Post: #26

I don't believe I find 5 girls to approach every day, unless I seriously go out of my way...

But when I'm doing my thing, I can definitely get 2 to 3. However, I've been doing it a while, and spent enough time going out of my way doing 10 to 25 a day that it doesn't matter much to me. I'm not going to forget this. I've developed serious social skills in just talking, befriending both guys and girls.

Night game is easy to do 5 a day. Day game, is not, unless you camp coffee shops.

Post: #27

Kudos to Roosh, who's on the verge of banning me but I'll grant he's right about this.

I was out on a bike ride today, on the way home and said to myself "I haven't done my approach for the day."

So I stopped at a glossy supermarket in the college town. Wandering around inside I was sort of looking for a victim, but no one was obvious and although I try to chat up cashiers I want to graduate to a more profound level of criminality.

So I bought some stuff and left, and while unlocking my bike, a cute brunette early 30's girl smiled at me!! (I'm in my mid-50's, look 40's) A foreigner!! ( American women don't smile unless you're YoungTallCool)

I commented on her brightly colored backpack, that it might be a good safety item, and she actually responded with more than a hostile grunt!! What the hell is this, Russia?

Well, the poor thing obviously can't recognize a psychopath, I found out she's a professional from Montreal ( noticed an accent and she said she's from Canada).

Despite my best attempts to be Beta (I said I was nervous because I was writing a girls' phone number down) I got her email address. She said she's leaving for another country so her phone won't work. I generally never believe excuses but it doesn't really make any difference, I'm just practicing.

So I went from nothing to an actual email close.

WADA= Weights and Daily Approach. I heartily endorse. I honestly think it helps keep mood up when you're not getting laid.

Post: #28

one approach per day is suprisingly challenging

Post: #29

Agree, as I'm taking my baby steps I find this hard to achieve.
My solution is to deny myself fun (video games), till I make the approach.

Post: #30

(06-02-2013 05:40 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  one approach per day is surprisingly challenging

You must be joking?!?

I just walked across the street to buy a carton of milk, there was a cute Latina in the line next to me, I just smiled and said "good morning". We chatted for a minute.

There are plenty of girls out there. You just gotta go talk to them!

Every cute girl that you DON"T talk to is a wasted opportunity to improve your game!

Post: #31

(06-03-2013 01:02 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(06-02-2013 05:40 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  one approach per day is surprisingly challenging

You must be joking?!?

I just walked across the street to buy a carton of milk, there was a cute Latina in the line next to me, I just smiled and said "good morning". We chatted for a minute.

There are plenty of girls out there. You just gotta go talk to them!

Every cute girl that you DON"T talk to is a wasted opportunity to improve your game!

Do you have to push every interaction to the extreme, or is just talking with 5 girls a day enough? Of course while sensing for serious interest from the girls parts, depending how the conversation unfolds.

Post: #32

delete.

Post: #33

Haha you don't HAVE to do anything!

But yeah, just talk to them and see where it goes.
Most will run their natural course but sometimes it will seem right to push further if either of you seem really interested.

Post: #34

I second Giovonny.

One approach a day is a joke. It is only one conversation starter. It can be anything. Nobody says that one approach = one long and fruitful interaction. It also does not have to be this big walk up or big scene like a full stop yad style. It is just breaking the ice with somebody.

Come on guys get real.

Post: #35

(04-18-2017 12:22 PM)Lime Wrote:  Do you have to push every interaction to the extreme,

No.

Use some judgement. Have some awareness. Show some social grace.

If the conversation lacks momentum and flow, let it die.

Part of having good school skills is knowing when to end an interaction.

Obsessive rambling and lingering is tacky, try-hard and juvenile.

That said, do push things to the extreme sometimes, when you sense the opportunity and have the courage.

(04-18-2017 12:22 PM)Lime Wrote:  or is just talking with 5 girls a day enough?

When I was a newbie, I talked to 10-20 girls per day.. For me, 5 girls a day was not enough, it left me wanting more..

My game was so bad that I could feel myself getting better with each approach... I craved that inner feeling of improvement. I knew I was getting closer to my goal.

So, for me, talking to 5 girls a day was NOT enough. 5 a day slowed down my progress.. I needed more like 15 a day to feel and see fast results.

Post: #36

^Gold in Gio's post here.

Notice how he isn't focused of the outcome of any particular approach? Instead he's thinking more about overall improvement. That outcome independence of what happens with any individual girl is confidence. She will sense that you have bigger ambitions than her.