Post: #1

More advice anyone, lol.

So this really special girl to me just had her bf dump her... her & I had a great connection, but I had a 'wussy' moment that cause her to dump me almost 2 years ago.

We talk regularly and often, hooked up once earlier this year, but that's been it. Now her latest bf of about 5 months dumped her (I don't know the reasons) and she's looking to me for comfort (not sexual, yet - just emotional). I've been there for her like this before too.

Any quick advice on the situation? This girl is a special one - and I'd always want to be a close friend, if nothing more... so do I comfort, or try & go for more out of her again?

On top of that, I have 2 'new' ones starting to go after me... and one other 'ok' situation on the go now, lol. 2 years ago, I wouldn't have believed this many women would have an interest in me, lol. (Thanks to the community for all the help so far).

Post: #2

(10-20-2008 09:13 PM)mcr Wrote:  Any quick advice on the situation?

Yeah, walk away from her.

(10-20-2008 09:13 PM)mcr Wrote:  This girl is a special one - and I'd always want to be a close friend, if nothing more... so do I comfort, or try & go for more out of her again?

Definitely need to walk away from her.

(10-20-2008 09:13 PM)mcr Wrote:  On top of that, I have 2 'new' ones starting to go after me... and one other 'ok' situation on the go now, lol. 2 years ago, I wouldn't have believed this many women would have an interest in me, lol. (Thanks to the community for all the help so far).

Focus your time and energy on these pursuits.

Post: #3

Do what you have to in order to get laid. Other then that walk away from relationship prospects.

Post: #4

What trotter said.

Big warning flag though with "special girl". Pretty much guarantees you'll go beta on her.