Post: #26

a girl drinks alcohol when she already wants to fuck, and just needs an excuse to let her guard down. so if a girl is drinking a) alcohol, b) more alcohol or c) even more alcohol, she is basically doing the job of overcoming LMR herself.

not every girl is going to get herself drunk so you can fuck her.

thus, we are back to the LMR issue.

Post: #27

I like gmac's method the best! Nothing works better than getting the hoe really really drunk, but at the same time I wanna make sure I'm not drunk, cuz if I'm drunk my boner won't be that strong.

Post: #28

I've got an 18 year old girl riding the bus to meet me in about 45 minutes. She doesn't have a car so I told her ride the bus to my place and I will drive you home. She asked if I smoked weed and I told her no I used to. She is pretty good looking but i'm scared she is going to be super ghetto but here goes nothing!

This just feels like one of those moments if its too good to be true it probably is but we will see. She said we could hangout at my place and I was like wtf?!

Advice?

She will also be my first black all black girl that I have ever hung out with. Anything I should do different than with a white girl?

Post: #29

(05-30-2013 05:54 PM)murrb Wrote:  I've got an 18 year old girl riding the bus to meet me in about 45 minutes. She doesn't have a car so I told her ride the bus to my place and I will drive you home. She asked if I smoked weed and I told her no I used to. She is pretty good looking but i'm scared she is going to be super ghetto but here goes nothing!

This just feels like one of those moments if its too good to be true it probably is but we will see. She said we could hangout at my place and I was like wtf?!

Advice?

She will also be my first black all black girl that I have ever hung out with. Anything I should do different than with a white girl?

Was this from online? And regarding your question about race just game her the same as you would any other women. With different ethnicities there may be slight cultural differences but they're all pink on the inside so just spit your best game and let the chips fall where they may.

Post: #30

(05-30-2013 05:41 PM)rivelino Wrote:  a girl drinks alcohol when she already wants to fuck, and just needs an excuse to let her guard down. so if a girl is drinking a) alcohol, b) more alcohol or c) even more alcohol, she is basically doing the job of overcoming LMR herself.

not every girl is going to get herself drunk so you can fuck her.

thus, we are back to the LMR issue.

I've come to believe this too-that girls drink when they want to fuck in order to make themselves hornier and overcome their inhibitions..

That's why I cut a date short if the girl won't drink at all or limits herself to one or two drinks- I know it's unlikely that she's DTF then. If we hit it off I might ask her out again but I'm not going to waste more time that night.

OTOH, sometimes a girl will nurse her first drink then begin drinking faster once you get a vibe going with her. This is a very good sign- you will often get the bang or very close when this happens

Quote:Posted by murrb - Yesterday 07:54 PM
I've got an 18 year old girl riding the bus to meet me in about 45 minutes. She doesn't have a car so I told her ride the bus to my place and I will drive you home. She asked if I smoked weed and I told her no I used to. She is pretty good looking but i'm scared she is going to be super ghetto but here goes nothing!

This just feels like one of those moments if its too good to be true it probably is but we will see. She said we could hangout at my place and I was like wtf?!

Advice?

She will also be my first black all black girl that I have ever hung out with. Anything I should do different than with a white girl?

Post: #31

Well she turned out to be crazy immature 18 year old with a little bit of hood in her but that turned out to be the easy lay of my life. Dont want to see her again though because she was just too crazy for me.

Post: #32

Well I just had another POF date. This girl was really cute slim and 23yrs old. Turns out she had dated this guy from highschool for 4 years and a little over a year ago they broke up. I dont think she had been with very many dudes. Out of all the POF dates I had been on I was always able to at least get them up to my condo.

By 10pm this girl was like "ok I should get home soon" she did drive 45 minutes to come see me but still. I was trying my best to kino and touch her as much as possible at the bar arcade we went to. Then we walked back to my condo where she parked nearby. I usually always ask them if they would like to come up to my place for a drink and they always say "yes" but this girl said "no".

I told her "no problem I hope you have fun on your second date tonight". Then she was like yeah with my bed and pillow..
I dont get it she drove 45 minutes to come hangout for 1hr 30min.
Maybe she just wasn't feeling me or maybe she was a big prude like she was leading on.

The best part was at the end she was like "we should hangout next friday and get dinner."

hahaha

Any advice?

Post: #33

whatever you do do not listen to stupid advices.

eg: make her hornier by going aggressive and touching more. (Is it possible to sleep with a girl just by touching her seductively? when she is not emotionally ready?)
get her drunk. (maybe you can say 'you want another one? let's get a shot' but other than that, what else can you do?)

Most 'PUA' guys will tell you 'well you were not aggressive enough' those kind of F.B.S.
It might be true if you are in very early stage. But most of the time, it's not. It's very Easy to be aggressive and this can Turn her Away very easily.

Post: #34

(06-08-2013 12:36 AM)murrb Wrote:  The best part was at the end she was like "we should hangout next friday and get dinner."

hahaha

Any advice?

Ask her, "So what are you cooking?"

Also, don't worry if you keep getting LMR. I've been LMR'd just as often as I've gotten sex. Just keep gaming new girls, something will eventually come through.

Post: #35

(06-08-2013 12:36 AM)murrb Wrote:  Well I just had another POF date. This girl was really cute slim and 23yrs old. Turns out she had dated this guy from highschool for 4 years and a little over a year ago they broke up. I dont think she had been with very many dudes. Out of all the POF dates I had been on I was always able to at least get them up to my condo.

