(05-24-2016 08:59 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Yet I can't seem to use what I know for tense social situations like heading to work. On any given day, this is the highest concentration of good looking candidates.

I just need to open my mouth. Yet I can't

WIA

What about cutting yourself some slack, doing what works now, and coming back to it later? Run comfort on yourself.

I've beat the final boss, this is a side mission lol.

It's a puzzle to crack

WIA

Chatted with a girl from badoo for sometime, yesterday she came straight over to my place. Took her to the bed, we chatted for about two minutes before I took her down and started kissing. Was escalating, sucking her titties and was going for the pussy when she started resisting. Couldn't bang her, but kept pushing. She stayed for three hours and in between my attempts to escalate we actually had some decent conversation. But in the end I said I'm tired want to sleep and she should go. I know this is because she didn't trust me enough and I should've been chatting with her a bit more before starting escalating and once I did maybe I should have been taking it slower.

I actually get this quite a lot, however I usually have more than one option so I would just next her. Where I am right now I don't have that many options and wanna give this girl a second chance, but how to do it better next time without getting back to the same position we left it at? Alcohol might help of course but I don't know if it's an option. Or I could just next her but it would be a shame, she's nice looking and quite smart.

I've found waking up very early before work to exercise, have breakfast, lounge for a half hour, even have a mimosa then leave early to work so you won't sweat a longer conversation is helpful.

You sacrifice after work and later nights though. The older you get less of a problem it should be.

Ease Into The Morning so it isn't as tense.

Banged the MILF trainer again last night.

She brought some lingerie over (and left some of it of course).

We banged, it was pretty intense.


I basically got a nut and it was over.

I didn't have any intention of banging againg, and she wouldn't stop teasing me, shacking that fit ass and trying to turn me on with my neck and ears (which isn't a turn on).

I dropped a few subtle hints that was I wanted to eat and go to bed, of course she didn't get it.

The more she stayed the more I got annoyed, I know she means well, but goddamn sometimes I want to be left alone after banging.

I wasn't even in the mood for round 2, how do you guys get into the mood for it ? Can you ? Or is it just biological ?

(05-24-2016 02:23 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I wasn't even in the mood for round 2, how do you guys get into the mood for it ? Can you ? Or is it just biological ?

I don't do round 2 very often.

If I do, it's because I want to stay up and fuck her. Occasionally she can get me back in the mood, ie give me a boner by stroking me pretty much.

She was going holistic with the make out neck and ears shit because she's a woman. They're more holistic than us and that will turn them on. Sure, it turns us on to, but post-coitus for us pretty much requires direct stimulation and a boner for our bodies to be ready to go again.

Surprised a good MILF doesn't know that by now. Mine does

If it's a new bang, I'm all gung ho about banging a few times. Most new bangs I' fuck at least twice the first time.

I find myself lately banging one and done, maybe I need to add cardio or leg day twice instead of once a week.

The whole kissing my neck and ears is boring and doesn't in the slightest turn me one, never has.

A girl giving me a massage has a few times, it's the escalation process for me that gets me super hard or when I'm spanking her ass or stripping her of her clothes.

I really hope my libido isn't slipping or T levels are dropping.

(05-24-2016 02:54 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If it's a new bang, I'm all gung ho about banging a few times. Most new bangs I' fuck at least twice the first time.

I find myself lately banging one and done, maybe I need to add cardio or leg day twice instead of once a week.

The whole kissing my neck and ears is boring and doesn't in the slightest turn me one, never has.

A girl giving me a massage has a few times, it's the escalation process for me that gets me super hard or when I'm spanking her ass or stripping her of her clothes.

I really hope my libido isn't slipping or T levels are dropping.

You're past the point where sex is new and exciting, so it takes more to get you going. Sure, some hot milf you've boned before is good for one nut. But lets face it, older women don't really get the juices flowing for long, especially ones that have had a kid (loose pussy) and you've boned them before.

But if you're bringing home a fresh nubile little 18yr old for the first time, then chances are you'll be hitting it over and over, because it's just more exciting and stimulating.

Actually she's not a MILF just a chick with a baby in her mid twenties.

She's definitely thinking of me as more than just a fuck buddy, she wanted to fuck again and I guess I just wasn't having it.

Actually a 19 year old plate aka the slut I can do anything with hit me up. It's about time I use those bed constraints that she bought me for her. See shit like that gives me a boner.

We'll see what's up.

I do think yeah, NEW sex is exciting, the hunt and the chase is awesome. Banging the same old plates that want more gets old.

@kaotic

This is why guys of all ages should do blood work.

If your test is high? Great, now you have a base line.

If your test is low? Fix that shit.

The cost is so low, the only reason not to get tested is fear of the results.

I would need to bang a new girl every 2 weeks to be consistently sexually excited with plates dropping off the sides and new ones come in. That said they need to be 7+ 23 or under as well.

Anything less and sex life seemingly gets stale or like I am not up to my potential.

I have never seen a girl naked in my bed past 24 with a truly great body . Sometimes most of it is there in the late 20s or early 30s you have the saggy tits when they lean over you on top, the veins on the hands, the slight crows feet, the skin just feels looser and colder like old turkey.

