Post: #1

I'm being sent off next week for work and there is nothing close to the hotel but a small pub a couple of restaurants and a strip club.

Been there before and had a good conversation going with one of the girls (she volunteered her number after - unfortunately I already paid for a dance though - so I'm assuming she wants me as a regular customer).

Anyway -- any advice on gaming girls (including the servers) in these places? I've got 4 nights - 3 of which will be "slow" with limited selection... or would a guy have better luck riding the elevator at the hotel hoping for a chance encounter?

Thanks!

Post: #2

A few basics:

- Don't buy dances. You'll look like a regular customer.
- Suit up, if possible. Makes you stand out.
- Treat the bouncers, bartenders, waitstaff well - tip well.
- Act like you feel comfortable in Gentleman's club. If you already feel comfortable, then walk around like you own the spot.
- Talk to the girl, not just BS stuff...but more towards building rapport of her "outside" life.

In other words, don't act like the average customer - leering, buying drinks/dances etc and you should do well.

Post: #3

Practice your elevator game. If you can pick up chicks in an elevator you can pick up chicks anywhere.

Post: #4

(10-23-2010 11:16 PM)ZTheGreat Wrote:  Practice your elevator game. If you can pick up chicks in an elevator you can pick up chicks anywhere.

Damn.... just thought of something -- last time I was there, an attractive woman "opened" me when I got on the elevator... problem was her room was on floor 2 (mine on 7)...

I just did a basic reply to her and left the conversation at that -- I'm thinking I should have said to her, "getting off so soon? you should stay & enjoy the ride...", making sure to have that "sly smile" thing happening!

(or maybe that's a bit "direct", lol... but then... maybe....)

I'll try it out if the situation/timing "works", lol. After all, what's the worst that could happen? She slams me against the elevator wall and 'rapes' me right then & there?

Post: #5

You know...some of the masters here have talked about picking up in strip clubs, but I never found it to work for me. I think partially atleast because I don't have the patience and I really hate fake women. Asside from a nice body (and that is not always a given in the strip club anymore) most of the strippers I have met within 10 minutes either start complaining about the father of one of their kids, start fishing around for coke, how their ex is locked up or how they are studying at some prestigious University....like I give a fuck about any of that.

I think in your case, since you are on business trip just smile and bite your tongue when she starts talking bs. Best bet is to hint around at having doe and then maybe get her to come to your room. Not that they are all hookers, but there is usually an angle to why they are hanging out with dudes. I knew one girl who was my neighbor and was even just a waitress at a strip club. It seemed this bitch was out every single night ,with with some different dbag...never because she liked him, but because one had a boat and another gave [email protected] and good wine, another would pay her to drive him around in his mercedes when he was drunk ... get where Im going with this? It was rare if ever that she was hanging out with a dude near to her age, simply because she liked him. Once these sluts get a taste of cash, its all down hill from there. You can go out on a boat, drive nice cars, do free [email protected], all while still getting tipped out almost every single night of the week..with or without banging, or you can hang out with an avg Joe. Since these whores who dance have no soul to start with its an obvious choice.

Post: #6

I'm pretty sure gmanifesto has a lot to say about this. I think his site has an ebook about it but I'm not sure.

Post: #7

I've been to a few strip clubs, especially when I'm on a cold streak and need a little touch of L'Amour in order to get my mind back in the right places...

Anyway, last time I went, I went alone, and the talk with the stripper went to her asking me if I had a girlfriend, what I do for a living, and stuff like that... and I'm also wondering if this is just to get me in my "comfort stage" in order to loosen up my wallet, or if there is any potential for building something where I can bring one of these strippers back home one day.

At a certain point she was asking me where I lived, and she told me how one of her friends lives close by and that she was only working for the night, having come down from Santa Barbara, etc. Since I've never been with a stripper I can't tell if these cues are, like I said, something to loosen up the wallet or if they're hints at getting together later.

Anyway, if any of you stripclub G's know what's up, let me know!

Post: #8

Strippers are experts at tricking you into thinking they like you. Unless you're an incredibly attractive guy with epic game, they just want your money. I wouldn't waste my energy trying to game strippers.

Post: #9

Strippers during the hair band days loved the rockers and bikers. Today, the new in is black. Tomorrow, who knows.. But if you're a black boy you've got a better chance at scoring the strippers imho. To pick them outside of work go to a hip hop club on a wednesday or tuesday when stripclubs are usually slow. Here you will find a few outside of their element.

Good points from the others,,, its a 99% certainty that if you want to date them as a normal dude and buy a dance from them you are done.

Don't buy them a drink if they come to you and ask for it. Same deal with women in discos/clubs/bars. Make her work for it. On the flip side, you can practice your game of doing typically Mystery stuff of negs and handling their shit tests for example.....

I remember a few months back I went to House of Lancaster in Toronto on Queensway, here there are a lot of latin women from mexico, and dominican, brazil etc.... I saw an old man walk by the dominicana and yelled to her eres tu novio!? in my poor spanish, but she cracked a laugh and we ended up laughing and talking for a half hour after and no talk about lets go for a dance etc. A lot of these latinas were maria passapuertes (pm me for more info if you want) so,,, poking fun of them regarding this aspect and a little negging got me outside the customer realm and a potential friend or more.