By 10pm this girl was like "ok I should get home soon" she did drive 45 minutes to come see me but still. I was trying my best to kino and touch her as much as possible at the bar arcade we went to. Then we walked back to my condo where she parked nearby. I usually always ask them if they would like to come up to my place for a drink and they always say "yes" but this girl said "no".

I told her "no problem I hope you have fun on your second date tonight". Then she was like yeah with my bed and pillow..
I dont get it she drove 45 minutes to come hangout for 1hr 30min.
Maybe she just wasn't feeling me or maybe she was a big prude like she was leading on.

The best part was at the end she was like "we should hangout next friday and get dinner."

hahaha

Any advice?

Flip the script. Do not fall into her frame.

She wants to hang out with you = good
She is defining what you'll be doing and schedule = bad

Tell her you're busy Friday and offer something else in return. Focus on having a good time. If you're not having a great time with her, cut the date short yourself. She might be a more slow-moving girl, she might be looking to milk you for free dinners.

Post: #36

It looks like she's a slow mover. Her idea of dating is probably stuck in the time when she and her bf got together. Keep stoking the fire, she will probably reach the critical point and then, no turning back!

Post: #37

Brought a new girl back to my place. Probalby the hottest girl I will have been with.


Hottest one yet.

32 DD perfect ass

Got her naked on my bed and fingered and made out but she kept saying no to sex and wouldn't give me a blow job. She said she actually wants a relationship so I decided fuck it since my dick had too much whiskey in it.

I told her "Good this was just a test to make sure you weren't a slut because I only like sex on the 2nd date."

Anyway this girl seems promising. Her pussy smells good but I'm kind of glad we didn't have sex because I had been drinking and I didn't want limp dick for her first time.

Post: #38

How should I proceed? Text her tomorrow? I know her days off are wednesday and thursday and she works retail. She lives about 45 minutes away.

She just moved here so her only friends in this state are her gay roommates.

I'm trying to keep my cool and not get too excited because this is a good slut for my rotation if I can land her.

Post: #39

I guess I was acting rather horny and she was questioning when I had sex last.

I had sex yesterday but this strange pussy thing gets me going so much more that I couldn't help myself.

Edit: and now that 18 year old ghetto slut is sending me nude pics trying to get back with me. She is definitely a stage 5 clinger and im just going to keep ignoring her calls and text. She reminds me of the type of girl that would cry rape or try to impregnate her self.

Post: #40

(06-14-2013 12:43 AM)murrb Wrote:  Brought a new girl back to my place. Probalby the hottest girl I will have been with.


Hottest one yet.

32 DD perfect ass

Got her naked on my bed and fingered and made out but she kept saying no to sex and wouldn't give me a blow job. She said she actually wants a relationship so I decided fuck it since my dick had too much whiskey in it.

Then you drank too much. Because this was your shot you won't get another.

Post: #41

(06-14-2013 01:06 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

(06-14-2013 12:43 AM)murrb Wrote:  Brought a new girl back to my place. Probalby the hottest girl I will have been with.


Hottest one yet.

32 DD perfect ass

Got her naked on my bed and fingered and made out but she kept saying no to sex and wouldn't give me a blow job. She said she actually wants a relationship so I decided fuck it since my dick had too much whiskey in it.

Then you drank too much. Because this was your shot you won't get another.

Fuck I hope not! You are probably right though.

The last girl I hung with was such a prude that I thought "oh fuck I wont even take a cialis because this chick probably wont be dtf."

Always Be Prepared!

I will still at least shoot her a text in a few days. Maybe sunday evening or something to try and start it back up. She showed me her POF account and all the funny messages dudes were sending her. Damn I want to hit that!

Post: #42

(06-14-2013 01:09 AM)murrb Wrote:  Fuck I hope not! You are probably right though.

The last girl I hung with was such a prude that I thought "oh fuck I wont even take a cialis because this chick probably wont be dtf."

Always Be Prepared!

I will still at least shoot her a text in a few days. Maybe sunday evening or something to try and start it back up. She showed me her POF account and all the funny messages dudes were sending her. Damn I want to hit that!

You should go out in search of other girls before you see this girl again. She will detect the indifference. Your last line "Damn I want to hit that!" makes it seem like she's something special. She's not, but if you treat her as such then you'll blow it. That is, if you get her to meet up again.

As for girls wanting relationships, you need to reframe. Convince them that fast sex and relationships are not mutually exclusive, and in fact, fast sex is a vital part of relationships. As George Costanza once said, "It's not lying if you believe it."

Post: #43

I just met an OKC girl. She came near my place, went to mall, pizza, walked, applied kino and all seemed good. Got her to my place, which was near, fixed up some drinks, escalated in my sofa, kissed, and grabbed her to my room and proceeded to undress.

Got a really good bj, and then I fucked it up.

Tried to rawdog her. She jumped, put severe LMR and started to get dressed. She applied me the silent treatment, and put up a bad attitude.

First, I reacted in a playful manner, and took out the condoms from my drawer to show her I did have some. But it was too late, she was angry.

I told her that a mistake was made, and that I was ok on her getting upset about the condom but that I would not tolerate the silent treatment and her attitude. So, instead of getting her home, I dropped her at a bus station.

So, what is your experience on trying to rawdog and getting severely rejected.

Can I fix this one? How long should I freeze out? I know that I just can't apologize. Should I admit my mistake?

Post: #44

Bumping this after seeing a quote by WIA from this thread in Jagnum's signature. Lot's of great discussion here.