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Soaked · 04-25-2015 02:46 PM

I don't expect that I'll ever feel the desire to never stay in a backpacker. I doubt I'd LTR someone who didn't have a similar attitude.

Not to say that I don't enjoy the finer things in life.

robreke · 04-25-2015 08:57 PM

just got SIF'ed on.

But, it really wasn't an official SIF, since the pictures she used on her profile were those of a legitimately thinner younger version of her. Probably her as a freshman or sophomore. She was legitimately hot and there are about 12 pics on her profile. No weird angles , just an attractive in shape slim girl.

Tonight she walks in the restaurant and I couldn't believe what I was seeing. At least 30 to 40 pounds heavier than the pics. I was rather mortified.

I sat through the first half of the dinner shell shocked. I recovered and made the most of it, but after the quality I've been getting so far this year, it's hard to sit through an hour dinner with a tubby. nice girl but I won't, obviously, be calling her again.

I can't fathom that girls think they are going to get away with this. If they think there's nothing wrong with them now that they're fat, why don't they post present pics of themselves. It's quite dishonest.

I guess that answers the question as to why she was willing to drive two hours to go on a date.

CrashBangWallop · 04-25-2015 09:09 PM

(04-25-2015 08:57 PM)robreke Wrote: just got SIF'ed on.

But, it really wasn't an official SIF, since the pictures she used on her profile were those of a legitimately thinner younger version of her. Probably her as a freshman or sophomore. She was legitimately hot and there are about 12 pics on her profile. No weird angles , just an attractive in shape slim girl.

Tonight she walks in the restaurant and I couldn't believe what I was seeing. At least 30 to 40 pounds heavier than the pics. I was rather mortified.

I sat through the first half of the dinner shell shocked. I recovered and made the most of it, but after the quality I've been getting so far this year, it's hard to sit through an hour dinner with a tubby. nice girl but I won't, obviously, be calling her again.

I can't fathom that girls think they are going to get away with this. If they think there's nothing wrong with them now that they're fat, why don't they post present pics of themselves. It's quite dishonest.

I guess that answers the question as to why she was willing to drive two hours to go on a date.

Lesson learned, I hope mate.

1) Dinner as a first date opens yourself up to all of these potential issues.

2) Always get a selfie Smile

robreke · 04-25-2015 09:32 PM

(04-25-2015 09:09 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:
(04-25-2015 08:57 PM)robreke Wrote: just got SIF'ed on.

But, it really wasn't an official SIF, since the pictures she used on her profile were those of a legitimately thinner younger version of her. Probably her as a freshman or sophomore. She was legitimately hot and there are about 12 pics on her profile. No weird angles , just an attractive in shape slim girl.

Tonight she walks in the restaurant and I couldn't believe what I was seeing. At least 30 to 40 pounds heavier than the pics. I was rather mortified.

I sat through the first half of the dinner shell shocked. I recovered and made the most of it, but after the quality I've been getting so far this year, it's hard to sit through an hour dinner with a tubby. nice girl but I won't, obviously, be calling her again.

I can't fathom that girls think they are going to get away with this. If they think there's nothing wrong with them now that they're fat, why don't they post present pics of themselves. It's quite dishonest.

I guess that answers the question as to why she was willing to drive two hours to go on a date.

Lesson learned, I hope mate.

1) Dinner as a first date opens yourself up to all of these potential issues.

2) Always get a selfie

Yes. I always do drinks later as a first date. I made an exception here because she was driving for two hours.

I forgot to mention. On her profile she has her body type as.....get this.......SLIM!

She didn't list herself as "average" or "athletic" which have been kind of ways for a girl to "white lie" about being a little pudgy ( though those never worked of course)

But she lists herself as freaking "Slim" !

I mean in real life, she was miles and miles past "a few extra pounds" this girl should be listed as "body type: full overweight" as far as I'm concerned, but she had the unmitigated gall to put 'slim'

I suppose she was referring to the way she looked in her 5+ year old profile pics.

