Post: #1

Ok fellas my game is pretty tight when it comes to approaching women, but I gotta say this. I just did a cold approach on a girl and I let her get under my skin with her bitch shield. And I know you can't let these initial shield stop you from your purpose which is to get the number. But I did, I cold approached this chick and you could tell she was thrown off by me coming at her. Which is cool, because that's what happens sometimes when you cold approach chicks. She was short with the answers which I'm used to no big deal in these situations. But her bad attitude and aura just got to me, and I told her that she should smile some. She just looked at me with the same stone face, ha ha. Then after that I told her she had a bad attitude and I just walked away and she got in her car and stormed off. lol.

Most times I don't go off on a chick, sometimes I will if I deem it necessary. But I couldn't help it on this one. I didn't even ask her for her number or nothin. Funny thing is, this chick could have been feeling me but was too nervous to show it. And sometimes women just shut down and don't know how to react so their nervousness takes over and they give you the bitch shield. I've had a girl in the past in a pharmacy give me the same bitch shield, but I fought through it and got the number and was banging her 2 days later. Sighhhhhh

Post: #2

So really my question is have any of you guys had this experience? Or do you experience this a lot on cold approaches, and how do you normally handle it? Usually i'm ok with it, but as I said this bitch made me go off on her at the end. ha ha

Post: #3

You sure your game is tight? It doesn't sound like it.

Post: #4

(05-21-2013 04:45 PM)Menace Wrote:  You sure your game is tight? It doesn't sound like it.

Your a funny guy...

Post: #5

Quote:And I know you can't let these initial shield stop you from your purpose which is to get the number.

The purpose is to build attraction and get her comfortable with you - your a stranger to her at this point. Getting the number is a consolidation prize that may not lead anywhere. It doesn't sound like your game is tight and your attitude is pretty .

Post: #6

How do you know before you go and talk to her that you want her number? It sounds like you've already made up your mind and now you're trying to convince her that she should spend time getting to know you. Instead view the interaction as offering her the opportunity to convince you that you should invest more time getting to know her.

If she doesn't let her bitch shields down then she's not the girl for you and it's her loss-not yours.

Post: #7

(05-21-2013 04:30 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  Ok fellas my game is pretty tight when it comes to approaching women

Post: #8

Ya'll are funny... I do more lurking on here than anything and read what people have to say. I've been baggin women since I came out the womb. My overrall game is tight, i'm not trying to make this a racial issue or nothing. Seriously tho, i'm a Black American dude and we have natural game. So all these little techniques that are said on here are cool, and sometimes i'll learn something here or there maybe. But most of this stuff I already know, and it comes natural. We Black American guys are the biggest players on this planet, each generation passes on game. Most of us already have game, but there are the exceptions. I just wanted to vent more than anything, as I said my game is tight.

I asked really for similar experiences or how have you reacted in similar situations. And like I said not trying to be a dick about it, most white guys have no game generally speaking and don't even approach girls unless drunk. Most guys you see approaching girls out in public are black dudes. Because we have natural game, and have no fear. So I give you guys credit for trying to develop and hone your skills, because your def ahead the game and seek knowledge and understanding. A lot of this stuff is common sense anyways, it's not that hard. You have to have balls more than anything, that's 70% of the battle right there. So relax on trying to tell me about my game, that wasn't the point of this thread. Just sayin...

Post: #9

I got a lot of attitude from a chick today! While I walked past her, she noticed me, I popped into a clothing store for about 15 minutes, and when I came out, I still saw her standing, I went cocky funny and said "Oh, it look's like you're being stood up", she said with a stone cold face "Keep walking", I then told her "Damn girl that's rude,are you always like this?", at this point we're both looking at each other with piercing eyes, then after 3 seconds she says to me "Mind your own business", and looks away, I tell her " You're loss", and walk off. I'm not very polite, and a lot of people say I am stuck-up as well, what do you y'all think, did I handle this correctly?

