Post: #1

And now for something serious.

I've never dealt with any woman with herpes -- I mean the serious genital type. But I found out an old high school crush of mine has it. She's now single (gee, wonder why) but looks really good. Back when I was 14, seeing her massive boobs squeezed into a tiny bikini at the neighborhood pool awakened my sexuality, so nailing her would be sort of symbolic for me. And her boobs still look good.

The problem is that I know she's "H+." So I want to ask if anyone here successfully had sex with a woman with herpes and how that worked out. I know you have to "time" when you can have sext, but I assume you absolutely cannot raw dog no matter when you're doing it.

I know I should move on (and probably will) but as I said, this is more than just another lay because I get to close a deal I couldn't as a high school freshman.

Post: #2

My ex had herpes and I raw dogged her at least 150 times and am fine. Wrap it up and you're even 50% more safe.

Post: #3

how do you get infected then?

they have to have a breakout and the juice from the pimple has to go inside your penis?

(06-21-2013 06:21 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  My ex had herpes and I raw dogged her at least 150 times and am fine. Wrap it up and you're even 50% more safe.

Post: #4

Figures I've fucked a girl with herpes, haha. I actually "forgot" about it until I read your post. Met on a dating site, she was a few years older, knew my brothers. First date we make out hardcore and dumbass me says we should wait. Second date we meet around the corner from my apartment, she's hammered, take her home and another hardcore makeout, I know I'm getting laid and she's got me all wound up then drops the H-bomb. Definitely an underhanded move to wait until I pretty much can't say no.

I'm so hard up for some pussy AND drunk I can't even think straight. She says I have no worries with a condom. The devil in me says fuck her so I take her in the bedroom, wrap it up and she has the tightest, driest pussy I've ever tried to get into. Tiny little girl, smoking thin body even with kids. I can't get in missionary so I get her doggy and I'm trying like hell and it's a struggle.

Finally I break the seal and fuck her for awhile but something doesn't feel right. I pull out and look down and the fucking rubber is completely disintegrated. I don't even know what's holding it on anymore, probably just the lube to my skin. I don't say anything, put on a new one while she can't see what I'm doing and tell her to get back in missionary. I get my nut and fall asleep.

The next day she sends me flowers. I never called her again.

I don't have herpes either. If you really want her do it, just wrap it up and remember this girl won't last long. She will probably act like the perfect chick, the better to nail down a decent guy who might stick around.

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Post: #6

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Post: #7

There is so much misinformation its unreal. If youre on this forum and have (hopefully) nailed a bunch of bar sluts, you've had sex with girls with the herp so many times.

The incidence in the USA for girls AS A WHOLE is 1/4. It doesn't take a statistics major to figure random bar slus are at best 1/3 (considering for example girls who marry early and fuck only a few guys). ive had sex with maybe 60 bar sluts on a ONS, so chances are ive fucked 20 girls w herpes.

Some people get it once with one nasty breakout, never to see it again ( good friend). Its only "catchy" with a high rate of transfer if shes breaking out, and trust me only the sluttiest hoes are out at bars when they're contagious. You can get asymptomatic transfer but even then she'd know a breakout was coming e.g. tingling, itching, etc.

Ive had a scare once so im well researched on the hard facts.

Post: #8

Dude - risking the permanent lowering of your sexual marketplace value so that you can reap the "symbolic" rewards of banging a girl from your past isn't a good idea.

There are plenty of fuckable women out there who don't have the herp.

Forget about this slut and move on.

Post: #9

False, see above. I forgot to mention out of the 20 girls I fucked who stastically had it, how many divulged it to me: zero

Post: #10

You can take antiviral medicine like Acyclovir or Valtrex about an hour before sex. That will lower your chances to almost zero I think. Do we have any doctors in the house to verify this?

Post: #11

Most of you on this board probably already have the herp and don't know it. 85% of people with it are asymptomatic. They will never see a serious breakout or no break-out at all. And they may still be able to transfer it to other people.

Just about everyone has oral herpes. I've certainly kissed enough girls in my lifetime to have it, yet I've never had a cold sore before. So I just assume I'm among the asymptomatic people. But just because you don't have symptoms doesn't mean the virus isn't in your bloodstream. You will only know for sure if you're tested. And I don't think you have to have a sore to spread it. Though that makes it much more likely. Most people aren't making out with people who have obvious cold sores all over their mouth, yet they still get it.

Post: #12

(06-21-2013 07:19 PM)EasyMoney Wrote:  Dude - risking the permanent lowering of your sexual marketplace value so that you can reap the "symbolic" rewards of banging a girl from your past isn't a good idea.

There are plenty of fuckable women out there who don't have the herp.

Forget about this slut and move on.

He already did the deed and is trying to rationalize that shit, lolz.

Post: #13

If she knows she has the herp and tells you your chances of contracting it are pretty slim.

The CDC says the odds of infection in males in a serodiscordant heterosexual relationship where the female is infected is 4-5% per year if you just don't fuck during breakouts, 2% per year if she's also on suppressive antiviral medication, and 1% per year if you use condoms as well. That assumes sex 2-3 times per week.