CrashBangWallop · 04-26-2015 04:47 AM

(04-25-2015 09:32 PM)robreke Wrote:
(04-25-2015 09:09 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:
(04-25-2015 08:57 PM)robreke Wrote: just got SIF'ed on.

But, it really wasn't an official SIF, since the pictures she used on her profile were those of a legitimately thinner younger version of her. Probably her as a freshman or sophomore. She was legitimately hot and there are about 12 pics on her profile. No weird angles , just an attractive in shape slim girl.

Tonight she walks in the restaurant and I couldn't believe what I was seeing. At least 30 to 40 pounds heavier than the pics. I was rather mortified.

I sat through the first half of the dinner shell shocked. I recovered and made the most of it, but after the quality I've been getting so far this year, it's hard to sit through an hour dinner with a tubby. nice girl but I won't, obviously, be calling her again.

I can't fathom that girls think they are going to get away with this. If they think there's nothing wrong with them now that they're fat, why don't they post present pics of themselves. It's quite dishonest.

I guess that answers the question as to why she was willing to drive two hours to go on a date.

Lesson learned, I hope mate.

1) Dinner as a first date opens yourself up to all of these potential issues.

2) Always get a selfie

Yes. I always do drinks later as a first date. I made an exception here because she was driving for two hours.

I forgot to mention. On her profile she has her body type as.....get this.......SLIM!

She didn't list herself as "average" or "athletic" which have been kind of ways for a girl to "white lie" about being a little pudgy ( though those never worked of course)

But she lists herself as freaking "Slim" !

I mean in real life, she was miles and miles past "a few extra pounds" this girl should be listed as "body type: full overweight" as far as I'm concerned, but she had the unmitigated gall to put 'slim'

I suppose she was referring to the way she looked in her 5+ year old profile pics.

There's only one explanation really:

She thought she was amazing enough that you wouldn't care when you met her; most likely due to constant attention from thirsty dudes.

Hamster

I once had a date with a girl who I hadn't done the selfie check with; I was spinning too many plates and just forgot. When I picked her up from her house

I reckon she was 80lbs heavier than her photos and bio. I was so utterly, incomprehensibly stunned I started to drive off; my brain kicked back into gear a minute or so later and I just turned around at the top of her road and returned to her house.

Still in shock I said "I'm just not feeling this", hoping she'd got the message and fuck off sharpish. She got really angry saying "why, why?".

I looked at her sternly and said "you know why".

This calmed her right down and she meekly just got out of the car and waddled back into her cave.

It was only after my mind fog had cleared from the surreal encounter that I realised my car smelled of fat person too. I drove the whole way home with the windows open, laughing.

You most definitely only forget the selfie check once!!

Roardog · 04-27-2015 08:32 PM

Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry Confused

I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

Mister X · 04-27-2015 09:11 PM

(04-27-2015 08:32 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

I often think about how I'd play that kind of situation. If a girl online asks for my height and then balks at the answer, I wonder what I'd say. I think I can certainly rule out playing it cool. After that I don't know what I'd say specifically. I'm thinking maybe "sorry you're insecure about your height" or something to that effect. Put it on her and not me, since it is in fact, her hangup and not mine.

I remember a girl many many years ago, close to a decade ago, openly telling me she didn't go for shorter dudes. I mean outright "sorry I only date guys taller than 5'9 (she was 5'9 herself). I turned it around and got her interested in me (this was pre game too, as a beta teen) - but I can't remember at all how I did it. But also, height was not nearly as big of an issue as it is now.

I remember confidently gaming girls with my height listed online as 5'5 or 5'6 back in the day.

MrXY · 04-27-2015 10:10 PM

(04-27-2015 08:32 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

Keep in mind that probably 98% of guys have at least one issue that women will regularly use as a reason to disqualify them.

