Post: #1

Met this girl at the gym on Friday, had a date last night and she came to my place today. I was thinking I was gonna release my load on her since she decided to come over but she still didn't give it up. All she did was cock tease me and left me with blue balls. I was really aggressive but she kept pushing me away. I felt her wet pussy I told her this. She seemed to get turned on by that but she still fought back. Should I just forget about this girl or wait until the 3rd 'date'? I'm sitting at home with her smell all over me and I'm pissed as hell.

Thanks men.

Post: #2

This is super ambiguous. If you know where you made a mistake then go amend it. If you don't know but consider it is worth your time, go for it. Either way, readjust the level of priority she gets depending on how close you feel the bang is.

Post: #3

(07-01-2013 04:15 PM)Kikz Wrote:  This is super ambiguous. If you know where you made a mistake then go amend it. If you don't know but consider it is worth your time, go for it. Either way, readjust the level of priority she gets depending on how close you feel the bang is.

She sent me a text asking if I'm OK and that she had fun at my place and that I should come by hers next time.

Post: #4

(07-01-2013 04:20 PM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  

(07-01-2013 04:15 PM)Kikz Wrote:  This is super ambiguous. If you know where you made a mistake then go amend it. If you don't know but consider it is worth your time, go for it. Either way, readjust the level of priority she gets depending on how close you feel the bang is.

She sent me a text asking if I'm OK and that she had fun at my place and that I should come by hers next time.

Go to hers and initiate, she obviously feels more comfortable in her environment that yours.

Post: #5

What was the point of her coming all the way to my house then? I put her hand on my pants to let her feel my erect dick but all she did was tease me and say "it's not going to happen."

Post: #6

Don't write her off so soon. Contrary to what a lot of people on here will say so women just will.not.give.it.up on the first date. As long as she remains interested and you're doing everything in your power to move the ball down field, keep going with her. It will be up to you to decide when to cut your losses. If you're really into her go for the second or third date but be sure that any subsequent date always ends at your place or somewhere that you can get the bang.

Post: #7

Happens to us all.

In the moment persistence badge unlocked.

If you didn't try any of the standard last minute resistance tools, try that next time.

As for whether this girl is a lost cause, probably not.

In the mean time between you and this chick hanging out again, GO OUT.

WIA

Post: #8

(07-01-2013 08:14 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Happens to us all.

In the moment persistence badge unlocked.

If you didn't try any of the standard last minute resistance tools, try that next time.

As for whether this girl is a lost cause, probably not.

In the mean time between you and this chick hanging out again, GO OUT.

WIA

Yeah I was pretty annoyed last night but I can think clear now. About the LMR, we were kissing and she told me "It's not going to happen" I pulled back and said: "I know", but she kept initiating the kiss and stroking my leg. What a cocktease.

Post: #9

Ack! Frustrating...

The most frustrating thing about this kind of situation is that it's hard to tell whether she's a dick tease or actually DTF, just not quite yet.

And the only way to find out is by investing more time. If she's just a timewaster who likes the attention and winding a guy up for kicks and then leaving him and dry (shit should be a crime), you'll find out. If she's DTF but needed a bit more time, you'll find that out too. Either way, you're investing in an unproven prospect. It's a gamble.

If I found myself in that situation again (gahd fuhbid), I'd probably go one more date (unless I had more promising leads). If it didn't happen by then I'd stop communication unless it was a text from her to the effect of "I'm horny, come over, let's bang."

Post: #10

I had a similar case. I tried 3 (!) times, her pussy was always wet, she would kiss and stroke but no bang. I wrote her off - she was just wasting my time and was probably enjoying denying me.

Post: #11

I'm gonna try just 1 more time and if she doesn't give it up by then I'm done with her.

Post: #12

I had one Dutch girl (Rotterdam) who was exactly like this. I just went along through all of her crap happy to get at least some intimacy and keeping it friendly and cool. She gave her pussy up on the 3rd or 4th date, then her ass too.
I would say just forget your ego and enjoy whatever she gives, not that it costs you anything

Post: #13

I finally sealed the deal. Took 4 'dates.' She came by my house 3 times in total and it happened on the 3rd time. Too bad for her I'm completely turned off by her previous actions so I doubt I will be contacting her again.

Post: #14

Your place or hers?

Post: #15

(07-03-2013 11:10 AM)daygame Wrote:  I had one Dutch girl (Rotterdam) who was exactly like this. I just went along through all of her crap happy to get at least some intimacy and keeping it friendly and cool. She gave her pussy up on the 3rd or 4th date, then her ass too.
I would say just forget your ego and enjoy whatever she gives, not that it costs you anything

It's costing you time. It's costing you money you could be earning. It's costing you other opportunities you could be exploring with more DTF girls with higher self esteem who are ready for you to be inside them TODAY.

I think a more effective mindset than "taking what a girl gives you" is "giving a girl what you want and on the terms you're willing to give it. unapologetically and strongly. And she can take it or leave it."

Post: #16

(07-05-2013 04:19 AM)Kikz Wrote:  Your place or hers?

My place.

Post: #17

(07-05-2013 04:25 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  It's costing you time. It's costing you money you could be earning. It's costing you other opportunities you could be exploring with more DTF girls with higher self esteem who are ready for you to be inside them TODAY.

I'll respectfully disagree, you can't work 100% off your time and can't hunt for other girl 100% of your free time.
So unless you have a queue of girls that are DTF\new girls to meet, there is nothing wrong with keep pushing and trying on your free time.
It will give you experience and knowledge, once you've managed to blast heavy resistance, lesser resistance is a easy.