Most infections probably come from girls who don't know they have it and are shedding, or who don't care who they pass it to.

Stay with her for 30 years? Yeah, you're getting it. One night? Probably not.

Post: #14

I knowingly fucked a girl with herpes, with a condom, and I'd bet $100 that I don't have herpes.

Herpes girls will love your dick like no other.

Post: #15

Play Dangerously once recommended using Defense Soap after banging questionable females. This is the stuff that wrestlers and other athletes use so they don't get MRSA and other nasty bacterial infection.

If you go for it, get some of this for after:
http://www.defensesoap.com

Post: #16

Using myself as an example..

I was bagging this girl (rubber always) before she told me she had herpes. Then I banged a few times afterwards.
She told me she took medicine for it and that I can't get it if she does not have a breakout.
I never contracted the virus.

Post: #17

Fuck her in a bathtub filled with ACV.

Post: #18

I've rawdogged so many girls there's not a doubt in my mind I've had sex with herpes infected girls many times. I've never had symptoms of genital herpes.

How many girls have ever told me they have herpes? Zero. They either don't know, maybe because they've never had symptoms or are hiding it.

If you want to fuck her I would just wrap it and wash well afterwards. BTW, condoms only lower the risk, you can still catch it on the skin around your dick, but as long as she's not having an outbreak the risk really is very minimal.

Post: #19

(06-22-2013 02:49 PM)MrXY Wrote:  you can still catch it on the skin around your dick, but as long as she's not having an outbreak the risk really is very minimal.

I wonder if the trend of women since the 90s forward of shaving their muffs is what's causing the cases of herpes to rise? I would think that if both partners have pubic hair that adds a barrier of protection from the skin-on-skin contact that causes herpes.

Post: #20

(06-22-2013 02:53 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(06-22-2013 02:49 PM)MrXY Wrote:  you can still catch it on the skin around your dick, but as long as she's not having an outbreak the risk really is very minimal.

I wonder if the trend of women since the 90s forward of shaving their muffs is what's causing the cases of herpes to rise? I would think that if both partners have pubic hair that adds a barrier of protection from the skin-on-skin contact that causes herpes.

So you're saying that pubic hair forms a barrier against herpes? Sounds legit.

Post: #21

You've got to give this girl credit for even telling you. Don't know if many girls would tell. Maybe she's the one haha

Post: #22

I don't think I'm going to do this after all. But not because of the herpes. We friended each other on Facebook and she's one of those women that lives for drama and posts those stupid cliche memes, one after the other. Below is her latest.

This constantly happens: I meet women I think are cool and Facebook makes me hate them. OK, OK, so thoughts of painful, burning Herpes had something to do with it...

Post: #23

You friended a girl with herpes on Facebook? Do you even read this forum bro??

Post: #24

(06-23-2013 03:05 AM)houston Wrote:  You friended a girl with herpes on Facebook? Do you even read this forum bro??

She was the hottest thing I'd ever seen in high school. I found out about the "H" later on. If I unfriend her, though, it will be because of those stupid memes. I can avoid herpes, but I can't seem to escape those annoying, cliched "sayings" women put on Facebook. If anyone wants to put themselves in a really bad mood, here is their source. 1.6 million women hamsterbate to platitudes like "If you don't follow your heart you might spend the rest of your life wishing you had."

https://www.facebook.com/lessonslearnedinlife

Post: #25

(06-23-2013 08:34 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(06-23-2013 03:05 AM)houston Wrote:  You friended a girl with herpes on Facebook? Do you even read this forum bro??

She was the hottest thing I'd ever seen in high school. I found out about the "H" later on. If I unfriend her, though, it will be because of those stupid memes. I can avoid herpes, but I can't seem to escape those annoying, cliched "sayings" women put on Facebook. If anyone wants to put themselves in a really bad mood, here is their source. 1.6 million women hamsterbate to platitudes like "If you don't follow your heart you might spend the rest of your life wishing you had."

https://www.facebook.com/lessonslearnedinlife

I know it's off-topic and we all hate the hamster memes going around Facebook but I need to acknowledge that whoever owns that page and its complementary website(livelifehappy.com) probably makes upwards of $10k per month making them. The person who owns that page has a 1.6 million strong marketing base. This guy could probably even sell Costco knives and make bank on the .1% who would buy them. How many of you would actually mind making posters like this if you were making a living doing it? This is the true reason why memes are so common now on Facebook; a lot of internet marketers figured out how to leverage free, unrelated, social media volume to make money. About 1/4 of all of those posts have a watermark to the owner's website. If you go to the website without adblock, the first thing you're going to notice is how saturated it is with ads. This guy/girl went even farther and created an email-list for the site.

Also, this is probably why Facebook introduced the "promoted posts feature" and throttled non-promoted posts. Facebook realized what marketers were doing and decided to take its cut. I believe the "promoted posts feature" was never truly aimed at narcissists but actually at these kinds of pages which would also explain why it costs more to promote a post based on how many friends and followers you have.

ON TOPIC: I personally wouldn't engage in sexual relations with someone who I know has genital herpes. That ONS will last a night, herpes is forever(or until medical advances enable us to get rid of it).