it, just needs more bold encouragement"

When in doubt, always go for the bang. I think you did right here. You'll never look back and regret this. What you would have regretted (trust me on this) if you had just lied next to her on the bed with nothing to show for it but a set of blue balls.

When in doubt, go for the prong. It tends to clarify a girl's true intentions. You've got to be smooth about it, of course.

It's not a fool proof rule, of course, but it's far more often the right move than the wrong move.

The worst feeling in life is having those nagging regrets about "should I have gone for the bang?" or not.

Post: #20

I do agree. I definitely wanted to bang her and was bummed out that she was turned off by my forwardness (believe it or not.. looks like she was actually a good girl who was reserved with her body and was firm about giving time to get really sexual). That being said, I wasn't looking to be her boyfriend or date her for a month before I actually got to see her pussy and get a blowjob. No regrets.

Post: #21

(06-01-2014 11:35 PM)Renberg Wrote:  Does "whipping" it out have a much different effect than telling a girl to suck/jerk it?

Yes, definitely a different effect.

Personally, I've always had better success with women when I just guide the situation forward through action and body language rather than verbalizing. In fact, when women are too verbal about the process, I sometimes get turned off - sex isn't a fucking academic discussion, in my opinion. It's an instinctual act and goes better when you keep it to the basics.

But apart from my own take there, in this instance, "telling" her to touch you or suck you gives her an opportunity to say no.

But just placing her hand on your dick or whipping it out offers a shortcut. It short-circuits her resistance and she may still have some doubt in her mind, but she's also getting hornier and once that ball is rolling, it becomes harder for her to hit the brakes, especially since you're not opening up a "conversation" about it.

I imagine your success rate will fall drastically if you take the verbal approach.

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Post: #22

how old was she? for some reason I only see this working on girls that are 24-25+

Post: #23

Do yall think it would still be effective with a small or average size dick?

Post: #24

This move and "grab-hand-place-on-dick" are two of the best moves I've learned from you guys. So simple, yet so effective. Thanks OG! Don't think I would've been able to break the lmr wall for my new notch if I didnt just whip it out. Cheers

Post: #25

This may sound stupid but it can work and has for me. Chicks dig tv and stupid sitcoms so thats often an easy topic of convo. Many chicks loved how i met your mother. Early on which seems to be where filler convo like talking about your fav episode of a show comes in ill often joke about the naked man episode. Ill joke when your least expecting it im gonna pull that on you. Shel laugh maybe say yeah right u guys get sum playful banter going. Then one day actually pull out that stop. It will seem less creepy and pervy bc you guys already joked about it adlnd shes familiar with the reference but still shows you have balls and you still get the shock value. Ive done this maybe 3 times and worked everytime. I should add without her being familiar with the show i wouldnt have the balls to try this