My first time posting in player's lounge. Such have been the past two weeks! Big thanks to the vets here for helping me improve my game.
[Long post warning]
After three new notches last week, I hit the solid wall of resistance
thrice this week. Writing my stories here for feedback. Vets- please be candid and generous with your feedback/critique.
Girl 1 6.5, 20 yr old (I'm 35+), picked her up from a uni two months ago, and then took her to art exhibition opening night a month ago. After a few back and forth for second date, we finally met this Monday eve. I had my dinner, she her drink. Then I got her to my place to show her my 'art collection'. Put the music, offer drink, but she refuses to drink. While showing her the paintings, she cracks some wise ass comments, so I hold her, slap her ass and kiss her. Kiss her a few times again in next hour, but she resists - won't open her mouth fully, kept remove my hand from her boobs or legs etc. And then comments that I was taking it too fast. I made a joke that I have a 7 date formula for any girl, and she starts laughing and easing. But she had to leave at 10PM as her mother was waiting. I drop her to taxi, and we kiss and make plans to meet on Thu. I text her on Wed with some banter, we back and forth four-five times. After that, I ask her:
Me [1353]: Lol, cheeky. Ok, meet me at 730pm tomorrow " art thing.
She [1354]: Yeah about that I just about to text you that I may not be able to make it. Last minute call. I'll confirm if I can
Me [1357]: haha. By when? It's an invite, so don't want it go waste
She [1516]: Okay yup can't make it.. but I'm sure you can find a date easily

Me [1549]: np, yes. Let's catch up another time
She [1631]: Sure. Let me know how it goes
I haven't replied yet. What/where/how should I get this girl to come now? I think I brought her home while she was not ripe. Bang is unlikely in next date or two, she doesn't drink much, and I won't mind taking this one slowly if it helps adding to harem in medium-long run.
Girl 2 6, 31 yr old; The 4th girl I met off OKC. I had refused first one, and banged next two, so this was pipeline and I was confident. Met her a week ago on a juice date. She had to go back to work, so didn't push. This week, I sent her a text on Tue. Made her come to meet me near my place for lunch on Wed, but then got her straight to my place as it was too hot outside. We eat, watch movie, make out a lot, and then despite her resistance, I get her nude and make her come with my fingers. But she didn't let me fuck her. She gives me a half decent BJ.
Have exchanged couple of texts with her, but nothing big. Haven't asked her for third date yet. Need to work on getting her sexed up to come.
Girl 3 7.5, 28, best Asian body I've seen so far, great taste in dressing, rich parents and very intelligent - ie relationship material. Met her at a training event three weeks ago, and then asked her to come for the play on Thu that the Girl 2 above refused. She laps it up and comes there. Very well dressed. I mean really well. A lot of banter before the play. Somewhere she throws "I have a bf and I am going to Europe to meet him this Sun. I will stay there for three months for an internship as well. If you're in Europe, we should meet up!". I don't comment, and move on to next fun topic.
We go to the play but it was shit, so I lead her out after 15 minutes. She proposes a place for dinner. We go there and over a two hour dinner and bears, get super buzzed. We were having fun, like real fun. Very connected, the people in there were looking at us as if we were couple. The guys on next table raised their glasses to me when she went for toilet break. Then I threw the hook of wine at my place, and she not only agreed, but when I didn't confirm a few minutes later, she says "so we are going to your place for more wine, right?" I knew it had to be 'no fuck up game' from then on.
We get to my place, and after 5 mins of talk, serving wine (while she is complimenting me on my taste in music, wine, cutlery, paintings- whatever), we make out. She says "No biiiiike, this is wrong. I have a bf. I cannot do this". So we stop. She continues to hold my hand. We keep drinking. 10 mins later, I start kissing again. She stops again after a few kisses. Still holds my hand, and is now touching my arm. I put her legs on my legs. 5 mins later, I go aggressive and we makeout for 10-15 mins. I try to take off her dress, she doesn't let me. I take off her panties anyway, and start fingering her. She keeps on saying we shouldn't do this. I lift her up, with my fingers still in her, and take her to my bedroom. We kiss, I finger her, take off her bra, partially take off her dress but she doesn't let me fuck. Keeps on saying it is wrong. I say "ok, I hear you. We don't go all the way." But I continue to push and make her come. She still doesn't let me fuck her. We go a bit slow then, and after a few minutes, she says she has to go home. I say no, you are not in a condition to go home, sleep here. We 'sleep', but for the next hour or so, I try to push for sex every 15 mins or so, but she keeps on resisting. It is 3 AM now, we fall asleep. At 6, she gets up to pee, and then takes off her dress fully- shit, what a body. Thin waist, flawless skin, nice boobs and solid ass. I was instantly hard again. But then she puts her panties on - I notice she had her last day of period. I start again, she doesn't even want to kiss. Bad beer / hangover breath may be. I start licking her boobs, and fingering her. She is still wet but stops me. I tell her that I need to come. She gives me a handjob and I come. We fall asleep again. We wake up at 9 and she leaves for her place. Thanks me for having her at my place. Confirms that she had her last day of period. At the taxi point, she says we'll meet up when she is back from Europe. I tell her I will call her later, but haven't done so yet.
I don't know why a) she will want to come to my place, b) make out and let me make her cum, c) but then don't have sex, and d) then say that she will meet me after she comes back. Too many confusing signals! What would the vets make of this? She is a 7.5 so I am willing to be a bit patient but would like to know what I could have done better, and way forward
tl;dr:
Girl 1- got her home, make out, but nothing more. Texting again, but need to throw solid hooks
Girl 2 - got her home, make her come, she gives me BJ, but slow texting since
Girl 3- relationship potential. Has bf. Make her come, she resists but gives me a handjob, sleeps in my bed, and then promises to be in touch when back. I haven't texted/called her since.
Critique welcome, as always! Thank you.