Post: #1

http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archiv...ve/279361/

Quote:Davecat met his future wife, Sidore Kuroneko at a goth club in 2000, so the story goes. The less romantic but perhaps more true version is that he saved up for a year and a half to buy her online. She cost about $6,000.

Sidore is a RealDoll, manufactured by Abyss Creations in the shape of a human woman. She is covered in artificial skin made of silicone, so she’s soft. These high-end, anatomically correct—even equipped with fake tongues—love dolls (or capital-D Dolls) are ostensibly made for sex. But 40-year-old Davecat (a nickname acquired from videogames that he now prefers to go by) and others who call themselves iDollators see their dolls as life partners, not sex toys. Davecat and Sidore (or, as he sometimes calls her, Shi-chan) obviously aren’t legally married, but they do have matching wedding bands that say “Synthetik [sic] love lasts forever,” and he says they’re considering some sort of ceremony for their 15th anniversary.

When and why did you purchase your first Doll? Were you thinking of companionship at the time, or was it just for sex?

I bought Shi-chan back in 2000. Admittedly, my reasons for purchasing her were 70 percent sex, 30 percent companionship. I've always been attracted to artificial women such as mannequins, and especially Gynoids, which are robots made in the likeness of human females. In late 1998 one of my best friends, showed me the RealDoll website, as she knew I was keen on artificial women. I thought they were gorgeous creations, and having one would not only dispel loneliness, but be excellent for sex as well. And I was right!

Have you ever been in a relationship with a human woman, and would you want to in the future? Do you find yourself attracted to human women?

I'd been in relationships with organic women prior to, and after, having Shi-chan enter my life. When I say “relationships,” I really mean “affairs where I was the other man;” I've never been in a situation where I was with an organic woman who didn't already have a boyfriend.

I don't consider myself to be a very persuasive person; when I was growing up, my father was always pushing me into doing things that I didn't want to do, and as a consequence, I didn't ever want to be That Guy Who's Being Aggressively Persuasive. So instead of asking whatever lass I was with to consider me as a boyfriend, I simply wouldn't force the issue.

I'm still quite attracted to organic women, at least visually. But just because someone's attractive doesn't mean they have a mindset or a personality that’s compatible with my own. I figure that instead of chasing after an ideal person who either doesn't exist in the first place, or is already with someone else, why not buy a Doll? I don't gamble, and I'm not keen on taking emotional chances. We've all seen relationships where things start out fantastically, and then just end up falling apart. A friend of mine just got divorced after 17 years of marriage. That's an enormous investment of time, money, and emotion, and I'm not interested in having someone in my life who may bail at any time, or who transforms into someone unpleasant. Ultimately, getting romantically involved with an organic woman doesn't seem worth it to me.

- This guy is fucking other guys wives or girlfriends.

Post: #2

it's like he's living in a fairy tale instead of facing the real world. video games is aiding all these losers check out of real life where they are losers.

who gets a sex doll for companionship? adopt a fucking dog from the shelter or something!

Post: #3

Hollywood made a movie about this a few years ago.

Post: #4

(09-06-2013 10:54 AM)bacon Wrote:  Hollywood made a movie about this a few years ago.

Twas a great movie, actually.

Post: #5

(09-06-2013 11:22 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Twas a great movie, actually.

Yep. In my top ten.

Post: #6

Joins micro-culture of goth to reduce competition for women. Adopts the lifestyle, music, clothes, haircut, but doesn't get any girls and is stuck instead as a beta-orbiter. Rather than write this off as a failed experiment after a couple of months and exploring other scenes (like turning Country-Western) or traveling to meet girls a different way, he doubles-down on goth and buys a sex doll instead. Still has same haircut from 23 years ago, which I believe is when goth was last popular. Has wasted decades of his youth immersed in video games instead of human interaction, leaving him still unable to approach women.

Complains about the expense of being with real women, but takes a year and a half to save a paltry $6,000, and lives in a one bedroom apartment at age 40. Still so cheap he uses milk crates for storage like he's an 8 year old boy with a collection of frogs.

Also, buys fake nerdy glasses for fake woman. Huh.

Now once again, rather than change, grow, or try something different, he's doubling down on the sex doll lifestyle.
He's now an "activist".

Learn from other people's mistakes. He's an example of what not to do.

Post: #7

This guy has a mental illness and needs therapy. It's one thing to fuck one of these dolls. It's kinky and perverse and maybe I can see guys doing it out of novelty. But to be "in a relationship" with a piece of silicone is a whole other level.

Post: #8

Quote:This guy has a mental illness and needs therapy. It's one thing to fuck one of these dolls. It's kinky and perverse and maybe I can see guys doing it out of novelty. But to be "in a relationship" with a piece of silicone is a whole other level.

...and to do all of that on national TV (TLC channel)... sub-omega.

Post: #9

Just another failed man. Nature pumps them out by the millions. Just be glad you aren't one of them.

Post: #10

(09-06-2013 10:35 AM)Clyde Wrote:  We've all seen relationships where things start out fantastically, and then just end up falling apart. A friend of mine just got divorced after 17 years of marriage. That's an enormous investment of time, money, and emotion, and I'm not interested in having someone in my life who may bail at any time, or who transforms into someone unpleasant.

- This guy is fucking other guys wives or girlfriends.

Tidbit of red-pill in a sea of blue.

Post: #11

Yeah but question remains: Does the doll swallow?

Post: #12

Quote:I thought they were gorgeous creations, and having one would not only dispel loneliness

Upon reading the first two sentences I immediately wondered if his doll-o-philia might be just a heavily rationalized adaptation to failure or extreme environmental stress in the sexual market (similar to women who discover lesbianism after being pump 'n' dumped 50 times, or gays in prison) and then this sentence confirmed it.

I have sympathy and undestanding for this guy as long as he doesn't try to present this as somehow positive or worth aspiring to, or lobbies for stupid laws to prevent "discrimination" against him. His lifestyle might be extremely disturbning, but at least he is not (currently) harming anyone.

Post: #13

(09-06-2013 10:50 PM)TheBlackNarwhal Wrote:  Yeah but question remains: Does the doll swallow?

She can't even make a sammich!

2/10 WNB.

Post: #14

(09-06-2013 10:50 PM)TheBlackNarwhal Wrote:  Yeah but question remains: Does the doll swallow?

She can't even make a sammich!

2/10 WNB.

Post: #15

(09-06-2013 11:33 AM)Acute Angle Wrote:  

(09-06-2013 11:22 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  Twas a great movie, actually.

Yep. In my top ten.

Just watched the trailer, thanks chaps I have a new movie to watch today. I went to Blockbuster and got a load of foreign language films yesterday. One was 'Das Experiment'... bloody brilliant.

Post: #16

Davecat is around 40:00.

Around 44:00 you can see a woman who is with one of these doll lovers.


I've seen this video posted various places. Lots of emotionally damaged girls want Davecat. He could easily pull goths and other damaged goods but he's too gutless. He's scared. He's scared of being judged. He wants to return to mommy's arms and be loved unconditionally. He's ruined.