Serious yoga women and dancers are the only ones that defy, even then...

Even then...

(05-24-2016 02:23 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Banged the MILF trainer again last night.

She brought some lingerie over (and left some of it of course).

We banged, it was pretty intense.


I basically got a nut and it was over.

I didn't have any intention of banging againg, and she wouldn't stop teasing me, shacking that fit ass and trying to turn me on with my neck and ears (which isn't a turn on).

I dropped a few subtle hints that was I wanted to eat and go to bed, of course she didn't get it.

The more she stayed the more I got annoyed, I know she means well, but goddamn sometimes I want to be left alone after banging.

I wasn't even in the mood for round 2, how do you guys get into the mood for it ? Can you ? Or is it just biological ?

No offense dude but clearly this girl/woman means nothing to you. Thats probably why you get the nut and don't feel a need for round 2. She serves her purpose and thats it.

I've been in the same situation lots, with lots of girls, almost always were girls I would have no intention of anything being more than a FB. With that mentality, they come over, bang a nut out, see ya!

Unless I actually like a girl and can stand her outside of letting me use her vagine as a condom (thanks soup), rarely would I go for round 2. However, when I do enjoy her company, I want to bang her more. Like 2,3,6 times y'know.

The Testosterone test is a good idea, but from what I remember you're a relatively young guy. Barring any major conditions I doubt it would be something to do with your Test levels, more like your body/mind saying 'we got it done, time to ship out bitch!'.

One other thing - if you wanna fuck more, chill out, nothing will stop round 2 quicker than getting all ants in the pants about why you're not cocked, locked, and ready to rock.

My 2c.

(05-24-2016 07:03 PM)Travesty Wrote:  I would need to bang a new girl every 2 weeks to be consistently sexually excited with plates dropping off the sides and new ones come in. That said they need to be 7+ 23 or under as well.

Anything less and sex life seemingly gets stale or like I am not up to my potential.

I have never seen a girl naked in my bed past 24 with a truly great body . Sometimes most of it is there in the late 20s or early 30s you have the saggy tits when they lean over you on top, the veins on the hands, the slight crows feet, the skin just feels looser and colder like old turkey.

Serious yoga women and dancers are the only ones that defy, even then...

Even then...

Totally agree. I'm young myself so I rarely go for girls older than 23-24, and if I do it's usually ONS from night game being a bit drunk and just wanna fuck something. Not looking forward to the day when I can't pull young girls anymore, idk when that will happen, been reading a few threads in here about it and seems like when a man turns 28-30 it gets more difficult for him, but if he have been working a lot on himself like good game, money, fit body etc, then he can still pull young girls even if he's older. This also depends on where one is located. Apparently being young is very important in Japan while it actually might be an advantage in SA according to some writers on this forum.

And on the other topic, if I'm with a girl that I actually enjoy then I'm usually disappointed if I only can bang her once and will have to meet up with her again. Girls who I don't really like but bang anyway just because I can, after I come, I pretty much want them to leave asap.

(05-24-2016 07:54 PM)spygoat Wrote:  No offense dude but clearly this girl/woman means nothing to you. Thats probably why you get the nut and don't feel a need for round 2. She serves her purpose and thats it.

I've been in the same situation lots, with lots of girls, almost always were girls I would have no intention of anything being more than a FB. With that mentality, they come over, bang a nut out, see ya!

Yeah absolutely she is, and she does serve that purpose, she isn't stupid either, she knows the score, secret society unspoken agreement.

Quote:Unless I actually like a girl and can stand her outside of letting me use her vagine as a condom (thanks soup), rarely would I go for round 2. However, when I do enjoy her company, I want to bang her more. Like 2,3,6 times y'know.

The Testosterone test is a good idea, but from what I remember you're a relatively young guy. Barring any major conditions I doubt it would be something to do with your Test levels, more like your body/mind saying 'we got it done, time to ship out bitch!'.

It pretty much comes down to that, basically hey I got my nut, I'm satisfied. Bye !

Quote:One other thing - if you wanna fuck more, chill out, nothing will stop round 2 quicker than getting all ants in the pants about why you're not cocked, locked, and ready to rock.

My 2c.

I may see to write like I'm over analyzing it, I just wanted to get other members opinions on this.

I do know girls are becoming boring, I am on the chase for new plates of course.

(05-24-2016 11:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I may see to write like I'm over analyzing it, I just wanted to get other members opinions on this.

I do know girls are becoming boring, I am on the chase for new plates of course.

I think you're burning yourself out is all.

I think you should sit your ass at home and take some time off. It sounds like you're getting too much pussy and you're out in the field so much that you've become desensitized to the finer parts of the chase. Soon the chase will burn you out.

I know, I know, I said there's a such thing as too much pussy. At least at one time.

This has happened to me multiple times, because I live in a place where the girls aren't amazing in the slightest and I get lazy, so I go long stretches of time cycling through the same girls to the point that I stop gaming completely. Then suddenly there's spurts of time in the summer when I travel to a new city and blast my way through it. In short, I haven't banged many girls, but the ones I've gotten, I've gotten in sprints. After these sprints, I lose that magic and sensitivity I went in with. Which sounds exactly what you're describing.