For you it's height, for others it's their income, education, age (too old or too young), their ethnicity, their particular job, their class background, their weight (too fat or too skinny) their personality, their political or social views, whatever.

For me it's age. Example- a couple of years ago I was banging the shit out of a 30 year old every weekend at her place. I was 50, but had told her I was 43 or 44. She told me that she always dated guys younger than her, but was making an exception for me. This went on for a couple of months, then one day somehow the truth came out and she got really upset and refused to see me anymore. She said it was because I had lied to her, but I've lied about my age to women plenty of times and told them the truth later and they didn't think it was a big deal. But this girl had a certain number in her mind and it didn't matter that she knew exactly how I looked and acted, that we had great sex many times and actually had a lot of common interests and got along very well. Some women just have a fixed idea about the kind of guy they want on certain parameters and there is nothing you can do about it except leave her in the rear view mirror and get on top of the next one.

Roardog · 04-27-2015 10:43 PM

(04-27-2015 09:11 PM)Mister X Wrote:
(04-27-2015 08:32 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

I often think about how I'd play that kind of situation. If a girl online asks for my height and then balks at the answer, I wonder what I'd say. I think I can certainly rule out playing it cool. After that I don't know what I'd say specifically. I'm thinking maybe "sorry you're insecure about your height" or something to that effect. Put it on her and not me, since it is in fact, her hangup and not mine.

I remember a girl many many years ago, close to a decade ago, openly telling me she didn't go for shorter dudes. I mean outright "sorry I only date guys taller than 5'9 (she was 5'9 herself). I turned it around and got her interested in me (this was pre game too, as a beta teen) - but I can't remember at all how I did it. But also, height was not nearly as big of an issue as it is now.

I remember confidently gaming girls with my height listed online as 5'5 or 5'6 back in the day.

I thought about trying to turn it around but it didn't feel like it was worth the effort. She was quite attractive but how much she swore on our first date really had me on the fence with her anyway.

I'd be interested to see how guys would turn this situation around though?

Soaked · 04-28-2015 03:11 AM

So I've had 3 plates on the go and I had a weird feeling this week that I'd managed to drop them all.

Girl 1 didn't text me at all after our last meetup and I figured my eat, bang and leave on our lunch date had pissed her off.

Girl 2 didn't text back for a few days but I thought it was all good until I saw her with her ex. She texted me after that it was awkward and I didn't reply.

Girl 3 didn't contact me at all and flaked on a meetup so I went radio silence on her.

A week later I just got a text from girl 1 and 3 in the space of an hour. +1 for indifference. I haven't replied to either and I don't think I will until they send me more needy things.

amity · 04-28-2015 06:16 AM

(04-27-2015 10:43 PM)Roardog Wrote:
(04-27-2015 09:11 PM)Mister X Wrote:
(04-27-2015 08:32 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

I often think about how I'd play that kind of situation. If a girl online asks for my height and then balks at the answer, I wonder what I'd say. I think I can certainly rule out playing it cool. After that I don't know what I'd say specifically. I'm thinking maybe "sorry you're insecure about your height" or something to that effect. Put it on her and not me, since it is in fact, her hangup and not mine.

I remember a girl many many years ago, close to a decade ago, openly telling me she didn't go for shorter dudes. I mean outright "sorry I only date guys taller than 5'9 (she was 5'9 herself). I turned it around and got her interested in me (this was pre game too, as a beta teen) - but I can't remember at all how I did it. But also, height was not nearly as big of an issue as it is now.

I remember confidently gaming girls with my height listed online as 5'5 or 5'6 back in the day.

I thought about trying to turn it around but it didn't feel like it was worth the effort. She was quite attractive but how much she swore on our first date really had me on the fence with her anyway.

I'd be interested to see how guys would turn this situation around though?

