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(09-04-2013 04:49 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

(09-04-2013 04:25 PM)Ensam Wrote:  The reason I try and avoid situations like these has nothing to do with the other guy. It's all about the girl. There's no such thing as one crazy person in a long term relationship. Either this guy is unstable and she's staying with him despite the warning signs or he's a normal dude whose buttons she knows how to exquisitely press. In either case there's something up with her. Girl digs drama one way or the other.

Totally agree. Without trying to be critical of anyone on this forum, but some guys have had some crazy experiences, but a lot of the posters make it seem like only the girl was all fucked up. Why would she be attracted to you unless you matched her in some way. Rarely do I see a post where the OP admits to being sort of fucked in the head, loves drama and admits to it. That would be too responsible.

Unless she was the one (ugh oneitis), I would stay away from girls that are involved. I know a lot of guys like the challenge, but it is also for their egos. They need to feed their egos and the girls need to feed their egos. Being ego driven generally ends in disaster.

Let me be one of the few to say this:

I like drama, it gives me an adrenaline rush and feeds my ego.

Some women deserve the drama because they think no one will find out about their BS. It puts them in their places and teaches them not to wrong again.

Nothing like that call at 3am from the drunk hubby telling you he's going to shoot you.....

Post: #52

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