Post: #51

Seems like you're past that rough patch OG.

It sucks when you have to ride out the player lows, but the positive is that it's just a matter of time before you get out of it and rise again.

I've heard it mentioned in the forum before, that dry spells are a sign your level of game is increasing. I'm not sure exactly why yet, but it seems to be true, I experienced that throughout the latter part of 2013.

Post: #52

(09-10-2013 09:50 PM)horn Wrote:  Woman are emotional creatures. Their feelings change overnite or in a heartbeat and it may have nothing to do with you. Her ex-bf she still loves who dumped her 3 months ago may have called. She may be out of town visiting a sick family member and when she gets back she's not feeling like going out or a relationship. You may have made out all nite on the couch, half-naked, she tells you she is really falling for you but won't sleep with you tonite - ASD, rag, roommate, whatever, and then you don't hear from her for a week. Who the hell knows what goes on in their pretty little heads?

that just happened to me, I hadn't caught feelings but the girl said I reminded her of her ex and then said a few days later he contacted her after a year and wanted to meet up(he is the only one to hit it) she said he put hands on her thats why they broke up but I still knew my clock was ticking, got the i'm no longer interested text today, I didn't end up tapping and oh well I don't think I missed much.

I've caught major feelings twice, in 2003 and 2013, I wasn't physically attracted to either of them, the one last year if she spent all day getting ready the best she could do is a 6, mysterious how these things work I guess i'm not due again until 2023.

Post: #53

I'm new to the board and wanted to bring this up. I searched but didn't find a related post, so this seems to be the thread. The topic is your game just melting away: is that catching feelings?

I was at a pool party at a club. An offbeat beautiful swimsuit model came on to me subtly. (You'd be surprised how common this can be.) I started off cool, and halfway though just melted, stared, and was like "you're so hot! you're so hot!". It sucked to see her walk away. This doesn't happen to me much, but I guess the girl was just too my-type.

Obviously, I'd like to prevent anything like this from happening in the future.

lowbudgetballer

Post: #54

I see no curse in it. I openly talk about my heartbreaks, being "broken", constrained feelings etc and girls eat it all up like crazy. In terms of attraction/connection no high value/DHV type of stuff can come even close to personal emotional talk like that. And the more fucked up and dramatic it is the better. Kind of blessing actually