This is effectively a make or break shit test on the part of the girl.
The height thing is largely a barrier she has created in her head to filter out guys.
There's many short guys out there with women taller than them.
Girl "I don't date guys who are shorter than me"
You "And I don't date smart ass chicks with hairy hands and big noses. Now I'm going to get a drink. C'mon"
That's just one quick example, but basically as long as you don't buy into the woman's frame, and stay on your purpose, you'll be surprised how often the woman will 'follow'.
It doesn't always work, some women are just too stuck in their heads, but quite a few are easily swayed once you show confidence, purpose and wit.

Dalaran1991 · 04-28-2015 07:29 AM

Bro before ho, even though its one ho you wanna bang.

There’s a cute Russian chick I wanna bang at my dojo, but she is clearly crazy about one of my good buddies. She seems receptive to my game, but I’m taking one for the team.

This is a great budy of mine though he is beta as fuck and have no game whatsoever. He wants to game her, but I have to literally set everything up and even arrange for them to sit next to each other… But she is so much into him all he has to do is dont fuck up. Funny thing is, he wouldnt even noticed her had I not told him.

Some guys are just hopelessly clueless. But I’ve learned to tell myself that its not my problem.

Quote:Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

I would add "shallow with an inferiority complex" Theres no need to be nice to such bitches

Roardog · 04-28-2015 05:18 PM

(04-28-2015 06:16 AM)amity Wrote:
(04-27-2015 10:43 PM)Roardog Wrote:
(04-27-2015 09:11 PM)Mister X Wrote:
(04-27-2015 08:32 PM)Roardog Wrote: Got specifically rejected for not being tall enough for the first time in a long time recently. As a short guy I'm used to it being an issue for girls who are taller than me but it's the first time I can remember that I had it from a girl who is shorter than me.
It's something that I'm sure happens to me a lot but it's rare for it to be specifically pointed out, normally girls go for the softer inoffensive option.

In this particular case I was following up with a girl I'd been on a date with (from OKC so she had access to my height before agreeing to the date) and we had a fun text exchange before I pushed for the second meetup whereupon she hit me with "I can't date someone who is the same height as me lol. I know it's totally shallow. I'm sorry I understand if you get mad"

I assume she means the same height in heels because her actual height is 3 inches shorter than me, not that it really matters.

Normally I would just let something like this go, not bother responding and delete her number. However this time I decided to call her out on it and responded with "I'm not mad, I'm actually glad because you saved me wasting any more of my time, I couldn't date someone who is that shallow."

Another one chalked up to the game.

I often think about how I'd play that kind of situation. If a girl online asks for my height and then balks at the answer, I wonder what I'd say. I think I can certainly rule out playing it cool. After that I don't know what I'd say specifically. I'm thinking maybe "sorry you're insecure about your height" or something to that effect. Put it on her and not me, since it is in fact, her hangup and not mine.

I remember a girl many many years ago, close to a decade ago, openly telling me she didn't go for shorter dudes. I mean outright "sorry I only date guys taller than 5'9 (she was 5'9 herself). I turned it around and got her interested in me (this was pre game too, as a beta teen) - but I can't remember at all how I did it. But also, height was not nearly as big of an issue as it is now.

I remember confidently gaming girls with my height listed online as 5'5 or 5'6 back in the day.

I thought about trying to turn it around but it didn't feel like it was worth the effort. She was quite attractive but how much she swore on our first date really had me on the fence with her anyway.

I'd be interested to see how guys would turn this situation around though?

This is effectively a make or break shit test on the part of the girl.
The height thing is largely a barrier she has created in her head to filter out guys.
There's many short guys out there with women taller than them.
Girl "I don't date guys who are shorter than me"
You "And I don't date smart ass chicks with hairy hands and big noses. Now I'm going to get a drink. C'mon"
That's just one quick example, but basically as long as you don't buy into the woman's frame, and stay on your purpose, you'll be surprised how often the woman will 'follow'.
It doesn't always work, some women are just too stuck in their heads, but quite a few are easily swayed once you show confidence, purpose and wit.

