Post: #1

Im sure most of you can relate to this. There are girls you know, you might see them at the gym, or at school or even out and about (shopping, etc) and they might wave or smile or say hi to you. You know, nothing out of the ordinary.

Now you see these same girls at a bar or club and they act totally different, they are competing for your attention, holding your hands, jumping into your arms, chasing you down, etc.
Wtf is this
(a) What whores do in the presence of other whores
(b) relax, its just the alcohol talking
© She notices she underestimated your SMV
(d) Shes just strange like that

Discuss.

Post: #2

(08-02-2013 04:13 PM)GoldenCock Wrote:  Im sure most of you can relate to this. There are girls you know, you might see them at the gym, or at school or even out and about (shopping, etc) and they might wave or smile or say hi to you. You know, nothing out of the ordinary.

Now you see these same girls at a bar or club and they act totally different, they are competing for your attention, holding your hands, jumping into your arms, chasing you down, etc.
Wtf is this
(a) What whores do in the presence of other whores
(b) relax, its just the alcohol talking
© She notices she underestimated your SMV
(d) Shes just strange like that

Discuss.

I've had this go down with girls I've played beach volleyball with. They're like, "Oh, AO? AO! You look so...different!"

I cover up a decent amount playing volleyball and everyone looks pretty different with dark sport sunglasses on and a hat plus liberal sunscreen vs. all cleaned up going out.

"So what, I look like shit on the sand? Fucked up, girl. Fucked up."

Post: #3

I believe it's called social identities. Well, it's a theory: Social Identity theory.

This person will have a different social identity for every different social setting.

i.e. Situation A - Joe vs. employer/manager/boss
- acts 'professional', doesn't swear, uses 'sophisticated' language, very calm

Situation B - Joe vs. his frat boys
- acts loud and obnoxious, demonstrates 'alpha' traits, says 'fuck' and 'shit' in almost every sentence he uses

Situation C - Joe vs. girlfriend
- acts all lovey-dovey, always checking up on her, basically has 'beta' tendencies towards her

I think, to a certain degree, we all do this, though probably not as severely as the examples above. I know when I'm around my black friends and they talk all ghetto, my 'ghetto' talk comes out, but it doesn't come out forced... it just naturally comes out that way.

Post: #4

Womens behavior is dictated by their moods and the social context

Learn to take advantage of this

Really a newbie forum thread