Post: #1

At my local hang out last evening. I go there usually as a starter just to warm up and get social before moving on to a club.

Sitting there with the manager of the bar chattin it up and I don't even remember how it got brought up, but he said something about me being a "whore".

me: why do you say that?
him: because you ARE!

So we debated and I asked the bartender girl, (who is a solid 8), if thats how she sees it and she said no.

OK, so it got me thinking. Here's my back ground:

For the first 38 1/2 yrs of my life I was all about LTRs, oneitis, beta, white knight....etc. You name it! Been married and divorced twice ( i know, IDIOT)
I discovered BANG and RVF approx 17 months ago. My life notch count looks like this now:

first 38.5 yrs========"x"
Last 17 months======"x" + 1

Yes, I have more than doubled my notch count in the last 17 months so I have been busy. Yes, there were some "slump-buster" 5s in there but I'd say I averaged steady 7s in my book.

I frequent the same handful of clubs and bars. It doesn't seem to be hurting me at this point for pulling girls. I pulled a SNL with a 27 yr old (7) last night and she was there with her mom!!! I think thats funny.

I'm 40..........Girls I can say are in my rotation currently are 23, 27, 27, 31, 34, and 39.

I got off the point.....How do you guys think it affects your game to be seen with a different girl all the time? I live in a relatively small city. Last night was the first time anyone has ever said anything about it. The manager that said it is grossly overweight and is likely jealous a little but I still want to know if it could get worse or it may even help???

Who has dealt with similar

Post: #2

In a way it helped me: I was the whore at this restaurant I was working at. The more girls I banged, the more girls wanted to know what all the fuss was about. So after awhile I didn't have to do anything at all, and a new girl would come in and grab my dick like it was okay, all because the older girls painted me a whore when giving her the rundown on who was who there.

Of course there was hate from some of the managers, and beta employees, but the cool guys respected it, and the girls kept coming.

There was one girl that I wanted more than the other girls though, and when I went after her she said she didn't want to be on "the list of girls". So I guess it wasn't ALL good.

That was work though. I can't imagine how being at a bar with different girls would have a negative impact on anyone's game, or why they'd even care; especially since the only person who's said anything is some tired old manager.

Post: #3

1) it's good
2) it's only bad if you are indiscreet.

WIA

Post: #4

How about some suggestions of how to respond to certain things that may come up since I have no intention of slowing down the pace any time soon.....

Hypothetically........I approach a girl, and try to escalate/ number close/ whatever.......and she says something along the lines of:


"Didn't I just see you in here last week with a some girl?"
"My friend just told me your a player."
"Where's your girlfriend?" (I like how being seen with a girl makes her your girlfriend. I get this all the time)

I'm not really worried about it because I'm starting to believe it doesnt REALLY matter to these girls. Case in point: I actually caught/ overheard a guy telling this pair of girls a week ago Saturday night "Deadman is a player". This dude rode with me to the venue and he says that shit?! I wasn't happy. But then the one that was single started talking to me about my "douchebag jeans" she called them (Rock & Republic), flippin me shit, and 4 hours later I was bangin the shit out of her at my place.......

Anyway, what are some good standard responses to these types of direct questions?

Post: #5

(05-26-2013 06:29 PM)Deadman Wrote:  How about some suggestions of how to respond to certain things that may come up since I have no intention of slowing down the pace any time soon.....

Hypothetically........I approach a girl, and try to escalate/ number close/ whatever.......and she says something along the lines of:


"Didn't I just see you in here last week with a some girl?"
"My friend just told me your a player."
"Where's your girlfriend?" (I like how being seen with a girl makes her your girlfriend. I get this all the time)

I'm not really worried about it because I'm starting to believe it doesnt REALLY matter to these girls. Case in point: I actually caught/ overheard a guy telling this pair of girls a week ago Saturday night "Deadman is a player". This dude rode with me to the venue and he says that shit?! I wasn't happy. But then the one that was single started talking to me about my "douchebag jeans" she called them (Rock & Republic), flippin me shit, and 4 hours later I was bangin the shit out of her at my place.......

Anyway, what are some good standard responses to these types of direct questions?

Why do guys still not know how to deal with these kids of shit-tests?

Don't take questions like this seriously, and treat her like a 5 year old when she gets out of line. The more you try to "explain" or give excuses, the further she will dig. Deflect and humiliate her for asking such a stupid question. You're a man, you do as you please.

"Didn't I just see you in here last week with a some girl?"

"What else did you see?"

"My friend just told me your a player."

"That's crazy! My friend told me you're a stalker!"

"Where's your girlfriend?"

"Jenny's a lesbian. Want me to set you two up?"

Post: #6

(05-26-2013 06:29 PM)Deadman Wrote:  "Didn't I just see you in here last week with a some girl?"
"My friend just told me your a player."
"Where's your girlfriend?" (I like how being seen with a girl makes her your girlfriend. I get this all the time)

I like Gmac's responses. There's so many different ways you can handle it, but my go to replies are to admit it by denying it cheekily. Things like

"I can't remember"
"I don't know what you saw, I'm not you"
"What girlfriend?"
"I'm a good boy" - in response to "you're a player/whore/etc"

I like telling girls I'm a virgin too whether it's in bed and they're shit testing me or if I'm at a bar. Obviously they know it's not true and they see that you're playing who you are down which really separates you from a lot of guys that frequent bars. Using the "v" word near a beta is fuel to get him boasting about how many girls he's shagged, which is shite game.

Honestly, it doesn't matter. It's not an interview when people ask you questions and there's no written contract to say that you have to answer questions honestly, or even answer them at all.

Just brush them off. "I can't remember" really frustrates girls, especially if you keep using it.

Post: #7

Reframe. Or exaggerate.

