Post: #51

I hope so, I'm approaching 40.

I see this just like sports. Some athletes can maintain into their late 30's and 40's, others start to fade around 40.

The athletes that last long are the ones who take great care of themselves. They get good rest, they limit their partying, they eat right, they exercise religiously, etc. They follow a strict anti-aging gameplan.

I also relate this to cars. If you want your car to last long, you have to take care of it. Change the oil, keep it tuned up, keep it garaged, wash it, wax it, etc.

If you ignore these things, your car is going to age quickly.

Some guys peak out at 34, others at 38. Some guys can maintain well into their 40s, others are fat and balding at 36. It really all depends on the individual and his genetics, lifestyle, diet, attitude, and health.

It's sad to see a guy peak too early in life. All the late nights, drugs, and booze can add up. That stuff can age you if you are not careful.

Take a break sometimes, drink some water, take a nap.

The life of a playboy can be a long journey. Pace yourself.

Post: #52

(07-04-2013 12:35 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I see this just like sports. Some athletes can maintain into their late 30's and 40's, others start to fade around 40.

The athletes that last long are the ones who take great care of themselves. They get good rest, they limit their partying, they eat right, they exercise religiously, etc. They follow a strict anti-aging gameplan.

The key factor here is they ALWAYS took care of themselves, from the beginning. Even when they could get by without the extra care, they did anyway. Some wait until they start declining to do the extras, and then it's too late. Countless players lost what could have been 2 or 3 decent years at the end because they didn't maintain and pamper earlier in their careers. That principle applies for non-athletes too. If you always took decent care of yourself, you'll hit 40 and look considerably younger (unless you start graying, but even then, your face will still look younger), and more importantly, you'll feel so much younger.

Post: #53

(07-04-2013 11:18 AM)Dusty Wrote:  Some men look good in their 60's:

Definietly. Just like some guys look terrible at their late 20s.

Now, staying in shape is very important though genetics is ultimate key.

First guy. 50 years old. Looks like in his 30s. He smokes and drinks a lot.



Second guy. ( a musican, Varg Vikernes of Burzum) 39 years old. Looks like in his 50s.
Never drank alcohol neither smoked or did drugs.

Post: #54

Yeah, in my opinion context, genetics, work ethic and vibe are everything after 40. I came late into game theory so for me, at 45, every year is getting better. Since I turned 40 I have only slept with one girl over 23 (28). The last chick I was with said to me "you look young for 36." That being said the ugliest, dumbest, most broke dude I know is rocking 50 because his game is impeccable. He just cold approaches every girl EVERYWHERE. And every now and again he nails one of his hot daughters 23 year old friends. I don't know how he does it... this guy is UGLY and broke. Just pure gift of gab game. He recently commented on how ugly he his and then I asked him how many chicks he's banged and he said without hesitation "3 or 4 hundred." This convinced me more than ever that we live in The Matrix where attitude is 99% of the battle. Whether your issue is age, money, baldness, low T, negativity, doubt, or whatever: "I think, therefore I am." Work on controlling the mind and training the body. Feel good, and you will look good.

Post: #55

Maybe when you're over 40 and broke, your odds of banging early 20s is higher than a 35-yr-old because the 35-yr-old is more likely looking at you as a marriage prospect. Even if she wants an ONS though, the fact you're broke would make her lose respect for you and that's not gonna make her wet. The 22-yr-old doesn't give a shit and doesn't really even know what broke is. Still, you're gonna have to really play the numbers game and work hard by hitting on a ton of women if you're 50, ugly and broke. As you said, he approaches EVERYWHERE.

Post: #56

"Every man over forty is responsible for his face." Abraham Lincoln

Post: #57

Sadly I don't think so. I was talking to a Colombian girl I'm dating in her early 20s and she just doesn't want to date guys in their high 30s even if they have money and are looking for a serious relationship like her. She said a guy that is 40+ could date her mom.

Post: #58

(07-04-2013 03:21 PM)starmaze Wrote:  Second guy. ( a musican, Varg Vikernes of Burzum) 39 years old. Looks like in his 50s.
Never drank alcohol neither smoked or did drugs.

He did 15 years for murder after stabbing a man to death in cold blood. He never wanted fame when he had it, probably a game denialist at heart since he's such a purist when it comes to who is worthy of being a fan of him. That would lead down the "real men don't take care of themselves" route.

