Post: #26

I doubt by dad had more than several. I'd bet it was 5 tops. Maybe as low as 3. He's not a bad looking guy at all, but he's always been kind of low key, introverted and non-aggressive. A natural temperament I inherited from him and have struggled my whole life to break out of.

Post: #27

Fun story:

My aunt (my dad's sister) was a nurse, and while she was in nursing school, my dad ran "hook me up with some of your classmates" game.

When I was about 14, my mom was looking through old photos and found one of her nursing school graduating class.

"See, there's me, and there's your aunt Linda.

(Pointing at different girls in the photo, *beaming with pride*)
Your dad fucked her, her, her, her, her, her and then ended up marrying me."

Post: #28

My dad was in the Marine Corps for 13 years, from 18 to 31. Later into his career I think he became a hardass as he was promoted and had to deal with young Marines and their bullshit. He married my mom in the middle of his career and they divorced three years later. In his deployments to Japan and the Philippines I'm positive he slayed a few of the locals. Hell, my older brother had to tell me my dad had banged some Filipino youngins, but my dad has never personally admitted this to me, just hinting that it was "A good place to visit."

Game recognized, dad.

Post: #29

A good family friend spilled the beans to me that my dad cheated on my mom with some hot young starlet slut back when they were freshly married and he was kind of a big deal in show biz. Now that I think about it and look at it from a red pill perspective it makes all the sense in the world. Pre selection from him being married to my mom who was pretty damn cute? Check. Older guy in his mid 30s killing it professionally? Check. Status in his fun/cool industry? Check. It also finally answered the question of why my parents waited 13 years to have me.

My dad was always a saint in my eyes growing up. I thought he could do no wrong. I always saw him as a moral rock in an otherwise worthless and shitty world. That revelation kind of fucked with my head at first, but didn't make me that angry. I was pretty blue pill at the time and felt a little angry but even with a blue pill mentality it didn't upset me all that much. He still doesn't know that I know about it - and I wanna keep it that way. It's not my issue to be upset about something that happened way before I was born that isn't my personal business. Also, with a red pill mentality, how can I blame him ya know?

Moral of the story: all the institution of marriage does is place chains on the male sexual id. Innate sexual proclivity outweighs bullshit blue pill conditioning every time.

Post: #30

My father was on a boat sailing around the world as a young man. I am 100% sure he made his debut in a whorehouse.
When getting married he was a sales agent for a famous hair product brand, and it included heavy partying with colleagues. To put it simple, he was a player.

Post: #31

My dad was legendary for being able to pick up girls from bus stops the street anywhere. He went. He used to rock around in a rolls Royce back when they were pretty rare and implied status and was was regularly seen driving away from nightclubs with a car full of girls. He bought a modelling agency once just so he could hand his card out to hot girls.

Post: #32

I voted 6 to 20, could be more but definitely not less.

Post: #33

1 for sure.

Post: #34

Over 100.

My dad was the biggest player I have met. Even now in his late 60's he's out in Indonesia living on an island doped up to the eye balls on Viagra and fucking 20 year olds. ( just had a baby with one of them the silly fucker ). I can remember being in pubs with him when I was growing up and him having two girls on his arm and sticking his tongue down each of their throats. My poor old mum came to accept that he was a narcissistic cunt but women loved that about him, he gave zero fucks about anyone except himself. I came a distant third behind women and booze. An example: We all went on holiday to the Bahamas when I was 10 and he fucked the woman in the villa next to us in view ( so to speak ) of everyone. My mum was fucking daft to put up with it but eventually at aged 15 half way through my GCSE's she could take his womanising and constant brawling in pubs no more and we jumped in the family car and hid out in some shit hole in North Wales for a week until he had packed and left.

I grew up resenting him for being such a cunt to me and my mum but I also always admired his utter self absorption and skills with women. I wish in some ways I could be more like that. He tried teaching me stuff when we re-connected when I was 23 but his ways did not come easy to me. Looking at it now I can say what made him successful was he always led every interaction with people, he'd be the loudest or the guy in the middle of the bar telling the story surrounded by listeners, he had a powerful aura that did not yield, ever, women found that attractive. He was also good looking which helped a great deal. Long before I read pick up books he told me tips about how to open groups of women by not ignoring the ugliest in the group or else she would cock block you. Things like that. He described it all in other words but the message was there, he knew his way around 'split asses' as he calls women.

