Post: #26

I think its hard to beat the Filipinas when it comes to sweet girls, the only down side is that many of them tend to be shy, some extremely shy, you really have to adjust your game over there for this. Another bonus for the Filipinas is that, from my experience, they stay sweet even when they move abroad. There's so many Filipinos in my city, Edmonton, I'm staying at this hotel and all of the cleaners, the bar tender and kitchen staff are all Filipinos, I went to get a coffee at Tim Horton's and half the staff are Filipino. I can't go a day in this city without meeting a least a couple Filipinos and they are all super cool, easy to talk to and when I mention that I was just there a few months ago we end up chatting. I dated a couple of them here but I'm still not really into the Asian girls, much prefer Latinas.

I found Thais to be sweet but the language/cultural barrier was a bit too much for me at times, I agree that Mexicans can be pretty damn sweet too.

Post: #27

(09-28-2013 01:12 PM)scotian Wrote:  I think its hard to beat the Filipinas when it comes to sweet girls, the only down side is that many of them tend to be shy, some extremely shy, you really have to adjust your game over there for this.

How would you recommend that a guy adjusts his game for shy?

He plays more indirect game, and he gets the girl to his room for reasons other than sex, like by saying that he has some cool pictures on his computer or that the air conditioner is really good in his room?

He has to engage in foreplay with shy girl for 2 hours rather than 10 minutes for non-shy girl?

He has some standard subjects that he discusses with shy girl b/c he knows shy girl is not going to help to carry the conversation?


Does shy ultimately result in boring girl? Or, if you find a topic that shy girl is interested in, like family, cooking or religion, then maybe shy girl will become more talkative?

Shy girl may not have travel experience, so may not know how to talk about travel topics, though maybe shy girl has watched a lot of television? Her experiences may or may not result in interesting conversations depending on her imagination and creativity.

In my experience, i do like when a girl can carry some of the conversation;however, i have also dated a lot of non-english speakers, so I am somewhat used to having to carry a lot of the conversation. In this respect, most pinays, at least, are going to have pretty decent English skills, from my understanding...

Carrying the conversation may be better for short-term bang relations rather than LTRs?

Post: #28

(09-28-2013 01:12 PM)scotian Wrote:  I think its hard to beat the Filipinas when it comes to sweet girls, the only down side is that many of them tend to be shy, some extremely shy, you really have to adjust your game over there for this. Another bonus for the Filipinas is that, from my experience, they stay sweet even when they move abroad. There's so many Filipinos in my city, Edmonton, I'm staying at this hotel and all of the cleaners, the bar tender and kitchen staff are all Filipinos, I went to get a coffee at Tim Horton's and half the staff are Filipino. I can't go a day in this city without meeting a least a couple Filipinos and they are all super cool, easy to talk to and when I mention that I was just there a few months ago we end up chatting. I dated a couple of them here but I'm still not really into the Asian girls, much prefer Latinas.

I found Thais to be sweet but the language/cultural barrier was a bit too much for me at times, I agree that Mexicans can be pretty damn sweet too.

Shy is good, as long as she doesn't totally hide when her needs aren't being met and starting covertly hating you.

Shy means she isn't the strong, assertive, actively whorish-to-prove-shes-daring American women who is always distancing herself and always mouthing off about it to you, expecting you to agree and congratulate her.

Shy means you might be able to have her in American and not have her aggressively flirting with every player that wants a pump and dump.

Post: #29

Another thing about Mexican girls is a lot of them have good senses of humor and they are master flirts. Humor works well on the Mexican girls, they like to laugh and will provide you with a sounding board. Fun loving. As far as flirting, they do it with their eyes and body language. They like to get close and stare into your eyes . Boner inducing. Also, a lot of them are good dancers and like to rub on you.

Post: #30

are we talking BEFORE, or AFTER you marry them ???

Post: #31

(09-28-2013 01:12 PM)scotian Wrote:  I think its hard to beat the Filipinas when it comes to sweet girls, the only down side is that many of them tend to be shy, some extremely shy, you really have to adjust your game over there for this. Another bonus for the Filipinas is that, from my experience, they stay sweet even when they move abroad. There's so many Filipinos in my city, Edmonton, I'm staying at this hotel and all of the cleaners, the bar tender and kitchen staff are all Filipinos, I went to get a coffee at Tim Horton's and half the staff are Filipino. I can't go a day in this city without meeting a least a couple Filipinos and they are all super cool, easy to talk to and when I mention that I was just there a few months ago we end up chatting. I dated a couple of them here but I'm still not really into the Asian girls, much prefer Latinas.

I found Thais to be sweet but the language/cultural barrier was a bit too much for me at times, I agree that Mexicans can be pretty damn sweet too.

Damn Scotian,

This has been my exact experience as well, filipinas are probably the sweetest chicks I've ever encountered once you get past the shyness.


