Post: #26

Let's say you are a typical black dude at a club. kind of tall, bit muscular, looks bit intimidating, has a hip hop vibe but not ghetto.

Would it be offensive to you if I say I can pull a girl who resembles a Jennifer Garner type girls (classy gf material type girls) as an asian but it would be hard for those black guys?

But I don't see asian guys pulling Kate Upton (hot, attention whore, slutty looking girls) type girls at all while those black dudes can pull those type of girls.

I understand OP was focusing more about their characters but we all like who resembles us. IMO if 'the picture doesn't seem right', it wouldn't probably work out. There are few cases of opposite looking couple. well you've seen them ending up in Jerry Springers because it's not common.

(07-09-2013 11:40 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  When i was 1st starting out in game i would try go after blonde hair and black hair white girls (I'm black) with very very little success. The ones i could pull exclusively went for ghetto wannabe rapper black guys.
I grew up around hoodrat and ratchet girls all the time so i wasn't interested in it. In fact i've never even kissed a black or mixed girl.

Then i started to think about the entire situation in a meta way.
The reason for my low success with white girls is because i'm not what they're interested in (Way beyond the race issue). That would also explain why so many black girls would come holla at me from across the shopping mall food court. Or purposely make their way near me in various social settings.

So in order to attract the types of girl i wanted to bang, i made myself attractive to them.

Post: #27

I'm Asian but I notice I get the most consistent interest from Latinas, particularly the punk rock or slightly ghetto hip hop chicks. Lots of fatties too, unfortunately, but enough cute ones to make it worthwhile. This might sound like sour grapes, but I've never experienced this from white women, but I find I'm not really interested in them save the really Mediterranean looking brunettes.

Post: #28

The unconscious screening that we do, and is done to us by girls, is very real. Some people have personas that are more malleable or more wide-ranging, some are more narrow. I've been with all kinds but the ones that gravitate to me tend to be quieter, "good" girls, not party girls.

Post: #29

I think I attract girls that have more introspective vulnerabilities. Maybe the non-super talkative types. I've tried to increase the quality of women I attract based solely on looks, which I have, yet matching quality looks and personality in a prospect is always a challenge for me. Possibly because I have a low tolerance for the pre-fabricated nature that they've so easily adopted from social media exchanges. I just can't bastardize my internal thinking to change to their desires. It starts to dissolve my game to douchie interactions. No thanks.

However, I'm still trying to become better at attracting the more social types which are quite often mentally all over the place (not that this is a good goal, but a deficient area for me). The upside is every group of girls has a "social glue" blabber mouth who can turn out to be a good introducer to a new social circle of sexy women.

I need to hone my neg/asshole game on these girls and learn to push their desensitized buttons better.

Post: #30

"Everybody I've dated I've been sexually attracted to immediately," she said during an interview with the fashion magazine. "Sparks don't grow—your vagina doesn't become more inclined to wanting someone just because you're around them." - Amanda Seyfriend

Post: #31

So now I can't decide if I attract mostly Northern European girls because my game is neutral and they just happen to be dominant in the US or because something about me attracts preferentially Northern European chicks.

I'm sure that something about me attracts Asian chicks, especially FOBs.

Post: #32

Recently the question came up whether you can attract women that are different than the ones you attract now. The answer is Yes - simply change who you are or the image you project. In marketing this is called the Appeal. Change your Appeal and you will attract women who now find you appealing. It could be as simple as changing your hairstyle. But attraction does not mean you will get along or be able to have a relationship with that person it means just that they will find you initially attractive. As a young guy the first time I saw a Ford Mustang GT I was instantly attracted after owing one for a year it lost its appeal.