Post: #1

What would you rather have: daily normal sex with a girlfriend or some hot kinky shit with a fuck buddy once a week?

It's really nice having sex ever day (or even a few times a day). You're always getting some. The only downside is that it's typically going to be very vanilla sex, and you're most likely not going to be able to see other girls (because this daily sex involves a girlfriend).

On the other hand, it's great having that almost-guaranteed weekly sex. If things don't work out, you get to release your tension on the one girl, and because of all the tension, that weekly sex always ends up being pretty hot and kinky. The weekly fuck-buddy option also typically gives you the right to go on the prowl for some fresh meat whenever you feel like it.

With this info, which option would you guys prefer? Also, what may be missing here? Any other nice setups?

Post: #2

Daily. I prefer having a GF becuase you do a lot more than have sex and stuff.

Post: #3

I like my independence but I could see myself getting back into the relationship game sometime in the future... when the call beckons... but at the moment having a few fuck buddies here or there is much more appealing.

Post: #4

Who has sex daily - do you know much energy this requires? Sure, when you get a new girl you may fuck her even several times a day, but for a week or two. After things settle down I think the average figure cited for American couples is like 2x/week.
I have sex with my wife usually 2-3 times a week. Why would I fuck her daily, we've already fucked 1,000 times probably.
Once a week with some new piece of ass sounds way more sexy.

Post: #5

I'm a believer in the idea that sex is like pizza; even bad sex is good.

But all that said, while it is nice getting laid every day, that kind of consistency usually comes with conditions, a girlfriend. If a girl is vanilla in bed and unwilling to change her game up, why bother keeping her around? If a girl likes you enough she'll be able to take criticism and direction.

As someone who likes to leave them better than I found them, there's nothing quite as nice as dating a girl who's sex game is average and watching her develop some skills, but she has top be willing to accept that she's not perfect.

I voted for weekly. I've had a few girls spoil me so I know that while sex everyday is fun, it's not the ideal situation. Weekly isn't either (I'm thinking 3-4 times a week is best), but if its crazy it almost makes up for it.

So yes, I would rather have a cute fuckbuddy show up in fuck-me pumps with handcuffs and her sextoys once a week than a girlfriend who only allows missionary and doggy every day.

Post: #6

Why should a GF allow only certain positions? That would be crazy.

Post: #7

The only reason I made it seem like the daily sex is going to be vanilla is that unless you have a lot of enthusiasm for freaky sex (all the time) then most of the sex you have with your girlfriend is going to be the old in out. When I say Vanilla, that doesn't mean that it's going to just be missionary. Doggy style is pretty vanilla too. I just feel sex is a lot different (more passionate) when it's not as frequent, and thus more likely to get a little freaky.

As for having difficulties doing it everyday, I feel I'm pretty lucky that I'm not at that point in life where I can't imagine myself doing it everyday. I can do it everyday, and I can usually do it multiple times a day. I like it in the morning and right before I go to sleep (not that you guys want to know).

And as a reply to the comment "As someone who likes to leave them better than I found them" by Nonpareil, fuck that. If she wants to get better she better take her own damn initiative. I'm not going out of my way to make my girl a better fuck for somebody else down the line. There are plenty of other fish in the sea who know how to do things right.

Post: #8

(09-11-2010 05:45 PM)Badstuber Wrote:  Daily. I prefer having a GF becuase you do a lot more than have sex and stuff.

I do not know anyone who has a long-term GF (6+ months) and still having sex once a day every day while not on vacation. Especially if you both work. And especially once you have kids. Getting it twice a week is already quite a challenge, and according to a lot of surveys most married couples don't even make it that far.

Post: #9

I rather sex with itimancy.