A lot of times you will see strippers sitting around or standing talking to their co workers. Especially on a slower night. I recommend going on a thursday night. its not too busy, yet you still have a lot of women. Practice game on them.

Post: #10

Your Espanol needs some work Tud (mine too though don't feel bad jajaja)

PM about the Maria Passapuertes amigo.

Post: #11

(10-25-2010 03:21 PM)kerouac Wrote:  I've been to a few strip clubs, especially when I'm on a cold streak and need a little touch of L'Amour in order to get my mind back in the right places...

Anyway, last time I went, I went alone, and the talk with the stripper went to her asking me if I had a girlfriend, what I do for a living, and stuff like that... and I'm also wondering if this is just to get me in my "comfort stage" in order to loosen up my wallet, or if there is any potential for building something where I can bring one of these strippers back home one day.

At a certain point she was asking me where I lived, and she told me how one of her friends lives close by and that she was only working for the night, having come down from Santa Barbara, etc. Since I've never been with a stripper I can't tell if these cues are, like I said, something to loosen up the wallet or if they're hints at getting together later.

Anyway, if any of you stripclub G's know what's up, let me know!

They're always trying to get you into that comfort zone. There's crucial moments that occur though when you gotta turn it back around on them. What I've learned over the years is that the situation with girls that dance can always sway in either direction and can happen really damn fast.

In your case this would have been my move no joke:

Since she's working to get you all comfortable with the location info and the tale that she's only doing this one night. (Let's be real here, if she was only doing it one night why wouldn't she be hustling? The object is for you to think she's "fresh") Now talk name, HER REAL ONE. No matter what she tells you, act like you don't believe her. Sell it. Call her on her common stripper story. Tell her your old girlfriend who danced at Roxy's in East St. Louis, then moved to Vegas to work at the Rhino then got called to work at 939 in Honolulu and you haven't seen her since but you talk and she just paid cash for a 5-series (get the envy up) used to tell the same stories. Your girlfriend danced as Diamond, but when she started chatting it up told everyone her real name was Vanessa, the whole time her name was Carli with an I. (slutty name envy). Your girl got her tits done in Hawaii and that's not your thing, but she wants to come see you next week. You think you're gonna tell her you're too busy to see her. Girls that dance are some of the most jealous creatures on this planet. You sell that story quickly and well you get her brain going "I'm gonna fuck this bitch's man." At that point it's easy. Omit the last part if the dancer has implants.

Now the closer: Go back to the name and fight her on it. Make her show you an ID. Girls might say they don't have one, but they wouldn't be dancing in there without. Sometimes they got a good fake, and well you just have to accept that. If she heads to the lockers and actually comes back and shows you one, it's your game to lose. Now you just forced comfort out of the norm onto her, and you're both comfy.

Since things are spun your way, it's time for the very simple "Well you don't give a shit about this place, let's get a drink somewhere else" line.

An important thing to note is that I find it tough as hell to go straight from the club she dances at to sex at my house. I've done it, but I bet my numbers are almost 85% when I pull them out of the club and take them for a drink or two elsewhere. Even a good late night restaurant. The better the place the more your chances go up, so no Denny's.

If you go back and it just so happens to be the second night she's dancing and that's it, I give you a 75% chance of getting laid.

Aloha!

Post: #12

@Kona Solid info Bra!! I never gamed strippers in their actual work venue, but will give your routine a shot at a strip club! If it works, and I get a bang from it...I got a bottle of Cris ready to be delivered to your door...my word - no shit!

Mixx

Post: #13

(11-03-2010 09:35 AM)MiXX Wrote:  @Kona Solid info Bra!! I never gamed strippers in their actual work venue, but will give your routine a shot at a strip club! If it works, and I get a bang from it...I got a bottle of Cris ready to be delivered to your door...my word - no shit!

Mixx

In that case let me make it easier for you (me).

Head up north to Panama City Beach area. Of course it's a shit town, but there's a club called Golden Nugget that's still gotta be there. In my Pensacola days I bet my percentage was 100. I never left without a girl. And that place always had some good ones. Hawaii has the best clubs, swoopability wise, in my opinion. That's because they're smaller, and lapdances are illegal. The girls are pushing $20-40 drinks Asian hostess bar style. The Golden Nugget had a Hawaiian Feel to it because of the face time I always got with the girls. They were there to get you to drink as much as they wanted to dance for you.

Let's get that bottle out here.

Aloha!

Post: #14

me too! I have a soft spot in my heart for dirty sluts! I'll deliver a bottle of gray goose to your spot [email protected]

Post: #15

Kona, your post is money! I'm going to try this out soon and see how it pans out.

Post: #16

(11-08-2010 03:20 PM)kerouac Wrote:  Kona, your post is money! I'm going to try this out soon and see how it pans out.

Try it out here, I think this place is in your neck of the woods, Kerouac: http://www.hawaii-theatre.com/main.html. I've always wanted to check it out.

If they really have Polynesian girls I'll be on a plane shortly.

Aloha!

Post: #17

Tight advice Kona. Thanks

Post: #18

In no particular order:

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2010/07/how...tress.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2009/06/str...pping.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/10/adv...xotic.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/07/gen...l-bar.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2005/10/101...-week.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2006/01/man...ative.html

http://www.stripclubseduction.com/produc...port-G.pdf