Honorable Mention:

Guatemalans

Thais

Nicas

Post: #32

Please tell more about sweet girls. I'm interested to hear about Filipinas esecially.

I've been working as an English teacher all over Eastern europe for years now. I used to think the girls were sweet here, but I'm a bit disenchanted these days.

A small minority of of EE girls are sweet and trustworthy but so many have met up with me while already having a boyfriend. These girls are worth banging, but not keeping. Not surprisingly, the divorce rate in EE is the highest in the world.(60+ percent)

Post: #33

EE girls not worth keeping? That's a new one..

Post: #34

Spend several years living here and you may change your mind....or not.
But I have, so I'm looking into Asian cultures.

Post: #35

My two favourite kinds of girls are EE and East Asia, so eh.

(10-06-2013 06:27 AM)TopSpruce Wrote:  Spend several years living here and you may change your mind....or not.
But I have, so I'm looking into Asian cultures.

Post: #36

Well, no one doubts Ukrainians/Russians are beautiful, but their peronalities are a bit overrated.

Example: At a cafe this girl was yelling at her local guy telling him to spend more on the food and buy it.

-My friend's girl didn't pick up the phone all weekend and she went clubbing instead.

-Some girls just use you for food, drinks. They don't see the value in having a man(independent minded). I have yet to see a girl come over and cook for me (EXCEPT my 35 year old girlfriend. She was super feminine...but nothing like EE girls are nowadays in their early 20s).


There are a few sweet ones in EE, but they are hard to find. I met a Nigerian student here last week, so much nicer personality than EE girls. Smiling, joking, laughing...so much warmth and energy.


White girls are kinda overrated...everyone wants them, so they don't have to be as nice. Sad fact is, there are barely any traditional and sweet white girls anywhere, not even EE.

Post: #37

Well, so far it hasn't been my experience, except the fact that they aren't as smart as I thought, or maybe I just had bad luck, but as for the rest I can't complain that much.

Post: #38

I find them to be pretty smart, just not good at problem solving or reasoning. Their education forces them to memorize a lot instead of think.
Some Ukrainian girls are pretty street smart though many of the younger ones are barely literate. Belarusians are mostly about memorizing and following rules. Russians seem to be the most civilized and educated of them all. Overall though, the older ones that grew up under communism are far smarter and educated. It makes sense...economic collapse of the 90s lead to poor early education and even malnutrition among the current group of early 20s girls.

Post: #39

Anyway, back on topic, I can't quite confirm this myself, because mostly I've only spoken online, but SEA girls , specifically Pinays, seem quite sweet to me. I've had some good experiences with Polish, Baltic in general (Lithuanian specifically) and Czech ones. Although not exactly "sweet", more on the funny side though.

Post: #40

(10-06-2013 05:53 AM)TopSpruce Wrote:  Please tell more about sweet girls. I'm interested to hear about Filipinas esecially.

I've been working as an English teacher all over Eastern europe for years now. I used to think the girls were sweet here, but I'm a bit disenchanted these days.

A small minority of of EE girls are sweet and trustworthy but so many have met up with me while already having a boyfriend. These girls are worth banging, but not keeping. Not surprisingly, the divorce rate in EE is the highest in the world.(60+ percent)

Another factor is that the competition in EE is getting better. The young men under 30 seem much more relaxed and charming than the colder, more paranoid older guys.

They still don't have much money but you see mountain bike riding, artsy movie going hipsters there now who have some style. They aren't usually as well-developed ( 6 FT +) as Western young guys, but my impression is from the female POV they're not horrors either.

Being able to to really talk to a guy is a big thing with women.

Post: #41

(09-30-2013 06:28 PM)GameTheory Wrote:  are we talking BEFORE, or AFTER you marry them ???

With all women? ONe thing about Filipinas is divorce is generally not legal in the Philippines. So once a married woman has a kid, she is at a pretty big disadvantage. I'm guessing she could divorce you once you get her to the USA, but it might not be valid in Philippines.

I see their personal ads on dateinasia, it's pretty bleak, they're asking a guy to take care of the other guy's kid, "I need someone who can accept my daughter", "I trusted someone I should not have" , things like that.

And you have to compete with that kid for attention, pay its medical bills in the US if you bring it back, AND You can't marry her in the Philippines, or at all I guess, because she's still married to the cool player guy who impregnated her and split.

Bottom line is if she is married in the Philippines ( some lie about being married and having kids-- they hide the kids with relatives) she's a lot lower value.

I wonder, how do you find out decisively in a 3rd world country if a woman is married or not? Or if she has a kid or not? I don't think a lot of Filipinas would want or could afford an abortion, I see quite a few on the dating sites that have a kid at 18 or 19. The only things I can thing of is looking for unexplained absences-- any non-psychopathic mother will not want to see her kid-- , stretch marks, and the older the age the more likely she had a kid.Maybe continuous educational history so you get one at 20 YO just graduating from a nursing program.

