Post: #1

This is a spin-off from what I posted in the Performance Anxiety thread, it got me thinking:

I had a gorgeous girl just leave the house. Fucked all night. Super wet. Squirts. She came 4 times. I didn't come while fucking at all, only came when she jerked me off in the beginning. She refused to suck me off because I "sleep around". That's not very nice considering how much of a whore she probably is (she told me about a threesome she once had with 2 dudes, which subconsciously kinda creeped me out, even though I know exactly what to expect with these bitches)

I'm finding that the actual intercourse isn't bringing me that much joy. It's impossible to cum wearing condoms, it hurts my dick if the pussy is too tight OR too shallow (if I'm hitting something in the far end of the pussy, not sure what that is, seems to not hurt her but me), it is way too physically exhausting when I keep going on for a long time, I'm sweating and running out of breath.

Mind you, the girls are all gorgeous, and I'm super proud of landing them AND super turned on, always rock hard.

I'm sure some if it is mental, but I'm not sure how to approach it.

Has anyone here dealt with the same? I'm not sure what to do, I can't possibly stop wearing condoms, or only fuck girls who had kids so the pussy isn't too tight. And I can't really expect a SNL to give blowjobs. After all I wouldn't eat her pussy until after she gets an aids test, so why would she?

Post: #2

This is pretty common, try quitting porn and masturbation for a couple of months and see what happens. Your case sounds really similiar to the cases on the YBOP website. Here is a link to the thread we have going. Good luck!

NoFap Roosh Thread

Your Brain On Porn

Post: #3

It's mental

First, you already came and its natural not to care about the girl or enjoy sex after you cum, your outlook is completely different

Second, you might be having sex with these women just as an ego boost/something to do...nor because you're horny

Nofap doesn't do anything don't waste your time

Post: #4

(09-04-2013 10:18 AM)Waffles Wrote:  I'm sure some if it is mental, but I'm not sure how to approach it.

Has anyone here dealt with the same? I'm not sure what to do, I can't possibly stop wearing condoms, or only fuck girls who had kids so the pussy isn't too tight. And I can't really expect a SNL to give blowjobs. After all I wouldn't eat her pussy until after she gets an aids test, so why would she?

It's all mental.

You're not going to get HIV from eating pussy.

The best way to get over this is to stop being a player. That's right, stop being a player. For a while. Pick one girl and have a relationship with her for a while. Up your beta, find out what you like about her, and sex her only for several months. Get tested together, get her on the pill, fuck her raw, cuddle afterwards. Develop an emotional connection.

You can always go back to the player role. The transition isn't as hard as it's been made out to be. You're not losing anything by bunning up for a while.

The real issue is you're having sex for ego gratification - "look at me, I get hot pussy, look at me, LOOK AT ME!!!" - and it's no longer enough to gratify you. Develop the other crucial aspects of your game - how to have an intimate connection with a woman.

Post: #5

Everyone - I appreciate the advice.

I'm gonna try nofap, got nothing to lose really. Seems like it could help. I really have developed a slight lesbian porn addiction.

Lurker - good advice about relationships, but that's easier said than done. Most of these girls are enjoying the single life just as much as me, probably more. They don't want a relationship until they find their "soulmate" whatever the fuck that means. In the meantime they don't want to get "tied down". What you're describing is what I had with my high school sweetheart aka oneitis years ago, but we were 17 when we met, you think differently at that age.

Also, you can definitely get HIV from eating pussy.

Post: #6

The thing you were hitting was her cervix. Try a different position.

The per contact risk of receptive oral sex with a known infected partner is estimated at 0.04%.

Quote:There have been no per contact risks provided for unprotected receptive fellatio with a known HIV positive individual. However, Vittinghoff et al have come up with an estimate of 0.04% following receptive oral intercourse with a known, or possibly HIV infected, partner.

And finally,

Quote:Receptive fellatio with ejaculation with a known HIV individual is probably the only oral sex activity of sufficient risk to justify consideration of provision of PEP.

http://sti.bmj.com/content/77/5/307.full

You're more likely to kill yourself by slipping and falling in a post coital shower than going down on a random girl.

Post: #7

Another troll post from Waffles, who is likely female. Read it carefully: total exaggeration, use of the word "creeped," and (most importantly) a desire to fuck up everyone's game with disinformation.

No real guy feels this way. Admins: I called it first!

Post: #8

Lol WHAT? Are you retarded? I'm the troll? "No real man feels this way" that's great advice dude. Foh

Post: #9

(09-04-2013 10:27 AM)n0000 Wrote:  This is pretty common, try quitting porn and masturbation for a couple of months and see what happens. Your case sounds really similiar to the cases on the YBOP website. Here is a link to the thread we have going. Good luck!

NoFap Roosh Thread

Your Brain On Porn

You assume that it's masturbation.

Quitting masturbation won't help your game. Getting good game will.

The best way to stop masturbating is to get your game together and you will find yourself doing it less and whining about it on message boards.

Post: #10

(09-04-2013 07:33 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  Another troll post from Waffles, who is likely female. Read it carefully: total exaggeration, use of the word "creeped," and (most importantly) a desire to fuck up everyone's game with disinformation.

No real guy feels this way. Admins: I called it first!

I just figured it was some big baller troll, but meh, it could either be a woman or a gay man trying to troll all of us with nonsense.

Post: #11

(09-04-2013 07:33 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  Another troll post from Waffles, who is likely female. Read it carefully: total exaggeration, use of the word "creeped," and (most importantly) a desire to fuck up everyone's game with disinformation.

No real guy feels this way. Admins: I called it first!

Yeah, something wasn't seeming right about the "problem" Waffles was having b/c even if a guy may feel bad about how one bang went, the guy would not feel bad to have those kinds of options and to put various girls on rotation.

This is a problem that most guys would love to have, except, sometimes, the guy might feel bad b/c the girls are going psycho on him and the guy is having a hard time juggling and handling the various girls that he has in his rotation.

Post: #12

Generally speaking, I think sex is overrated by many people.