Post: #10

Okay, besides the obvious race trolling and big-baller trolling, I think it's safe to say EVERYONE has a bitch shield experience. Not a big deal for me, I simply walk away without losing my cool.

Post: #11

(05-21-2013 05:39 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  Ya'll are funny... I do more lurking on here than anything and read what people have to say. I've been baggin women since I came out the womb. My overrall game is tight, i'm not trying to make this a racial issue or nothing. Seriously tho, i'm a Black American dude and we have natural game. So all these little techniques that are said on here are cool, and sometimes i'll learn something here or there maybe. But most of this stuff I already know, and it comes natural. We Black American guys are the biggest players on this planet, each generation passes on game. Most of us already have game, but there are the exceptions. I just wanted to vent more than anything, as I said my game is tight.

I asked really for similar experiences or how have you reacted in similar situations. And like I said not trying to be a dick about it, most white guys have no game generally speaking and don't even approach girls unless drunk. Most guys you see approaching girls out in public are black dudes. Because we have natural game, and have no fear. So I give you guys credit for trying to develop and hone your skills, because your def ahead the game and seek knowledge and understanding. A lot of this stuff is common sense anyways, it's not that hard. You have to have balls more than anything, that's 70% of the battle right there. So relax on trying to tell me about my game, that wasn't the point of this thread. Just sayin...

lol

Post: #12

(05-21-2013 06:08 PM)gandt Wrote:  

(05-21-2013 05:39 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  Ya'll are funny... I do more lurking on here than anything and read what people have to say. I've been baggin women since I came out the womb. My overrall game is tight, i'm not trying to make this a racial issue or nothing. Seriously tho, i'm a Black American dude and we have natural game. So all these little techniques that are said on here are cool, and sometimes i'll learn something here or there maybe. But most of this stuff I already know, and it comes natural. We Black American guys are the biggest players on this planet, each generation passes on game. Most of us already have game, but there are the exceptions. I just wanted to vent more than anything, as I said my game is tight.

I asked really for similar experiences or how have you reacted in similar situations. And like I said not trying to be a dick about it, most white guys have no game generally speaking and don't even approach girls unless drunk. Most guys you see approaching girls out in public are black dudes. Because we have natural game, and have no fear. So I give you guys credit for trying to develop and hone your skills, because your def ahead the game and seek knowledge and understanding. A lot of this stuff is common sense anyways, it's not that hard. You have to have balls more than anything, that's 70% of the battle right there. So relax on trying to tell me about my game, that wasn't the point of this thread. Just sayin...

lol

X2....Natural game because of your race?........

Post: #13

Definitely going to be watching this thread closely...

Post: #14

(05-21-2013 05:39 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  And like I said not trying to be a dick about it, most white guys have no game generally speaking and don't even approach girls unless drunk.

Post: #15

Aw shit. He just went there!

Post: #16

(05-21-2013 05:39 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  We Black American guys are the biggest players on this planet

Ban this troll.

It's obviously at 15 year old white kid trying to troll us

Post: #17

(05-21-2013 04:30 PM)GsUp2000 Wrote:  Ok fellas my game is pretty tight when it comes to approaching women, but I gotta say this. I just did a cold approach on a girl and I let her get under my skin with her bitch shield. And I know you can't let these initial shield stop you from your purpose which is to get the number. But I did, I cold approached this chick and you could tell she was thrown off by me coming at her. Which is cool, because that's what happens sometimes when you cold approach chicks. She was short with the answers which I'm used to no big deal in these situations. But her bad attitude and aura just got to me, and I told her that she should smile some. She just looked at me with the same stone face, ha ha. Then after that I told her she had a bad attitude and I just walked away and she got in her car and stormed off. lol.

Write down exactly what you said, how are you going to get advice being so vague. For all we know your tight game cold approach might have been "Ay yo ma! Wutup shorty?"

Post: #18

Is it the 1st of the month already?

Post: #19

I sense this in your future.