Post: #1

Was he a player?

Post: #2

My father is "the" archetypal provider beta.

Post: #3

>100

A while ago he sat me down to give me a talk. I can't remember how it started but he eventually said...

"son, when I was your age I was seeing 5 girls at once and they all knew about eachother. One day my dad came home while they were all at my house, I was with one of them the others were just waiting around to see me. Anyways. My dad told them all to leave, he came and got me and took me on a drive and he told me 'son theres no skill to drinkin and fuckin' " and then talked for a while more. Cant remember what it was about.

I think thats why my parents were so overprotective, they didn't want me to be like that so they babied me and didn't want me to go out partying and stuff.

Post: #4

I know my dad used to get lots of skin back in uni, he also went on a good tear after he divorced my mom, but then he pussed out and married a fat one his age and now he hangs out in a trailer park down by El mechanico all winter. Its kind of disappointing, my dad could have been a really good SE Asia sex tourist, oh well.

Post: #5

papá was a rolling stone

Post: #6

(05-07-2013 12:56 PM)DriftWood Wrote:  My father is "the" archetypal provider beta.

Same.
I heard some "family rumors" about him slaying bitches in high school and his first three years on the job, but that was ~25 years ago and forgotten history.

Post: #7

My Dad had three different wives. One died, my Mom is sick and his current wife. Between wives I think he smashed a few. My Dad is naturally a flirt, always smiling, but doesn't take shit. Also, I doubt he cheated on any of his women. Right now he his holding out until he retires to Belize but my Stepmom his making it hard from him to hang on. Hes 55. I dont want him to die alone but I dont want him to be unhappy. We will se.

Post: #8

Only my mom from what I know, but possibly one or two before. He used to be a bit more Alpha in the past, although there's nothing wrong with him now either. Still, he was never a player, and this was a different time. I'm pretty sure his number is either 1 or 2-3.

Post: #9

One: my mother. Or two: the bitch she caught him having an affair with.

Which is why he was such a fucking asshole when I was in high school and college and had girls in bikinis running in and out of the house from the nearby neighborhood pool. He was jealous. The hotter the girls, the more he would give me shit or try to smack the shit out of me -- with my morbidly obese virgin younger brother egging him on. I wish I'd known the game back then.

His petty jealous bullshit became evident later on when I became more aware of human nature and saw how he reacted when I bought a nice house and kept getting promoted. The better I did in life, the more my dad gave me shit and would blame me for things I had nothing to do with (like being a bad influence on someone whose behavior was out of control five years before we met).

Parental jealousy towards their kids is something that isn't spoken about much (there's one reference in a Beastie Boys' song and it's joking). But it's real and probably has affected our lives more than we know. Had I known he was jealous, I'd have brought even more girls home.

Post: #10

He has only been in 1 relationship (with my mom).


I wouldnt be surprised if there were others though

Post: #11

Between 20 and 100. He made a ton of cash early in his life and leveraged it into banging lots of broads, then got married, lost it all, got divorced, and had to raise me and my bro.

When he was a broke single father his quantity and quality of ass dropped but I remember seeing at least 5 different girlfriends before he got married for his second (and final) time.

Post: #12

I put down one, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was more than that. He married pretty early, so it's hard to tell.

Post: #13

My father denies his player ways, but everyone says that he was sleeping with all of his staff etc. He def has the alpha attitude.

Post: #14

Semi-pro footballer, firefighter, married my mom who was 15 years younger than him. I have a feeling he slew some bitches before mom. Have to ask him next time he's drunk.

Post: #15

My dad had a 24 year old girlfriend while he was 46 and married to my bitch mom.
Im sure he banged a lot before that as well

Post: #16

Man some of you guys are giving your dad a hard time. Would you believe a girl if she told you she'd only had 2 boyfriends?

Post: #17

I know my dad and his brother were bad ass surfers, the family have told me before they both could have gone pro. They both sold a bunch of coke and weed in Southern Cali back in the 70's. Pretty sure he got a lot of ass. My uncles ex-wife mentioned once that my uncle was a player. I was born when my dad was about 29, somewhere around there, and him and my mom were together a couple years before that, so I'm thinking under 100. She also caught him cheating when I was a bit younger, so who knows how many times he cheated on her.

Now my dads married to an older Japanese lady. She's like 8-10 years older than him. I don't know what he was thinking. He asked me what I thought about him marrying her before they got married, and I told him, "Honestly, as long as you're happy that's all that matters." She's a really nice lady so I'm not too upset about it. I was more just thinking like, "WTF?" The girl he was seeing before her was a cute Mexican girl about 10 years younger than him. Shit, I would have smashed. She looked nice. He treated her like a real asshole, she ended up leaving him. He still treats the Asian girl like an asshole too. He's pretty alpha in that sense. He's a hardcore Christian and he definitely follows the whole, "The man plays the dominant role and the woman has to submit to the man," idea.

