Post: #26

(09-12-2014 12:42 AM)OnlyMarryInTajikistan Wrote:  It reads like a parody.

That's what these strong independent educated city girls don't seem to realize - guys are getting wise to their rationalized machinations and realize it's all bullshit.

Post: #27

"...he was probably a douche bag, but for some reason, I didn’t really care." - Unless you have social status (or okc good looks), you have to be a little douchy to get her attention...and maybe build attraction.

"I kind of enjoyed the annoying sarcastic banter. I knew I would hate him." - Hate is so close to wuv.

"I met him outside the bar. He was cute, but not my type." - She appears to not have a type...or have all types.

Post: #28

(09-12-2014 11:43 AM)heavy Wrote:  "...he was probably a douche bag, but for some reason, I didn’t really care." - Unless you have social status (or okc good looks), you have to be a little douchy to get her attention...and maybe build attraction.

"I kind of enjoyed the annoying sarcastic banter. I knew I would hate him." - Hate is so close to wuv.

"I met him outside the bar. He was cute, but not my type." - She appears to not have a type...or have all types.

Roissy wrote once about the "secret world," not to be confused with RSD's "secret society." He meant to create a little cloud of intimacy that covered you and he and no one else and pumping it to create emotional vibe. As this story illustrates, I think it's important for a dude to create this sort of environment when gaming a girl and esp on the road to seduction. If she feels like it's your secret, the emotional power of the experience is all the more.

In this case, he created it by talking about sex stuff (intimate subjects), then isolating her and creating an environment where it was OK for her to do those things and didn't have to worry about being seen or confronting her "presentable" personality.

Post: #29

This single article brings out so many points discussed on this forum; it's beyond ridiculous. I'm gonna have to go with satire/fake too.

Post: #30

(09-12-2014 11:52 PM)Jura Wrote:  This single article brings out so many points discussed on this forum; it's beyond ridiculous. I'm gonna have to go with satire/fake too.

I doubt it's fake. The hamster really is that ridiculous.

Post: #31

Every girl is "that kind of girl"; it's all in whether or not she's willing to show it to a potential partner.

Post: #32

(09-13-2014 04:25 AM)OnlyMarryInTajikistan Wrote:  

(09-12-2014 11:52 PM)Jura Wrote:  This single article brings out so many points discussed on this forum; it's beyond ridiculous. I'm gonna have to go with satire/fake too.

I doubt it's fake. The hamster really is that ridiculous.

These chicks that live in NYC really are semi-nuts - they brag about how they are living the life in the greatest place on earth, then turn around and deliver non-stop bitching about everything, especially dating and guys.

Most of what they are complaining about is that the market is competitive. They are lots of really baller dudes in NYC, particularly Manhattan with its finance community. Unfortunately for the girls, these guys have lots of options and are accustomed to testing them out.

Post: #33

I kept glossing over this thread the last few days, but honestly. That was hilarious. As if any further proof is needed?

Post: #34

After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

Post: #35

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

My favorite is the line "Not here for hookups" in 50% of the profiles from websites that you just mentioned. WTF are you here for then, to meet the love of your life?

Post: #36

(09-15-2014 11:49 AM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

My favorite is the line "Not here for hookups" in 50% of the profiles from websites that you just mentioned. WTF are you here for then, to meet the love of your life?

Better yet, "I'm just here for friends"

Post: #37

(09-15-2014 01:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:49 AM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

My favorite is the line "Not here for hookups" in 50% of the profiles from websites that you just mentioned. WTF are you here for then, to meet the love of your life?

Better yet, "I'm just here for friends"

It's funny, because I just view it as a thinly veiled shit test. "I'm just here for friends" is just code for "I'm DTF but try to act like I'm not."

Post: #38

(09-15-2014 02:51 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 01:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:49 AM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

My favorite is the line "Not here for hookups" in 50% of the profiles from websites that you just mentioned. WTF are you here for then, to meet the love of your life?

Better yet, "I'm just here for friends"

It's funny, because I just view it as a thinly veiled shit test. "I'm just here for friends" is just code for "I'm DTF but try to act like I'm not."

Haha, I see the same shit and shake my head. "Not here for hookups" is always code for "I've hooked up before but demand to be treated like the lady I'm not." Some girls are more honest and say "not here for hookups, I'm done with that stuff."

What I don't get is why these chicks think that putting that on there is actually going to have any effect. They seem to think that players will read their profile and think "woop, movin' on to the next girl." But good players have heard this line before and know how to work around it.

Post: #39

(09-15-2014 01:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:49 AM)tallandblonde Wrote:  

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

My favorite is the line "Not here for hookups" in 50% of the profiles from websites that you just mentioned. WTF are you here for then, to meet the love of your life?

Better yet, "I'm just here for friends"

Note to self: Search for keyword “hookups” and/or “friends” in OKC & POF…

Post: #40

I just started banging a new gal and she told me this morning "We don't always have to have sex", which is music to my ears. Any gal that has said that to me has always had sex.

Post: #41

Damn, story in OP is raw, honest, telling, and... typical.

Sounds like just about every basic girl.

All of them want to fuck guys that they hate on paper. Pay attention to that confession. She felt emotion. See how his witty sarcastic banter kept her engaged. She "knew she would hate him" which means his demeanor was challenging to her. He made her feel something.

He wasn't afraid to be sexual early on. He was bold, and when he kissed her it was passionate. Got her tingly and she wanted more. Being sexual and flirty - ramping up to the kiss - he knew he was getting laid and had surely done this same deal plenty of times before with girls just like her.

Good stuff. Great game lessons on display there plain as day.

Post: #42

A great lesson on look at what she says, and look at what she does - always opposite.

Post: #43

I reckon this is a dude who has written this to troll. The irony is too obvious.

Post: #44

Every minute you spend reading women waxing philosophical about their dating experiences is a minute of your life wasted.

Post: #45

This was definitely written by a man.

Which makes all the funnier because that's exactly how women rationalise their thoughts.

Post: #46

(09-15-2014 11:36 AM)kaotic Wrote:  After a Tinder/OKC/POF bang:

"I've never done this before" - Every girl.

I like that evolution has programmed Anti-Slut-Defense in mulitple languages. Pre-bang, "I usually don't do this". "Neither do I." then seal the deal.

Post: #47

Its always a struggle when you are snuggled up with a LTR and feeling the feels, as your mind drifts to all the bad boys she sucked off behind the dumpster 10 mins after she met them....

Post: #48

I could't think about other thing that this photo haha.

Post: #49

Woman-ese: "I'm not that type of girl"

English Translation: She is that type of girl just not with you; if the right kind of guy comes along she is that type of girl.

Post: #50

I get this response from women who see me as more than a good fucking and actually want something long-term. They're trying to qualify themselves as relationship material after being a promiscuous slut for long periods of time. That's why it might not be good to reveal that you're a stable guy with his shit together early on in some cases.