Post: #1

Met this Mexican girl about an 8.5
My works been crazy but now is lightening up
We have had great times but now she just texted that she thinks I'm too busy for her
What do u guys think I should do/text back? I like her and would be willing to see her more. Met five weeks ago, been seeing each other twice a week and we spent entire weekend together last weekend...
Thinking of saying
awww u miss me?
But wondering if I should be a little more sweet. Don't want to submit to her demands just as precedent....but want to keep her around

Post: #2

tell her you have been buried with a project but now you are freed up and will make time for her because she is worth the effort.

thats my advice anyway and i have used it before with success.

Post: #3

Newbie thread.

Depends on what you want. If you want the bang then bump what she thinks. Is she a real Mexican or Mexican American? Mexican American I would be an asshole. Mexican then I might reassure her in a cocky way.

If you want to be with her then I don't know what to say. I don't deal with relationship type but she sounds needy already. Twice a week and weekends and you dont have time for her? Sounds like a shitty relationship to me. Get the bang, lower her expectations, and adjust from there.

Post: #4

(05-11-2013 02:16 AM)AdmiralAdama Wrote:  What do u guys think I should do/text back?

We don't use textspeak here.

Post: #5

I think saying anything to the tune of "I'll make more time for you" is a terrible idea.

Instead, why not call her bluff? Subtly and gently imply you are too busy and she isn't worth any more of your time than you're already giving (or even less).
Very likely it will only lead to her putting more effort in to trying to see you.

A guy who has nothing better to do with his time and is willing to move things around in his life to hang out with some chick is ironically the last person said chick would want to hang out with... On the other hand, a guy she believes values his time and prioritizes other things above her represents a challenge, and she will put in more effort to win his attention.

Best of luck.

Post: #6

Take this with a grain for salt because I could be waaaay off the mark. But I don't think this has anything to do with you not seeing her enough. I think some (i.e. most) women have a need for drama in their lives, so she's trying to drum up a mini-crisis.

This is why women prefer violent criminals over responsible men; why they have "oops!" pregnancies; why they walk the streets dressed in nothing and are amazed -- amazed!!! -- they get harassed.

If I'm right, you're going to have to find a way to give her her desired drama fix or she'll find someone who will. You might want to inquire about her past relationships. If they sound like they were all one crisis after another, realize that's not what she was running from, but what she prefers. And if I'm totally wrong and she seems drama-free, then maybe she just misses you. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

PS: If she happens to be a nurse, she lives for drama.

Post: #7

Welcome to a shit test, bud. Even after 19 years of marriage, you still get this shit thrown in your face. I hate the fact that we can be holding up the weight of the world or discovering the cure to cancer, and whatever time we carve out for them STILL isn't good enough!

I would call the bluff too. What the hell? Chicks pull the drama card all the fucking time.

This post and shit test pisses me off.