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What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
I was talking with my Filipina living in Manila. She is young and easily considered top 15%. It is not unbelievable that she has been offered to "walk" meaning to sleep with politicians and businessmen, but she declines it for moral reasons.

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These girls are mostly hookers, provincial types, and single mothers.

The hookers will be found in bars. The hookers are PROs meaning they are actively looking for johns online and offline. Mostly they are motivated by greed and a desire to keep their current lifestyle. My Filipina complained that sometimes these girls will steal her facebook pictures to hook a foreigner.

The girls from the provinces are actively looking to improve their lives. They come from environments where marrying a foreigner becomes one of the few viable options. These girls will have good intentions. They are quite provincial in their thinking so keep that in mind.

The single mothers are there because it is close to impossible to find a man after they bear a child. They are also well intention ed but it does come with a baggage.

Filipina Girls in the City

They are what I consider normal girls. Just the day to day chick stuck in the mix of living in the city.

The Pretty Ones.

The pretty ones like my Filipina will have a leg up in the world. They get good source of income, like dancing in the casino or secretarial positions to pay for their studies,. They will mostly be exposed to other hookers, but it doesn't mean she becomes one herself -- this is all down to their internal moral compass. They will usually be pursued by local older men with money with offers such as 100k ($2.5k) a night, or a condominium. The girl might get blinded by the cash and go this route but it leads to emptiness and a sense of loss of worth. They soon become accustomed to luxury so when their sponsors leave them, they search for another john to keep them in check.


The Foreigner Effect

White men are considered "rich". Expect that people will automatically assign you as rich if you are white. The thing about hooking up for white guys is that Filipinas, like my Filipina, gets a bad image when seen with a foreigner. This is true. Filipinos will be quick to judge a girl when she is seen with a white man. When some white guys tried making a move to my Filipina under the pretense of a job, she was quick to shoot them down and declined the taxi money (lol). As much as possible, they will end up trying to avoid the white guy especially when they are at their prettiest. The normal Filipinas also think white men are too direct in their dealings.

The Foreigner Effect (for minorities)

Those who otherwise avoid white foreign men, are open to other men, especially Asian men. These girls get the advantage of having a foreigner men but do not get the negative image of going out with a white man. The reality is that local Filipino men will trump all others in the eyes of a normal cut-and-dry traditional Filipina. I believe these girls are brought up to be not as materialistic as other girls, and will choose a local simple life without well-pocketed foreigners. Having said that, Asian men who date in this environment will come directly under local Filipino in their hierarchy or equal if they are staying. Black men or Latin, im not too sure about.

I am Fil-am who is moving back to the Philippines. There you go. Questions PM me.
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RE: What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
(07-25-2013 12:28 PM)manilaguy Wrote:  I was talking with my Filipina living in Manila. She is young and easily considered top 15%. It is not unbelievable that she has been offered to "walk" meaning to sleep with politicians and businessmen, but she declines it for moral reasons.

And I have a bridge in London to sell you that no one ever walked across.

Good story, but the thing is that with a woman who has not been tested and proven under pressure of conflicting demands, guys convey what a woman says, apparently taking it seriously as the truth?!

That seems very naive to me, to the point of being unbelievable.

Never believe what she says unless there's considerable evidence outside of her words, and the considerable evidence is amassed across a variety of time and settings.

The presumption is she's, without even trying, drastically coloring what she says to get the best reaction.

Women don't have morals, they have feelings.

The strongest one is they are "nice" and whatever they did they did for a reason and the way she feels like telling it is the truth.
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Hate and jealousy disguised as a data sheet.

Very clever.
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RE: What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
hilarious

i love the whole "asian girls are only into white guys because of $"

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RE: What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
Manilaguy, Manilaguy....you have trouble accepting the fact that white men are at the top of the sexual hierarchy in the Philippines.

You can live in denial for as long as you want, if that makes you feel better.
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RE: What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
I always thought breeding with white guys meant lighter skin children....that being ideal.
No doubt a rich Filipino who understands culture will often have a leg up. But I don't think they prefer other Asians to Americans. The Americans I have heard do better than Koreans and Japanese there. I know a bunch of x military whO live there.
In most societies the upper elite sticks with their own. In America it isn't different. Old money hangs with old money. Be glad that only 1% of the world is in that class.
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How would a light skinned latino looking guy do there?
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It's not a hate data sheet. This is simply how things are from a different vantage point. I think the posters have seen the same effect in Thailand.

I would use the info to play it the way your cards are dealt. If you are white, then you will have this sub-set of girls that are interested in white so you game them accordingly. Don't get them to play the player, as it seems to me that foreigners are the ones that are getting played in this country.