Just take a month or so off, without gaming anyone. Make a point to not chase. After a month of that, you'll get fucking tickles dancing up your spine again when a strange girl so much as locks eyes with you—that weird light-headed feeling of your brain saying "kill switch: engage."

I don't think it has anything to do with your T, but of course you should get it checked just to be sure. But this kind of thing happens to me. After I have a good break (which is almost involuntary simply because of the conditions I live in, or rather, used to live in now) I can round 2 a girl and get one of those super warm-up nuts. You know the ones where you bust your first nut, but you feel like you need the second one, and then that one eclipses the first one like the first was just a warm-up load.

^ That's my favorite opener lately with girls.

"Kill switch, engage."

Mixed responses so far.

(05-24-2016 07:03 PM)Travesty Wrote:  I have never seen a girl naked in my bed past 24 with a truly great body . Sometimes most of it is there in the late 20s or early 30s you have the saggy tits when they lean over you on top, the veins on the hands, the slight crows feet, the skin just feels looser and colder like old turkey.

Serious yoga women and dancers are the only ones that defy, even then...

Even then...

You need to spend more time in NYC or something! Somewhere with tons of hot women and the top 1-5% in fitness are highly motivated to stay that way.

Having said that, of course there's nothing like a perfectly taut 19-yr body.

^ I will grant you I slept with a 28 year old Asian chick in NYC awhile back.

She did ballet all the time and was very serious about it. Great body, only exception I can think of.

Serious yoga and dancer girls (strippers are of course in this pack) are the ones that defy.

That said she had small tits so she won't suffer the sag as much. And she's Asian so she gets 10+ years on aging compared to white chicks.

Ive got 5 girls in 3 different cities lined up.

The man is back. The funk has been lifted.

I went on a date with a woman about a month ago and ended up escalating to me sucking her tits and her giving me a handjob (couldn't get her pants off). She seemed keen for a second date at the time but was flakey since then and hasn't replied to my last two texts.

It has been a few weeks since I sent anything and I'm curious on how to re-open. Sending a text is doing the exact same thing and expecting things to go differently. Would a call be a better way to do it? Nexting her isn't that far off, but I want to ensure there's no prospects before I focus that small amount of attention on something else.

What I've noticed is snapchat is perfect for reengage game. Chicks I haven't talked to in months, I send them a funny or cool snap and it's back on!

(05-26-2016 08:07 AM)Uptown Wrote:  I went on a date with a woman about a month ago and ended up escalating to me sucking her tits and her giving me a handjob (couldn't get her pants off). She seemed keen for a second date at the time but was flakey since then and hasn't replied to my last two texts.

It has been a few weeks since I sent anything and I'm curious on how to re-open. Sending a text is doing the exact same thing and expecting things to go differently. Would a call be a better way to do it? Nexting her isn't that far off, but I want to ensure there's no prospects before I focus that small amount of attention on something else.

You expect sex.
She knows that you expect sex.

Don't escalate physically when you can't close. In a case where you can't close - Ideally, you hit her in the "feels", maybe a light kiss, and then leave her wanting more.

The key here is her feeling after the encounter.

If you can get her out, you may have to "date" her. Show her that you actually "like" her for more than just sex... in order to pull her defenses down.

For whatever reasons, probably evolutionary, the idea that she is consciously aware that you want to stick your dick in her turns her off, makes her skittish. But if the sex just happens, or she chooses, then it's cool.

WIA

^ You're making a website? Is it cooking recipes, dance moves, or game?

I have to drop a lot of girls when they want the "date" treatment and I don't see them as anything except a fun time. I think it mentally for the best, I think you only get a high level of satisfaction from spending time with a girl you are willing to put some "date" work into even if you are doing it with 5 different girls. She is worth the game.

So the MILF Trainer Monday, Ended up banging the 18 year old softball player Tuesday night, yesterday was busy because of a relatives surgery.

I ended up riding my Harley for a few hours during their surgery, crosswinds and big rigs are sketch when combined on a freeway.

The 19 year old slut I can do whatever I want to came over last night. I ended up picking up some blow for this weekend and had her wait outside my house till I got back.

Her eyes lit up when she saw the bed restraints ready to go underneath the blankets.

I ended up tying her up and teasing the fuck out of her before fucking her for a bit, let her legs free, banged her again from behind with her hands tied. Fucked her head into the wall a few times lol.

She started blowing me, fucked her halfway off the bed after and finished in her mouth. Out of the 3 days in a row of orgasms, this one was the best. She always knows how to get me off.

I even got her to help get rid some random hairs on my back, so I look prime for my vacation.


I honestly think I should take a break from women. Maybe put more focus into the gym and dieting (which I am already). A buddy of mine is sponsored by BodyBuilding.com and another is a local competitor.

Other than that I'm looking forward to the mayhem this weekend and friends I'll be meeting who are flying in from all over the states and from the world. (It's annual music festival meetup) Perhaps a new bang, an old plate will be there also and reached out to me last week about it.

^ Stop waste sexual energy on girls who have given birth when you got such nice girls coming.