Post: #8

I got called on this in grad school and just shrugged and went about my day. I later banged the accuser.

Being a man slut is a good thing if you are discrete about it. All those girls knew I was fucking the other girls but didn't care because I didn't brag and thus embarrass them and never made it awkward after I pumped and dumped them. Embrace it, dude. How many other men on Earth get ranked as sluts??

Post: #9

(05-26-2013 04:52 PM)Deadman Wrote:  I got off the point.....How do you guys think it affects your game to be seen with a different girl all the time? I live in a relatively small city. Last night was the first time anyone has ever said anything about it. The manager that said it is grossly overweight and is likely jealous a little but I still want to know if it could get worse or it may even help???

Who has dealt with similar

Look, there's going to be situations where you can't avoid not being discreet, but discretion is key. You want to give off the playboy vibe, not the manwhore vibe. Game everyone so that nobody knows if you're trying to hit on the bartender, the girl that's there with you, or the girl sitting at the bar that you struck up a conversation with. The more social you are with everyone and the mostly discreet you are with your ladies, the less easy it is for people to label you a whore.

Is it a problem in terms of the manager? Probably not. He's just jealous and the hot female bartender being on your side proves it.

Is it a problem in terms of the dude that rode with you? Hell yes it is. You take him aside, you tell him that in no uncertain terms he is NOT to disrespect you like that ever again. That's huge disrespect. If he wants to talk you up to the girls, cool, but calling you a whore is totally disrespectful and not cool.

It sounds like you're doing a decent job pulling this off, but just keep discretion in mind as it will benefit you to keep things under wraps. Just like in business, if you are blatant about how successful you are it's only going to gain you haters and people being jealous.

Post: #10

He's jealous and trying to slip you Blue Pill guilt. Fuck him.

My dad laid this on me my senior year in high school when I made it a point to take a different girl to parties each week (sent my SMV WAY up).

Some of you may remember the asshole neighbor bully I wrote about here who walked his dog on my property then got mad at me for asking him to stop. Turns out one reason he was angry is that I bring women back here all the time and he has no one. I got this impression from a fellow female neighbor who is always flirting but won't touch his fat ass.

Anyway, the moral here is that haters gonna hate and society is all about trying to make you down the Blue Pill. Since you already had that life for 38 years, why go back? 90-95 percent of people in this world should not be listened to.

Post: #11

There are no male sluts. It's classic man-shaming language. Next thing he'll ask you why you support the double standard or whatnot.

Post: #12

Even if a girl knows you've been with multiple girls, she might feel disgusted/apprehensive but what happens at the end is she is attracted to you, you're someone who knows how to please a lot and no girls have been complaining, she wants to try it out for herself and gets curious. Never, ever a bad sign. Just deal with the shit tests and you're gold. Ladies want to be with you, and men want to be you, but some can't so get real jealous/envious haha.

Post: #13

(05-26-2013 06:29 PM)Deadman Wrote:  "Didn't I just see you in here last week with a some girl?"

Got this a few weeks ago in a venue I go regularly... flipped it over on her with:
"So you've been checking me out?"

Post: #14

Deadman: forgive me if it's not true. But I think you're a sleeper cell troll. Bad grammar + hamhanded jargon. I'm "reporting you" in the "troll thread" and I'm also cutting off my own nuts for typing the first half of this sentence.

The above notwithstanding, I'm going to respond to your question.

You can get a job. You can make money. You can get a nice haircut. Nice suit. You can cure cancer. You can write a song that makes the girls cry and throw their panties at the stage. Or you can clean toilets and drink yourself to sleep every night.

The only thing that matters to pussy is: do you get other pussy.

"I heard you're a player." I'm thinking: where did you hear that. I need to find that person and cut them a kickback. "I heard you're a manwhore." Well yes, I do occasionally fuck two ziploc bags full of warm water duct taped together, so, my standards aren't exactly Princess Grace of Fuckin Monaco. But every man would be a whore if he could. And I can. I am not in the top ten per cent of money, looks, or human achievement but I am god damn motherfucking permanently ensconced in the top one one hundredth of one per cent of rawdogging meaningless ass.

The only thing that matters to pussy is: do you get other pussy.

When a woman calls you a player, slut, manwhore: it's a gift. She is recognizing your game. If you had a Babel fish in your ear it would say: "I'll be fucking you easily later, possibly in a parking structure."

Post: #15

(11-07-2013 12:52 AM)delicioustacos Wrote:  When a woman calls you a player, slut, manwhore: it's a gift. She is recognizing your game. If you had a Babel fish in your ear it would say: "I'll be fucking you easily later, possibly in a parking structure."

And if they genuinely are turned off by your being a player/slut/manwhore, they weren't going to sleep with you easily anyway, so did you really want them in the first place and is it any kind of negative? Not really.

I personally prefer to be mysterious, but being an out and out slut/manwhore (and acting like one) will get you laid just as much if not more.

Post: #16

(05-26-2013 06:10 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  1) it's good
2) it's only bad if you are indiscreet.

WIA

Especially number 2. You can piss a lot of people off if you kiss and tell. Don't tell anyone.

Post: #17

GODDAMIT...only a chick can be a slut/whore.
A man is simply a healthy, virile man with a Man's sexual appetites. EMBRACE THAT SHIT, UNAPOLOGETICALLY.

Here are some common questions/comments & answers in my life:

Q. "I'm sure you have a girlfriend, right?"
A. "About a hundred of them. If play your cards right, and you can be one hundred and one, so be impressive."

Q. "Ok, Mr. Player."
A. "It's always cute to me when a girl is turned on by my reputation."

Q. So where's your girlfriend?
A. "Slow down speedy. I'll introduce you to both of them if I figure you're not a weirdo. You'll love'm."

Post: #18

^^^ money