I can see that being effective in person however the above example was over text message and I think that is a poor medium for convincing anyone of anything.

amity · 04-29-2015 12:38 AM

@Roardog Gotcha, yeh i was thinking of in person

Thoroughbred · 04-29-2015 07:38 AM

(04-20-2015 10:45 AM)robreke Wrote: "you're smashing my pussy"

Soaked · 04-29-2015 02:08 PM

So my dance game isn't good but tonight in a club I had a great time dancing and watching the hottest girl in the dance floor be approached by guy after guy and in the end after all my indifference I said hi at the bar because she was projecting IOIs and she ended up making out with me before she went back to the relentless assault of dance floor wannabees. I felt I could maybe close but it didn't happen, currently drinking and smoking at neighbours house that I just met. Fun times.

+1 for indifference

Ingocnito · 04-29-2015 08:50 PM

Man, why do latin women put on weight so easy? The Puerto Rican 8 I was bangin, hadn't been with in a few months and wrote her off, Christ, she must have put on 15+ lbs in just 2 months.

Knocks her down to a 7 at best for me. Gorgeous face but gotta have that body in check. Mexicans are notorious for this of course too.

Once they hit 25 y.o. you've gotta watch that shit.

Lothario · 05-01-2015 06:40 PM

I got BJ's from 2 different girls in this week but no + 1, I think I know why I didn't get the bang. I was playing a very fast game and trying to get laid in a 1.5- 2 hr window from meet to bang.

Girl # 1: Works evenings and we could only meet on weekends so we decided to meet for breakfast, After the Initial meet and Greet I tell her let me show you where I live and we bounce to my Apt just a block away, Listen to music, give her 10 min and start kissing. She tells me "we are not going to have sex on the first date" Start, stop, couldn't overcome LMR even though I was able to take her shirt and bra off revealing some perfect antigravity 21 y/o titties, she was rubbing my dick, so I whip it out and motion towards my member and she gives me a great BJ.

We are scheduled to meet again this weekend. We will see ...........

Girl # 2: We met earlier in the week for coffee and then bounced to my Apt to show her where I live etc. She hesitated for a moment to go upstairs, i calmed the hamster by saying "Let me just show you where I live and may be next time you can come watch a movie with me"

Once Inside we started listening to music, I gave her 10 min and leaned in to Kiss, seemed like she was going to turn her head away but didn't we made out, start , stop. she tells me "Just letting you know we are not going to have sex today" Banana

well she meant it, Couldn't overcome her LMR but placed her hand on my Dick, She started rubbing, I whip it out and she obediently obliges and starts sucking, I have to say again

"American Girls give the best head"

We relaxed for a bit, she still hasn't let me see her big Titties and said next time. She blew me one more time before leaving. Not a bad play for 2 hrs of Investment. We were scheduled to meet again today but she flaked and wants to reschedule for next week. We will see .........

OregonToSoCal · 05-01-2015 08:16 PM

(05-01-2015 06:40 PM)Lothario Wrote:
I got BJ's from 2 different girls in this week but no + 1, I think I know why I didn't get the bang. I was playing a very fast game and trying to get laid in a 1.5- 2 hr window from meet to bang.

Girl # 1: Works evenings and we could only meet on weekends so we decided to meet for breakfast, After the Initial meet and Greet I tell her let me show you where I live and we bounce to my Apt just a block away, Listen to music, give her 10 min and start kissing. She tells me "we are not going to have sex on the first date" Start, stop, couldn't overcome LMR even though I was able to take her shirt and bra off revealing some perfect antigravity 21 y/o titties, she was rubbing my dick, so I whip it out and motion towards my member and she gives me a great BJ.

We are scheduled to meet again this weekend. We will see ...........