He looks old because of the eye and forehead wrinkles - even in his younger days you can see they were already started.


Could still score plenty with goth chicks.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold

Post: #59

(07-05-2013 07:45 AM)bacan Wrote:  Sadly I don't think so. I was talking to a Colombian girl I'm dating in her early 20s and she just doesn't want to date guys in their high 30s even if they have money and are looking for a serious relationship like her. She said a guy that is 40+ could date her mom.

Well this proves it for sure then.

The opposite of what a woman says is always the Truth.

Post: #60

(07-03-2013 03:40 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  I hope this is true The last 2 girls I banged were 18 and 26.

I'd like to mention that younger girls may be hot and all and have tight wet pussies but they have to be the dumbest and most annoying of all.

The ideal age for women is about 35. Reality(The Wall) has finally sunk in and the bitch shields are at a minimum. If you don't mind the dry leather pussy and catcher's mit face then you're golden.

I have met some dumb and annoying older women too. It really comes down to the individual. You can find smart, cool girls at all ages.

Post: #61

Perfect age? No.

Post: #62

(07-04-2013 06:29 PM)Purple Urkle Wrote:  Yeah, in my opinion context, genetics, work ethic and vibe are everything after 40. I came late into game theory so for me, at 45, every year is getting better. Since I turned 40 I have only slept with one girl over 23 (28). The last chick I was with said to me "you look young for 36." That being said the ugliest, dumbest, most broke dude I know is rocking 50 because his game is impeccable. He just cold approaches every girl EVERYWHERE. And every now and again he nails one of his hot daughters 23 year old friends. I don't know how he does it... this guy is UGLY and broke. Just pure gift of gab game. He recently commented on how ugly he his and then I asked him how many chicks he's banged and he said without hesitation "3 or 4 hundred." This convinced me more than ever that we live in The Matrix where attitude is 99% of the battle. Whether your issue is age, money, baldness, low T, negativity, doubt, or whatever: "I think, therefore I am." Work on controlling the mind and training the body. Feel good, and you will look good.

This is what is a called good Frame and you get it automatically from banging 300 women regardless of how you look.

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Post: #63

not perfect age, but could be for some cats.

depends on genetics, looks, lay count, bank roll, game/frame, whole host of factors.

Post: #64

(07-03-2013 03:40 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  The ideal age for women is about 35. Reality(The Wall) has finally sunk in and the bitch shields are at a minimum. If you don't mind the dry leather pussy and catcher's mit face then you're golden.

I can't tell if you're joking. You can't seriously be advocating going for chicks who are game over because they're easier. Not to others, not to yourself. Of course they're easy! That's kind of the point of 'game' isn't it? To NOT have to settle for the dregs at the bottom.

Post: #65

(07-03-2013 03:40 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  The last 2 girls I banged were 18 and 26.

Parlay,

I believe you are in your 40's?

Congrats on banging an 18yo!

Do you mind telling us the story?

Thanks

Post: #66

"Men age like wine, women age like milk"

One of the quotes I live by.

Post: #67

I don't look my age and neither do my friends in their 40s.

But if you asked anyone, "What would be your ideal 'vampire age,'" that is, the age you'd be frozen in for immortality.

No one is saying 40 and the sweet spot is 29-34. The engine is firing on all cylinders. You have the energy and vitality of the young while having the discretion and judgment of the old.

Life is still good at my age and there are plenty of guys doing just fine in their 40s. Arnold was around 40 in Predator and Stallone was in his late 30s and 40s during his Rocky sequels. Bruce Willis was pushing 40 in his first Die Hard, and the Hollywood leading man is usually 36-44.

But it's a male hamster to say life is at it's best. Arnold at 40 was not Arnold at 27.

The body starts slowing down. The skin doesn't glow quite as much. By now we should have reproduced and slowing down is nature's way of having us eaten by a predator or killed in an accident.

Don't get me wrong. I still feel great and there are many anti-aging strategies to employ, so I won't be out of the game for a long time.

But it's also essential to be realistic and taking advantage and enjoying our youth.

Like I tell young guys who fret over money, "In a second, Warren Buffett would give you all of his money if he could have your youth. You are rich and won't even appreciate it until your money is gone."