These are some reasons why Filipinas are nice and many, many desperately want to get out. Feminism has gotten no where there.

Post: #42

(09-26-2013 10:17 AM)Aer Wrote:  Why the hell did I leave...

This

Post: #43

(10-06-2013 07:46 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  I wonder, how do you find out decisively in a 3rd world country if a woman is married or not?

Ask her to marry you? lol

If it's illegal to get divorced there, I imagine it's illegal for a married woman to get married again. And if a guy is askin about the "sweetest" women, I imagine it's because they're looking for marriage material. Decisively is a difficult one without calling them out with a proposal, I suppose, but in my experience it's not that hard to figure out which women you can trust and which you cannot in these countries.

Obviously, you'd want to at least feel like you trusted her up to that point or you wouldn't be wasting all that time, but when you finally sealed the deal, I supposed you'd find out for sure.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #44

Looks like Filipinas are up there for the sweetest girls. From my own personal experience I can totally see why. I've been dating one recently and she is very sweet and feminine. Cooks for me whenever she can, cleans/tidies without thought and is kind to all she meets. Has gone from a little shy to highly sexual and always eager to please me. Also shows no signs becoming poisoned by western culture yet.

Post: #45

(10-07-2013 04:08 PM)Jasper Wrote:  Looks like Filipinas are up there for the sweetest girls. From my own personal experience I can totally see why. I've been dating one recently and she is very sweet and feminine. Cooks for me whenever she can, cleans/tidies without thought and is kind to all she meets. Has gone from a little shy to highly sexual and always eager to please me. Also shows no signs becoming poisoned by western culture yet.

Hey Jasper: You are talking about a filipina in the USA? Maybe you can describe a few more details in order that we can get a little better idea about the situation - and maybe even the age difference between you and the filipina.

I've read on this forum about this topic coming up with RVF members considering bringing a filipina back to the USA.

Here is one recent example:

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Post: #46

Jay, sure I'll fill you in. First off I'm talking about UK. Both similar age, early 20s. I've ended up in a LTR with this girl, couldn't resist with this girl being such a contrast to all other girls I've been with. She was born and grew up in a province in Philippines, now living with family over here around 5 years. From numerous other Filipinas I know over here it seems the less time they have spent over here the nicer and sweeter they are. No surprises there really.

Post: #47

(09-25-2013 05:25 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  In your experience what countries have you found the most sweethearts?

Of the places I've visited I think Thai and Mexican women were tops. Thai women are incredibly sweet in my experience. I found Mexican(in Mexico, not Mexican-American) women quite sweet as well. Although German women have a reputation for being cold, I've found that the ones I've met on vacation outside Germany(I haven't been to Germany yet) and hosted on couchsurfing have been amongst the sweetest women I've ever met.

I lived in Thailand for 3 years and must say they are the sweetest. They are very kind and open. Germans that travel are open also because they have their eyes opened once they leave this country. Every German I have met while living in Berlin is different once they returned from a vacation abroad.

Post: #48

Oh, any theories on why? Discovering new places/people/cultures?

(10-08-2013 07:19 AM)TheDealCloser Wrote:  

(09-25-2013 05:25 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  In your experience what countries have you found the most sweethearts?

Of the places I've visited I think Thai and Mexican women were tops. Thai women are incredibly sweet in my experience. I found Mexican(in Mexico, not Mexican-American) women quite sweet as well. Although German women have a reputation for being cold, I've found that the ones I've met on vacation outside Germany(I haven't been to Germany yet) and hosted on couchsurfing have been amongst the sweetest women I've ever met.

I lived in Thailand for 3 years and must say they are the sweetest. They are very kind and open. Germans that travel are open also because they have their eyes opened once they leave this country. Every German I have met while living in Berlin is different once they returned from a vacation abroad.

Post: #49

IKE,
The best way to find out if a girl in the Phils is not married or doesn't have a kid that she may be hiding would be to first look into the middle to upper middle class category. I'd avoid the lower class who are more desperate with the likelihood of them having been married or having a local bf and kids is way higher. So stick to the middle class and above. I'd recommend before you go to sign up for either Christian Filipinas dating site or Cherry Blossoms. There are a lot of garbage yes, but also quite a few sweet, educated and beautiful middle class girls who are single, never married and no kids.

Once you get to the Phils, spend time with her, meet her family, friends, but also put yourself in an environment where you'd be interacting with middle class people. Go to the local museums, various clubs like reading or sports clubs or hit the chambers of commerce's events.

Once you meet a girl provided you've done the above, your odds of finding a scammer would be less than if you shacked up with the first hottie you'ld find. And if you're still paranoid, hire a private investigator. That should help you as well.

When are you going there?

I'm surprised no one has mentioned Brasilian girls. They can be very sweet, extremely fun to be with and an all together great time, very passionate and sexual.

Post: #50

Brazilian, and Mexican.