Now I still resent him but I admire him too. He has lived a life totally on his own conditions not bowing down to anyone else's whims or wants. He's had more pussy than anyone I know but I think deep down he was insecure and trying to prove something. He came from a rough town near Manchester and was beaten mercilessly by my grandfather as a boy. I think it made him set out as an adult with the desire to prove to the world that he would not be bowed before anyone again. I don't know. He's certainly a rum bugger I'll give him that. I was out in Indonesia with him 2 years back, he's building a bar and it will have whores working in it as waitresses. His life would certainly make an interesting read.

Post: #35

(05-07-2013 03:45 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Post: #36

My dad started dating my mum at 24 and was married at 27.

He was captain of his school and a sports player, but somehow very introverted socially. He probably got a few notches before my mum, I'd guess between 3-5.

They divorced when he was late 30's, (he later confided to me that he cheated on my mum once) he's had at least 5 women that I know of since then so I'd say he's on 10-12

Post: #37

A lot. I have a veritable horde of half-siblings I have never met. He got around.

Post: #38

(05-08-2013 07:05 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 03:45 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

Post: #39

(05-08-2013 02:14 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

(05-08-2013 07:05 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 03:45 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

Gays of all colors do better in school because they don't need to put any effort into acquiring sex. It's one of the biggest reasons women do better too.

Compare that to straight males who need to put in serious time and effort into their sexual market value if they want to score any pussy at all.

Not only do gays get the intelligence of a man, but they get the sexual access of a female. They can't lose in today's society.

Post: #40

(05-08-2013 03:17 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(05-08-2013 02:14 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

(05-08-2013 07:05 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 03:45 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

Gays of all colors do better in school because they don't need to put any effort into acquiring sex. It's one of the biggest reasons women do better too.

Compare that to straight males who need to put in serious time and effort into their sexual market value if they want to score any pussy at all.

Not only do gays get the intelligence of a man, but they get the sexual access of a female. They can't lose in today's society.

Most straight men have to do more work in society than anyone else just to be on level playing field.

Also, gay guys have crazy disposable income because they don't have kids.

I think gays have it better than both straight men and women and lesbians as well because they don't have to deal as much crazy emotional shit from dealing with a woman.

It does suck for them that AIDS hit them really hard though.

Post: #41

My dad has been a player for as long as I can remeber. Even when he has live in girlfriends he has always had a steady rotation of pussy. he doesn't seem like the type to have one nighters so I'd say at least 50

Post: #42

My old man was more concerned with travel and skiing. You think pussy would be a byproduct of that, but apparently not in his case.

Probably no more than 10 if I had to guess.

Post: #43

8 confirmed. If I had to guess I'd say at least 20.

My dad doesn't tell me shit about his past. Over the last 31 years this is the picture that I've painted of him based on his accounts, other people's accounts, and photographs:

He grew up in Turkey and had a couple girlfriends before being sent to the U.S. in his teens.
He'd sneak girls back to his godmother's house in Pennsylvania while he was going to prep school and get them liquored up and play guitar for them.
He moved to Miami and was in a surf/weightlifting club in the 60s. I've seen a picture from this time period and he's seriously jacked.
He moved to Southern California and spent 100% of his time surfing and getting high. Had several girlfriends. Seen a few pics. Hot blonde chicks.
He got drafted and was a combat vet in Vietnam. His gf at the time cheated on him.
He came back and got married to a Brazilian women he met on a surf trip in Brazil. I've seen her picture and she's a solid 9.
He dumped her ass since she was a violent lunatic bitch.
Went to Brook's photography school in Santa Barbara and was a professional photographer for years.

You do the math.

Post: #44

1. Married mom to have a housekeeper and a kid. Guy doesn't care about anything else than intellectual pursuits (work).

I'm noticing the great majority of posters in this thread who had player dads. Genetics uber alles. It's in your blood.