Girl # 2: We met earlier in the week for coffee and then bounced to my Apt to show her where I live etc. She hesitated for a moment to go upstairs, i calmed the hamster by saying "Let me just show you where I live and may be next time you can come watch a movie with me"

Once Inside we started listening to music, I gave her 10 min and leaned in to Kiss, seemed like she was going to turn her head away but didn't we made out, start , stop. she tells me "Just letting you know we are not going to have sex today" well she meant it, Couldn't overcome her LMR but placed her hand on my Dick, She started rubbing, I whip it out and she obediently obliges and starts sucking, I have to say again

"American Girls give the best head"

We relaxed for a bit, she still hasn't let me see her big Titties and said next time. She blew me one more time before leaving. Not a bad play for 2 hrs of Investment. We were scheduled to meet again today but she flaked and wants to reschedule for next week. We will see .........

Nice job in keeping your eye on the prize and going for the bang. What's interesting is your first date model (and results) seem to be just like mine. The women are definitely attracted and turned on but their LMR is so rock solid nothing is going to overcome it. I'm seriously thinking of changing my approach to a two date model where the first date is coffee or something really cheap and then for the second date we do drinks in a bar or happy hour.

If I can get them to a second date, my suspicion is a lot of the LMR goes away since there's no "I had first date sex" stigma.

Truth Teller · 05-02-2015 01:47 AM

I am absolutely fucking hammered, so maybe this belongs in the drunk lounge. It's a holiday at my college, so I started at 8 am. I have no idea how much I've drank, honestly.

I lost at least three girls tonight by not being aggressive enough. I started making out with this girl and her friend pulled her away. Fuck. Well, at least it's toughening me up.

MrRoundtree · 05-02-2015 06:08 AM

My british girl came to visit me in Paris..before she goes back to the UK..we started fucking with her in my arms holding her..she was so wet it was incredible..then throw her on the bed and starting drilling her pussy..she was saying things like I missed this so much, you are so good...after the bang she gave me some great head as a reward and then she was ready for round 2 where I give her some good doggy style...

All in all, I love when a girl travels to get back with you because you gave her good sex before..this is the best feeling i've had after a rough week...

In term of new plates its difficult...all the girls I meet in Paris live really far its hard to see them again..

Vaun · 05-02-2015 06:40 AM

Two lays from two different girls this week, one from online, one from an approach that was over a year ago. Both 13-15 years younger. Good week...

Lothario · 05-02-2015 12:25 PM

(05-01-2015 08:16 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote: Nice job in keeping your eye on the prize and going for the bang. What's interesting is your first date model (and results) seem to be just like mine. The women are definitely attracted and turned on but their LMR is so rock solid nothing is going to overcome it. I'm seriously thinking of changing my approach to a two date model where the first date is coffee or something really cheap and then for the second date we do drinks in a bar or happy hour.

If I can get them to a second date, my suspicion is a lot of the LMR goes away since there's no "I had first date sex" stigma.

OTSC I would advise not to go to 2nd date model and keep on trying for the 1st date Notch. Even if we don't get the Notch there is no harm done and the farther you get on 1st date the easier it becomes to get the Notch on the 2nd date on the contrary if you play it cool on 1st date there is no guarantee there would be a 2nd date.

Lizard King · 05-02-2015 07:12 PM

I just probably cancelled a date inadvertently by refusing to allow her to bring a kind of a chaperone, her brother. I feel like I've done the right thing though, and I don't think I'll lose any sleep over it at all.

I could easily reschedule by changing the venue to her place, but the same cock-block will be there.

Roardog · 05-03-2015 06:29 AM

Almost got caught by my main girl this weekend. I've had a couple of girls over since I last saw her and I must not have done a proper sweep as she found a hair tie in my bed. I played it cool and held my frame and said I assumed it was hers or it may have been my housemates girlfriend as we were all hanging out in my bedroom the other night. She didn't seem inclined to put up much of a fight as she bought it without any further discussion so I smoothly moved the topic of conversation.
Thanks to the guys on here for showing me how to handle these situations. I didn't feel flustered at all and even if she hadn't bought it and had walked away I wouldn't have cared.

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