Post: #18

My dad was a 6 foot 5 All State basketball player in high school, and was recruited, and started for a Division 1 basketball program. He got ridiculous poon as a youngin'. It's why I'm here.

Post: #19

My dad was a college professor and he used to bang a bunch of his students

I remember as a kid he was always with a new college broad telling him how cute I was and shit.

throughout my teens my mom was always telling me that he was her true husband or whatever and the only reason he didn't settle with her was because of my gandma

I don't think I ever saw him with a chick older than 25, definitely a player.

Too bad he is gone, I could have learned some shit

Post: #20

(05-07-2013 03:06 PM)le prince perdu Wrote:  Too bad he is gone, I could have learned some shit

Yeah, my dad's a hardcore Christian now and won't talk about any of that stuff. Too bad, I could have probably gotten some sound advice otherwise. I found a picture of him next to a big ass pot plant once and confronted him about it. He just gave me a shit eating grin and said something like, "Yeah that was a long time ago."

Post: #21

(05-07-2013 03:18 PM)InternationPlayboy Wrote:  Yeah, my dad's a hardcore Christian now and won't talk about any of that stuff. Too bad, I could have probably gotten some sound advice otherwise. I found a picture of him next to a big ass pot plant once and confronted him about it. He just gave me a shit eating grin and said something like, "Yeah that was a long time ago."

same here... he's a hardcore Muslim now... wouldn't tell me anything until about a month ago... he used to party doing coke and and slaying Bitches while stationed in Germany... couldn't get much for details, though... it's odd because he's like priestly now...

Post: #22

Papa was a rolling stone.

Post: #23

lets see. a narcissistic romantic lead movie star for over 20 years with 100+ movies

idk

5?

Post: #24

My father was a sprinter. He was able to leave the Caribbean on an scholarship, which is how he got to the USA. He also was a wide receiver in college.

My father was, in many ways, the prototypical "good black man" that a lot of black women are complaining about not being able to find. He was athletic (again, sports scholarship), highly educated (PhD at Northwestern), and somewhat well-off (had reasonably high administrative positions at major universities in the USA). He indulged in a myriad of hobbies that typically mark the adventurous, interesting male (was a licensed pilot, had a boat and frequently sailed, rode motorcycles, fixed up old European cars, always drove a Benz, etc).

My mother was absolutely head-over-heels in love with him...and so were all of the other attractive black women. The gender gap in the black community is massive, much bigger than it is with any other ethnic group. Educated black women outnumber their male counterparts by a factor of well over 2-1. Because of this huge imbalance, the highly educated, heterosexual (gay black men get much more common the higher up the academic ladder you go, and they outnumber the black lesbians) black male with a good income is a very rare commodity. There aren't enough to go around for the black women who prefer them, and when you factor in other girls (white, hispanic and asian girls like these men too), things get very competitive.

All of this gave my father a lot of options, and he used them. His status combined with his easygoing, very confident persona ensured that he always had a lot of options. During their short marriage, my mother was consistently fielding calls from women to the house and fighting them off. Eventually, she lost the battle-my father began openly cohabiting with another woman while my mother was pregnant with me, and my mom moved for separation. She left their home and never looked back.

My father had 4 children by three different women. I've never met him or any of my half-siblings. I assume his notch count is well over 20.

Post: #25

(05-07-2013 01:07 PM)Hades Wrote:  

(05-07-2013 12:56 PM)DriftWood Wrote:  My father is "the" archetypal provider beta.

Same.
I heard some "family rumors" about him slaying bitches in high school and his first three years on the job, but that was ~25 years ago and forgotten history.

Kind of a similar story with my father. He told me a couple months ago he can't remember the exact number, somewhere in the 70s, but apparently things were a bit hazy from his college and law schools days in NY and LA in the 70s and 80s. But I guess he had mad game back then. Supposedly he used his "ivy league" and "i am in law school" game alot. I guess that is how he got my middle class WASPY mom to stick around. Now he is the typical provider and certainly isn't the head of the household, they are "partners" and he likes to avoid conflict. I am not really mad at him I guess, maybe he is just too old and tired to get into fights with my mom about shit anymore.

I am 22 now, I wish I had the talk with him when I was 14 or 15, maybe I wouldn't have been such a beta with the women in high school and my early college days. But he gave me absolutely no help and never had a heart to heart to me about his younger partying days until a couple months ago after I had already "taken the red pill" and learned game. I don't expect to attain his notch count or particularly desire too(too much time for too little return, gaming girls is just one part of my life, not the whole damn thing).

So yea, my father was very "nice" to me growing up, treated me like a "best friend", but he never passed down his knowledge to me. I had to learn everything on my own, and sometimes, just thinking back to how I used to be with girls even two years ago makes me shudder. That said, in the past few years, between my various run ins with the law and taking the red pill(women, life, politics), we are more honest with each other now, but we aren't "best friends" anymore.