Could you get a high society girl? Yes -- why not? Will her friends give her flak for entertaining you -- oh yes!! When you leave the country and all she has left is her social circle she loses. If she continues dating white then she's eventually excommunicated and seen as low value. Interestingly when marriage is on the line things are seen differently. This is from observation.

I'm not hating on anyone here. You are not mongers like the rest, you are traveling PUAs, but understand there is this dynamic here.
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RE: What to Expect in Dating in Philippines
(07-26-2013 09:52 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  How would a light skinned latino looking guy do there?

mech there are a lot of business hustles here you might find interesting. You can get a diesel Sarao jeep cheaper now as Manila transitions to ejeepney.


latino = mexican/Spaniard (from boxing culture) no plus or negative but just say you're Spaniard. Go Havana for salsa, place is notorious for gringo hunters.
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^ el mech was trolling you: eg:. Chochemonger.
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yeah I know he's trolling, he has sent me that before in PM.. but still wanted to say that as he seemed to be good at hustling from the DR stories.
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(07-26-2013 10:28 AM)manilaguy Wrote:  
(07-26-2013 09:52 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  How would a light skinned latino looking guy do there?

mech there are a lot of business hustles here you might find interesting. You can get a diesel Sarao jeep cheaper now as Manila transitions to ejeepney.


latino = mexican/Spaniard (from boxing culture) no plus or negative but just say you're Spaniard. Go Havana for salsa, place is notorious for gringo hunters.
I'm going there to check it out first chance. There's a bunch of people there with my last name for some reason even though it's French so I will go find them I have a feeling my uncle or Grandfather have something to do with it..

Also, I've been trolling real estate sites and noticed they don't have bars on the windows like the DR so maybe crime isn't so bad?
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(07-26-2013 09:52 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  How would a light skinned latino looking guy do there?

They're turning them away at the border.

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(07-26-2013 10:36 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  
(07-26-2013 09:52 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  How would a light skinned latino looking guy do there?

They're turning them away at the border.
So light skinned latinos aren't "beyond borders"
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(07-26-2013 10:15 AM)manilaguy Wrote:  It's not a hate data sheet. This is simply how things are from a different vantage point. I think the posters have seen the same effect in Thailand.

I would use the info to play it the way your cards are dealt. If you are white, then you will have this sub-set of girls that are interested in white so you game them accordingly. Don't get them to play the player, as it seems to me that foreigners are the ones that are getting played in this country.

Could you get a high society girl? Yes -- why not? Will her friends give her flak for entertaining you -- oh yes!! When you leave the country and all she has left is her social circle she loses. If she continues dating white then she's eventually excommunicated and seen as low value. Interestingly when marriage is on the line things are seen differently. This is from observation.

I'm not hating on anyone here. You are not mongers like the rest, you are traveling PUAs, but understand there is this dynamic here.

being white is a huge asset in the Philippines.

They aren't ashamed to be seen with white men, and I would say its the opposite.

Aside from banging over 60 filipinas, i was constantly being asked for pictures by cute girls in upscale clubs.
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South Asian Race Troll ?

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(07-26-2013 10:46 AM)Roosh Wrote:  South Asian Race Troll ?

SERT

Yup.

This guy is in serious denial.
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He got banned for this?
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Correction, South EAST asian race troll SEART.
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(07-26-2013 10:50 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  He got banned for this?

He's got a history. I saw this coming, TBH.

By the way, whatever happened to chochemonger1?
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Manilaguy - I heard that even the local celebrities are open to dating foreigners, from what you say, it sounds like only whores and provincial girls are interested.


Edit - Damn he got banned! I wanted to make him look stupid first....

We were meant for far more than to suffer in our self created prisons only to die alone. It doesn't have to be that way. It never did.
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(07-26-2013 10:52 AM)Tenerife Wrote:  
(07-26-2013 10:50 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  He got banned for this?

He's got a history. I saw this coming, TBH.

By the way, whatever happened to chochemonger1?
He disappeared in Ecuador maybe profiled (light skinned) and kidnapped?
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I think he just lost his bet to Ali and was ashamed to show up on the forum. Has he posted over at NN?

We were meant for far more than to suffer in our self created prisons only to die alone. It doesn't have to be that way. It never did.
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(07-26-2013 10:52 AM)Tenerife Wrote:  
(07-26-2013 10:50 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  He got banned for this?

He's got a history. I saw this coming, TBH.

By the way, whatever happened to chochemonger1?

He was found not guilty of all charges, and then he even saved some poor family when they flipped their SUV.

Hear he may get a book deal.
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(07-26-2013 10:57 AM)Fisto Wrote:  I think he just lost his bet to Ali and was ashamed to show up on the forum. Has he posted over at NN?
Start a thread. I'm curious to hear his story maybe he'll come back
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