Post: #1

I'm pretty new to game. I've recently been taking dance lessons in my home town since I identified that dancing is one of my weaker points and have been going to a club to practice.

I've been to this club 4 times and have gotten 5 make outs and 1 bang (not a ONS). It is providing me with statistically higher results than my average so I will continue going to this venue.

However, I am getting frustrated with only making out with these girls and not getting more notches. Usually I'll tell the girl that we should go dance and will be making out with her within 10-15 minutes. My question is how to proceed from there. Venue change to a bar close by then my place? A lot of these girls are 18-20 since this is a 18+ place most nights.

Any ideas on how to more effectively seal the deal at a club? Logistics-wise, I live 1 block from this place.

Post: #2

(07-28-2013 10:48 AM)Doctor and the Bartender Wrote:  I'm pretty new to game. I've recently been taking dance lessons in my home town since I identified that dancing is one of my weaker points and have been going to a club to practice.

I've been to this club 4 times and have gotten 5 make outs and 1 bang (not a ONS). It is providing me with statistically higher results than my average so I will continue going to this venue.

However, I am getting frustrated with only making out with these girls and not getting more notches. Usually I'll tell the girl that we should go dance and will be making out with her within 10-15 minutes. My question is how to proceed from there. Venue change to a bar close by then my place? A lot of these girls are 18-20 since this is a 18+ place most nights.

Any ideas on how to more effectively seal the deal at a club? Logistics-wise, I live 1 block from this place.

Sounds like you're off to a good start. Have you read Bang?

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Post: #3

(07-28-2013 10:49 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(07-28-2013 10:48 AM)Doctor and the Bartender Wrote:  I'm pretty new to game. I've recently been taking dance lessons in my home town since I identified that dancing is one of my weaker points and have been going to a club to practice.

I've been to this club 4 times and have gotten 5 make outs and 1 bang (not a ONS). It is providing me with statistically higher results than my average so I will continue going to this venue.

However, I am getting frustrated with only making out with these girls and not getting more notches. Usually I'll tell the girl that we should go dance and will be making out with her within 10-15 minutes. My question is how to proceed from there. Venue change to a bar close by then my place? A lot of these girls are 18-20 since this is a 18+ place most nights.

Any ideas on how to more effectively seal the deal at a club? Logistics-wise, I live 1 block from this place.

Sounds like you're off to a good start. Have you read Bang?

Yeah it's provided me with a lot of great advice. My favorite was using that "can I use your bathroom" line to get a bang where otherwise I wouldn't have gotten into the girl's house. I've read it twice but perhaps I should read it again.

Post: #4

1 block from the club! wow that's great

you're off to a good start


One mistake you're making is making out too much with the girls in the club. A few short light kisses are ok but keep it to a minimum-you want to tease her and get her wanting more.

For girls who can go into bars you need to venue bounce them. This will up your fuck close rate a lot, for psychological reasons you can research for yourself. Trust me-it works remarkably well. After the club, take them to a couple more places-you don't need to stay a very long time at each.

For the under drinking age girls, the best move is just to get them back to your place to drink

Several ways to get the girls into your place. One is just to straight invite them when the moment is right. Tell them you two can watch a movie, or funny youtube videos, or listen to your playlist. Add that you'll make her a drink, may be your "special drink".

Another way is to plan your route as you're bouncing to pass by your place, then just say" hey I live here want to come up and have a quick drink before you go," or the playlist etc


A third way is to pass by your place and say you need to get something from your place (whatever you make up) and just ask her to come up with you for a minute. Once she's there tell her to sit, put on some music, offer her a drink and so on.

You can also do this move between venues, say right after you leave the first club. If you get the vibe she's DTF right there, then just stay, offer the drink and go for it. If she seems reluctant, then bounce to the next place and try to get her back to your place at the end. Since she's already been there she will be more comfortable coming back

Read this Tuthmosis' thread on the First Date Bang Recipe-it has lots of good techniques that would apply to your situation