Post: #68

(07-05-2013 02:58 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  Don't get me wrong. I still feel great and there are many anti-aging strategies to employ, so I won't be out of the game for a long time.

MikeCF - I searched a bit and found this below.

(07-05-2013 02:58 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  But all the good tips aside, research has consistently shown that short, frequent bouts of intense exercise (lifting weights, sprinting) is the single most important thing you can do to remain youthful.

Anything else you are doing? Seems like you take it pretty seriously.

Thanks!

Post: #69

(07-05-2013 02:58 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  No one is saying 40 and the sweet spot is 29-34. The engine is firing on all cylinders. You have the energy and vitality of the young while having the discretion and judgment of the old.

That is probably the case for the majority.

I think personal experience can alter this.

I feel better now than in my young 30's.

But my situation was I was doing a lot of drugs then and although working out everyday, I wasn't juicing, stretching, eating as well (in fact, I was eating whatever the hell I wanted every single meal) etc.

So I have been able to essentially "roll back the clock".

I mean hell, how many cats my age can still smoke 1-3 packs a day and go out 3-5 nights per week (don't always do this)?

Today I would kick the sh*t out of myself in my 20's or early 30's.

Post: #70

^ If you're white, use sunscreen. Photoaging is huge. Look at Arnold's skin. Too much time in the sun baking.

Juice a lot of greens. Every single guy I've got into juicing has said, "Man, people have commented that my skin looks great!"

Skin is an organ. Your skin is often a "canary in a coal mine" about your overall health. Not always, but often. If your skin looks good, you're probably good on the inside.

When you're past a certain age (anywhere from 35-40), it's time to start taking testosterone.

There are books and non-profits devoted to this stuff. But if you do the following, you'll look and feel 10 years younger:

1. Lift and do cardio
2. Juice greens like kale, spinach (there's a whole thread on the forum on juicing)
3. Wear sunscreen
4. Look into TRT/HRT

Drinking lots of green tea helps, too, as does fish oil and on and on and on.

But if you're not lifting, doing cardio, wearing sunscreen, and getting greens....then the rest of the stuff isn't going to do all that much.

Post: #71

I can vouch for all of mikes comments above.

Juicing = changed my skin
Lifting weights = no brainer
Green tea >>>> coffee (coffee now makes me sick).

The thing is, this may be crack pot theory, but drinking once a week may be good for you? Generally drinking makes you laugh/smile/increases your mood so no need to go apeshit and go 100% healthy.

90% healthy/10% unhealthy is a good balance, you don't want to be stressing about everything you put in your body 24/7 365, because I truly believe the #1 worst thing for your body = high stress

Never see a guy who looks old that has had a stress free life.

Note: I'll come back on the no alcohol thing as I'm doing a 45 day challenge as we speAk. So far I feel about the same as when I was drinking 3/4 drinks a week.

Post: #72

^ Yeah, people who "stress out about living a healthy lifestyle" are sorta missing the point, aren't they?

Post: #73

If I could be any age I would chose late 20s.

But I'm 48 and its better than I expected. I still have girls in their 20s telling me I'm "cute". Like my niece's friends (which freaks out my niece) or interns at work. Never would have thought pushing 50 that would happen. When I was 35 I figured I had 4 years or so before no girl would pay attention ever again. I was wrong. It's good not to be a chick

I think I am better looking now than 15 years ago, but it's because I'm fit. If I was this fit 15 years ago, I'd be better looking then and would have slayed more quality tang. I just didn't know.

You young guys are lucky to have all this pua resources and knowledge now.

Post: #74

Quote:use sunscreen.

I just want to say that not all sunscreens are the same.

Many of them are full of harmful chemicals. Chemicals that are probably more dangerous than the sun.

Be careful what you put on your skin. Use a quality sunscreen made from natural ingredients.

Like my old Blackfoot Indian medicine man once told me -- "The greatest sunscreen is the shade".

I sometimes wear one of these when I'm outside all day..



Like Westcoast said, the greatest ager of man is stress. Stress is the silent killer of man.

And, lack of sleep. That will age you also.

Post: #75

But you don't want to be too pasty white.

I've never did the spray tan they do at the salon. Has anyone tried that? Is it safe for your skin? Does it look natural?