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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
(08-24-2013 07:08 AM)Aliblahba Wrote: I think there's money to be made in teaching women how to pickup men. I know a lot of attractive girls that suffer from approach anxiety. It's a new concept for them, as the traditional roles have changed. Men aren't doing it anymore.
I don't know if it's exactly a good thing for women to overcome approach anxiety. One of the reasons it's possible to pull hot women for guys with average looks and a dose of game is because a lot of guys just don't have the nuts to try. If we swing the power into the women's side of the court and they approach, they're naturally going to only choose the best-looking guys, and those guys aren't exactly going to be turning hot women away. Which will make the market a bit tougher.
Besides, I personally prefer traditional women. And that means women that don't throw themselves at guys they find attractive. This behavior just doesn't seem feminine to me. I tend to like the innocent, meek types though.
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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
(08-24-2013 07:47 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote: (08-24-2013 07:08 AM)Aliblahba Wrote: I think there's money to be made in teaching women how to pickup men. I know a lot of attractive girls that suffer from approach anxiety. It's a new concept for them, as the traditional roles have changed. Men aren't doing it anymore.
I don't know if it's exactly a good thing for women to overcome approach anxiety. One of the reasons it's possible to pull hot women for guys with average looks and a dose of game is because a lot of guys just don't have the nuts to try. If we swing the power into the women's side of the court and they approach, they're naturally going to only choose the best-looking guys, and those guys aren't exactly going to be turning hot women away. Which will make the market a bit tougher.
Nailed it, I completely agree. If you're already approaching, having women approach is only going to help if you fall in a woman's top 5% of men at the bar. At any given bar, 80-100% of the men are willing to go home with a girl that night. For women, that figure could be anywhere from 0 to 50%. There's always going to be that mismatch, where decent women are always assured of having several men to choose from.
Plus if a girl wants anything more than a fuck buddy, approaching could be hugely counter-productive.
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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
An underdiscussed and underappreciated player skill is how to handle a girl's approach
If any of you guys aren't getting approached fairly regularly by girls that tells you that you need to work on your style, body language, fitness and demeanor-at least one of those elements.
It won't happen every night, but it should happen often enough that you're not surprised by it-I would estimate I get approached perhaps 50- 60% of the nights I go out and by no means are all these girls unattractive-just last week I was opened by a blonde 8 half my age who ultimately did a smooth number close on me.I have been opened multiple times in one night.
But just because a girl approached you in no way means that she is a slam dunk , she is merely being more bold in giving you the opportunity to game her than the typical girl who will just shoot you a look or stand near you
As Ali says-the most important thing is to hold your frame. If you act eager, or flustered, or bashful, or aggressive you’ve blown it
Stay calm and confident, and don’t act too invested in the conversation, and subtly make her demonstrate why she is worthy of you talking to her. Then game as normal
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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
(08-24-2013 08:31 PM)MrXY Wrote: An underdiscussed and underappreciated player skill is how to handle a girl's approach
If any of you guys aren't getting approached fairly regularly by girls that tells you that you need to work on your style, body language, fitness and demeanor-at least one of those elements.
It won't happen every night, but it should happen often enough that you're not surprised by it-I would estimate I get approached perhaps 50- 60% of the nights I go out and by no means are all these girls unattractive-just last week I was opened by a blonde 8 half my age who ultimately did a smooth number close on me.I have been opened multiple times in one night.
But just because a girl approached you in no way means that she is a slam dunk , she is merely being more bold in giving you the opportunity to game her than the typical girl who will just shoot you a look or stand near you
As Ali says-the most important thing is to hold your frame. If you act eager, or flustered, or bashful, or aggressive you’ve blown it
Stay calm and confident, and don’t act too invested in the conversation, and subtly make her demonstrate why she is worthy of you talking to her. Then game as normal
This is a big part of my game. Since I'm lazy and usually very busy with work, dedicating enough time to cold approaches to ensure a steady stream of pussy is inconvenient.
Rather, I usually focus on create a passive stream by letting the ladies do a lot of the work.
For me, this means that I:
*Concentrate on quickly detecting interested women.
