Post: #1

My night game is lagging far behind my day game, so I am trying to close that gap.

In terms of night game, ideally, I would be in a nice strategic location inside the bar/club that allows me to interact with all the traffic that's coming through the venue.

But say you are in a crowded place (nowhere to sit/stand at the bar) the music is LOUD (where it's not so easy like it is during the daytime to strike up quick and easy conversations with people in your vicinity), where do you post up, and what are you doing?

Really, much of my game is predicated on opening up via conversation, so when that is not an option (i.e. when it's loud), what else can I rely on?

I can imagine standing there looking around at everyone to not be the best strategy. (I'll be out by myself.)

Post: #2

Don't go to loud clubs. It's as simple as that. If you don't dance and you don't have an aggressive physical style of gaming chicks, stick to lower key lounges and bars. Your ROI will be much higher in these environments.

Post: #3

(06-27-2013 12:45 AM)chakri Wrote:  But say you are in a crowded place (nowhere to sit/stand at the bar) the music is LOUD (where it's not so easy like it is during the daytime to strike up quick and easy conversations with people in your vicinity), where do you post up, and what are you doing?

Really, much of my game is predicated on opening up via conversation, so when that is not an option (i.e. when it's loud), what else can I rely on?

I can imagine standing there looking around at everyone to not be the best strategy. (I'll be out by myself.)

I second Therapsid. There's nothing that can be done about it. If you can't hear speech and want to use convo game you just can't use those venues.

Post: #4

nightclub is like a playground. all it matters there is fun. people are there to let loose and get stupid therefore plenty of mini rejections that happen don't really matter. trying to be 'game accurate' can kill you. the same thing that fails when you're stuck in your head will work when you're loose and carefree. 1st part of the night is for you to get in the zone. 2nd part is to step up and pull.

relevant...

Bouncer Q&A about nightlife girls & game

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Secrets For Picking Up Hot Girls At Crazy Parties And Chaotic Environments!

Post: #5

^ That Tyler video is gold. It has really changed my life - though not overnight.
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Post: #6

Get a couple drinks in your system and let the talkative louder you come out. Go to the far side of the bar (away from the music) and use the Roosh video for chicks at the bar (stand behind them, approach after they've been given the drink, etc). Put in a respectable night of work approaching. Nothing's worse than going home after feeling like you didn't give it your all. Don't forget to enjoy yourself too. Chicks can pickup on your fun vibe.

Post: #7

New tip I discovered last weekend - in clubs where it's hard to hear (i.e. people have to yell in each others' ears, forcing you to lean in) use soft ear plugs. There is a cheap brand at Walgreens, they are tan-colored and squishy. Cut them in half and stick em in your ears - they will filter out all the "noise" will allowing voice frequencies to pass through. Not perfect, but a significant improvement that helped me tons this weekend - keep em in your wallet so you don't forget.

- Cyc