Post: #1

Everything is going as planned last night. I decided to try to be a little more of an asshole instead of funny guy. After reading more on this site I realized funny guy game just shows too much interest in the girl sometimes and even though it has worked in the past for me this was my first time with this result.

1. Girl is having drinks

2. I am baiting her in with asshole game and then freezing her out after I start to show interest. (before I was skipping this freezing out part)

3. She tells me that she likes that I am an asshole but wants to know that if we date that I would surprise her with flowers sometimes. (I told her call my mom and she will tell your I am very nice)

4. She drops me off at my building because I walked and I tell her to come up for a drink (she loves angry orchard and fireball and I have it at my place).

She says "If I go up there you will never talk to me again and don't even tell me you will"

I pushed a little harder and started making out with her in her car and started to feel her body and her boobs. Then she took my hands off her boobs and said not tonight but maybe next time.

So as to not come off as needed like I think I have in the past I simply got up quickly took her hand and kissed it on the top and said "nice meeting you"

I think she was somewhat shocked and thought I was going to keep pushing or begging.

I text her the next day (today) at about 4 pm and I told her once I get back from this big rodeo I am going to for the weekend that we should hang out on sunday.

She text back "We could do that but only if you promise to wink at some cowboys for me."




My thoughts: I have never been told I am an asshole before and I have never seen a girl so into it. I said a few things to her that I was scared if they would come off as too mean but this bitch fucking liked it.

Any thoughts on how to proceed besides smashing it on sunday?

Post: #2

Just guessing, but she likely enjoy being choked and fucked hard. If you can do that, you are gold.

what you are doing, is called "negging", and some women really respond to it(usually the ones that are fucked up emotionally, so most of them).

Post: #3

I really need to work on my asshole game, I rely too much on kino and normal talk. Any tips on how to develop my asshole game?

Post: #4

(08-31-2013 03:35 AM)freerider Wrote:  I really need to work on my asshole game, I rely too much on kino and normal talk. Any tips on how to develop my asshole game?

I think my signature sums it up best. You have to be willing to go too far in what you say to her or you will never push her far enough. I'm guessing sometimes this negging doesn't always work but boy when it does they sure respond. I feel like you have to build at least some attraction before you start negging or they will justh hate you.

Treat her like one of the boys in one sense. When you are out with your guy friends you aren't afraid to call each other out for shit and make fun of each other for your downfalls but just be a little nicer about it when you are doing it with a girl. Make sure she knows that you aren't super fucking mean just an asshole. I read an article on some site about it last night and it pretty much said be an asshole because that is temporary but dont be a douchebag because that is a way of life.

I had told her that her face always looks angry and that she should smile more. (It really didn't look that angry but I just felt like saying it and she responded well to that when I told her.)

She had told me she thought I worked out earlier in the night and when we were leaving the bar I gave her a hand to help lift her out of the lounge couch we were sitting in and then I let her fall back down into the chair and I said "I dont work out THAT much!" as to say she is too heavy.

In contrast to my POF date tonight.

We planned on meet at 8. She calls me at 7:15 and this is what happens.

Her: Hey a girl from my hometown is at (bars name) which is close by where we were going to meet would you mind if we hung out together.

Me: Sure but not that bar because I have some past altercations there and I prefer not to go there anymore (in reality my main girls relative works there and I dont want to get caught)

Her: Ok I will text you when Im in your city

she lives about 30 minutes away.

1 hours fucking later

Her: I am at the bar (the one I told her I wont go to)

Me: Ok I am already at the bar (different one that is about 10 minutes away but in reality I am still sitting at home but I didn't want her to think I was waiting for her ass.)

Her: Ok we are coming to your bar

Me: Actually I am headed home because I have to unlock my place because my buddy left his phone at my condo (I was still just sitting at home so I didn't want to get caught not actually being there.)

Her: Hey when are you getting here??????

Me: Don't wait up for me.

Her: What the hell?

Me: I thought you wanted to hang out with the girl from your hometown? lol



No response back. This bitch is getting mad at me after she was fucking late and pulls a last minute switcheroo on me. Fuck her

Post: #5

(08-31-2013 03:00 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  Just guessing, but she likely enjoy being choked and fucked hard. If you can do that, you are gold.

what you are doing, is called "negging", and some women really respond to it(usually the ones that are fucked up emotionally, so most of them).

As long as I can last longer then 5 minutes! I think I will do alot of pre sex fingering since I seem to have gotten better at that over the last few months.

Post: #6

wtf
she was dtf
sorry bro but you lost it

Post: #7

We are hanging out again in about 2 hours.

Since we made out on the last date should I go for the kiss when I greet her this time?

Post: #8

(09-01-2013 06:10 PM)murrb Wrote:  We are hanging out again in about 2 hours.

Since we made out on the last date should I go for the kiss when I greet her this time?

Of course.

Post: #9

Well I got it! I think my favorite part and maybe even better than the sex was afterwards when I recognized her hamster started spinning full speed ahead!

She was literally laying in my bed and I was watching tv not paying attention to her and she kept saying things like "I knew you were just trying to get me up to your place." "Admit it you only invited me to that bar next to your building so you could get me up here?" She was literally going on and on about how she knew I was trying to sleep with her and I just stayed indifferent and told her things like "No I was actually really surprised we had sex I didn't expect it to happen."

She was an 8 with a good job and was telling me how I am lucky because the only reason she came up with me is because most guys are falling all over her.

Then she was asking me if I was going to call her back (she has been extremely worried about getting pumped and dumped)

I asked her why are you so worried about it if it has never happened to you and then she finally admitted it had happened before. haha

I'm only making baby steps but it feels good.

Post: #10

Nice job bro. Yeah she had things going on in her head afterwards lol