*Making myself available to be approached.
*Take over the contact as soon as they approach to ensure that it doesn't become uncomfortable for them (and cause them to leave)
*Having the "right" look.
*Usually social game to my advantage -- look like I'm (1) the leader of the group I'm with and (2) part of a totally fun group of people.
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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
(08-25-2013 02:00 PM)Suits Wrote: (08-24-2013 08:31 PM)MrXY Wrote: An underdiscussed and underappreciated player skill is how to handle a girl's approach
If any of you guys aren't getting approached fairly regularly by girls that tells you that you need to work on your style, body language, fitness and demeanor-at least one of those elements.
It won't happen every night, but it should happen often enough that you're not surprised by it-I would estimate I get approached perhaps 50- 60% of the nights I go out and by no means are all these girls unattractive-just last week I was opened by a blonde 8 half my age who ultimately did a smooth number close on me.I have been opened multiple times in one night.
But just because a girl approached you in no way means that she is a slam dunk , she is merely being more bold in giving you the opportunity to game her than the typical girl who will just shoot you a look or stand near you
As Ali says-the most important thing is to hold your frame. If you act eager, or flustered, or bashful, or aggressive you’ve blown it
Stay calm and confident, and don’t act too invested in the conversation, and subtly make her demonstrate why she is worthy of you talking to her. Then game as normal
This is a big part of my game. Since I'm lazy and usually very busy with work, dedicating enough time to cold approaches to ensure a steady stream of pussy is inconvenient.
Rather, I usually focus on create a passive stream by letting the ladies do a lot of the work.
For me, this means that I:
*Concentrate on quickly detecting interested women.
*Making myself available to be approached.
*Take over the contact as soon as they approach to ensure that it doesn't become uncomfortable for them (and cause them to leave)
*Having the "right" look.
*Usually social game to my advantage -- look like I'm (1) the leader of the group I'm with and (2) part of a totally fun group of people.
How are you guys defining "approach"? Because to me this sounds like a lot of bullshit, women do not approach like men do. They do not go up to you with an opener, at most you get an approach invitation.
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RE: "Pick-up Artist" teaching women on Youtube
(08-25-2013 05:41 PM)Samseau Wrote: (08-25-2013 02:00 PM)Suits Wrote: (08-24-2013 08:31 PM)MrXY Wrote: An underdiscussed and underappreciated player skill is how to handle a girl's approach
If any of you guys aren't getting approached fairly regularly by girls that tells you that you need to work on your style, body language, fitness and demeanor-at least one of those elements.
It won't happen every night, but it should happen often enough that you're not surprised by it-I would estimate I get approached perhaps 50- 60% of the nights I go out and by no means are all these girls unattractive-just last week I was opened by a blonde 8 half my age who ultimately did a smooth number close on me.I have been opened multiple times in one night.
But just because a girl approached you in no way means that she is a slam dunk , she is merely being more bold in giving you the opportunity to game her than the typical girl who will just shoot you a look or stand near you
As Ali says-the most important thing is to hold your frame. If you act eager, or flustered, or bashful, or aggressive you’ve blown it
Stay calm and confident, and don’t act too invested in the conversation, and subtly make her demonstrate why she is worthy of you talking to her. Then game as normal
This is a big part of my game. Since I'm lazy and usually very busy with work, dedicating enough time to cold approaches to ensure a steady stream of pussy is inconvenient.
Rather, I usually focus on create a passive stream by letting the ladies do a lot of the work.
For me, this means that I:
*Concentrate on quickly detecting interested women.
*Making myself available to be approached.
*Take over the contact as soon as they approach to ensure that it doesn't become uncomfortable for them (and cause them to leave)
*Having the "right" look.
*Usually social game to my advantage -- look like I'm (1) the leader of the group I'm with and (2) part of a totally fun group of people.
How are you guys defining "approach"? Because to me this sounds like a lot of bullshit, women do not approach like men do. They do not go up to you with an opener, at most you get an approach invitation.
My usual wing has a solid game of framing it in such a way that he either gets approached by the girl, or their girl friends. And he holds his frame throught to the sack... it's like natural for him.
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