Post: #45

(05-09-2013 02:08 AM)Norset Wrote:  1. Married mom to have a housekeeper and a kid.

That's my ideal. Not likely to happen.


Really have no idea how many my dad may have banged out. I know he got play before marrying my mom as I've heard snippets over the years.

Having the biggest name in town and a string of Vette converts certainly didn't hurt.

And I think he may have banged out a hot 20 something bartender when he was mid fifties...

He doesn't normally say a lot, and his words are very measured. (Something I need to work on. I'm more talkative like my mom.) My friends back in the day would say they were intimidated by my dad, he's 5'10" and 145 or so, as he didn't say much.

He's the epitome of aloof.

Post: #46

My dad was born in 1931 and married my mother on New Year's Eve at the end of 1952. There's a good chance that she's the only one.

But he was definitely a player, so it could be a lot more. He also spent two years on Okinawa in the army. he very could have gotten some action over there and never told anyone about it.

Post: #47

I'm going to estimate that he's been with between 15 and 40. It's hard to tell since he's been so tight-lipped about his past.
My father was born in the late 50s. He hasn't said anything about his early sex life except the fact that he was too drowned in homework during his primary school years at a boarding school to care for girls. After that, he went to an Ivy and I'm sure got laid a few times given that he was in business, lifted weights, and lived in the city. After that, I know he got laid a bit since he usually tried to find an acquaintance when he traveled abroad. He traveled quite a bit(probably 30 - 50 nations cumulatively in his 20s) and worked in the Middle East for a couple years as well. His only release was when he traveled out of the desert during that time on cheap flights for short vacations. Probably a p4p guy since he was making the equivalent of a six-figure income right out of college and was more of a business-smart book nerd than a player. Either that or he was attracting foreign gold diggers. I know for a fact he got some in Thailand(before it was cool) and Kenya.

He ended up meeting my mother in grad school, married, had me, and then divorced a few years later. Since then, his life has been a death spiral and at this point, unless he's been paying for hookers or living a second life, he's probably a veteran incel.

Post: #48

Two .. maaaaybe 3 max.

He is a black version of "The most interesting man in the world" without the Alpha attitude & women. Me and my cousins endearingly call him LeoNegro DaVinci.

He's a dentist by trade but also has a Masters in Classical studies. A blacksmith who collects and repairs antique Ethiopian swords and even silver crosses. Also an excellent sculptor. We used to have a statue of Malcolm X next to our pool which my mom hated and "accidentally" broke. He goes to Museums and stares at a painting for 45 minutes straight without moving. Goes out to the Savanna couple times a year to hunt Hyenas. He doesn't use a gun. Just goes out in his land cruiser with a crossbow and comes back with a 120lb abomination of an animal 2 days later.

I've noticed women are fascinated by him until he starts talking. He's too introverted and his manner of speech too technical and robotic to appeal to women.

I've heard from family friends my mom actually went after him because he completely ignored her which caught her off-guard since she was very hot and a social butterfly who always had boyfriends and beta orbiters.

Post: #49

I'm pretty sure he only slept with my mom. He is pretty much a provider type.

He can name the few times he went on dates with other women, and how his rejections went.

He knows I've been banging girls since high school, and has met some of them. He's only warned me when he could tell that some of them were trying to lock me down too early. Glad as hell that I listened to him.

If I have kids, I'll definitely be relating my experiences to them, hopefully without overcompensating in some way.

Post: #50

I would guess somewhere in between 30-50. My Dad is definitely an alpha and often used dread game on my poor mother when I was growing up to keep her in line. Interesting fact - My mother was actually the one to propose to him...

One time when we were visiting my grandmother (at the house he grew up in), my dad showed my brother and I a secret box of photos he had of all his ex GFs from the 60s and 70s. There were probably about 12 or 15 girls in there. He just said, "Don't tell your mother." I was impressed as most of the girls were quite cute, and all were thin and super feminine.

Another time he told me a story about a threesome he had during a year separation that my parents took from dating each other before they got married. I think he did a lot of damage that year as a young and successful early 20's man in Houston at the end of the 70's. Not sure if he ever did cheat on my mother but I'm sure I'll ask him one day when the time is right.