Post: #1

The amount of girls Ive fucked in NYC is a lot lower than it should be due to the fact I dont have my own apartment in the city. Some girls dont mind having you over to their place for a drink or just to chill, but its a lot harder (at least for me) during a night out at a bar. No girl ever wants to go back to HER apartment. I dont know if its just my bad game in this scenario, but she just expects the guy to be taking her home, not the other way around. This is how most of my bangs (NYC) come: meeting girls, getting a drink or two at night and heading back to her place to "hangout." Sure, I am getting laid, and that's great, but I am not nearly fucking as many girls as I could be. Any suggestions?

Post: #2

hotel

Post: #3

You say you bang girls by going to their place but in the same quote you say no girl wants to go back to her place? Don't understand the question.

If you need a place... Make more money and get an apartment or a hotel. No shortcuts in life.

It's not like you can take her to a dumpster... Orrrrr...

(05-01-2013 05:45 PM)Gloaf Wrote:  The amount of girls Ive fucked in NYC is a lot lower than it should be due to the fact I dont have my own apartment in the city. Some girls dont mind having you over to their place for a drink or just to chill, but its a lot harder (at least for me) during a night out at a bar. No girl ever wants to go back to HER apartment. I dont know if its just my bad game in this scenario, but she just expects the guy to be taking her home, not the other way around. This is how most of my bangs (NYC) come: meeting girls, getting a drink or two at night and heading back to her place to "hangout." Sure, I am getting laid, and that's great, but I am not nearly fucking as many girls as I could be. Any suggestions?

Post: #4

Don't spend dough on a telly. Find a nice rooftop. Done and done.

"Is Big L slow? Hell no. Bitches get fucked on the roof when I ain't got no hotel dough."

One of the greatest to come out of this city.

Post: #5

(05-01-2013 06:04 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  You say you bang girls by going to their place but in the same quote you say no girl wants to go back to her place? Don't understand the question.

If you need a place... Make more money and get an apartment or a hotel. No shortcuts in life.

It's not like you can take her to a dumpster... Orrrrr...

(05-01-2013 05:45 PM)Gloaf Wrote:  The amount of girls Ive fucked in NYC is a lot lower than it should be due to the fact I dont have my own apartment in the city. Some girls dont mind having you over to their place for a drink or just to chill, but its a lot harder (at least for me) during a night out at a bar. No girl ever wants to go back to HER apartment. I dont know if its just my bad game in this scenario, but she just expects the guy to be taking her home, not the other way around. This is how most of my bangs (NYC) come: meeting girls, getting a drink or two at night and heading back to her place to "hangout." Sure, I am getting laid, and that's great, but I am not nearly fucking as many girls as I could be. Any suggestions?

I mean where I meet a girl for drinks/food/whatever as opposed to picking up a girl at the bar. I make enough money to live in the city (70k) but I'd just rather not to at this point.

Post: #6

(05-01-2013 05:45 PM)Gloaf Wrote:  The amount of girls Ive fucked in NYC is a lot lower than it should be due to the fact I dont have my own apartment in the city. Some girls dont mind having you over to their place for a drink or just to chill, but its a lot harder (at least for me) during a night out at a bar. No girl ever wants to go back to HER apartment. I dont know if its just my bad game in this scenario, but she just expects the guy to be taking her home, not the other way around. This is how most of my bangs (NYC) come: meeting girls, getting a drink or two at night and heading back to her place to "hangout." Sure, I am getting laid, and that's great, but I am not nearly fucking as many girls as I could be. Any suggestions?

I suggest you approach this issue realistically

1. get a place in the city
2. spring for a hotel
3. increase your game skill set to fuck at her place
4. increase your game skill set to keep the bitch interested until you get her to your place

If you can't weasel your way into her apartment, probably because young bitches that live in the city have roommates, you certainly can't take her into the alley or get head in the cab ride.

There's no free magical fuck palace in Lower Manhattan that will allow you to just waltz in with some tipsy blonde from Latvia.

WIA

Post: #7

I think options #3/4 is the most ideal situation

Post: #8

In my experience, bar pickups who want to go to your place do so because they either live with their parents, have roommates, or just don't want to be seen taking a stranger home. Many women like to fuck anonymously, hence they don't want you to know where they live. My trips to NYC have always included a hotel room. Not sure what the seen is today, but the bars on 1st and 2nd Aves. between the 40's and 60's used to be the best places to pick up strange trim.

Post: #9

This is tough, man.

I already think upper west side = bad logistics for NYC if you're gaming 40's and below.

Can't imagine not having my own place at all in the city.

Post: #10

@Gloaf - where are you living? LI? North Jersey?

Why not get a couple friends and split a place in the city? Or go Brooklyn, Astoria, LIC, Hoboken, whatever. You can get to those places faster from downtown Manhattan than you can get uptown to, say, Inwood. It's worth it to have the proximity to the city, especially if you work there too.

Anyway, game I've run in the past was to escort a girl back to her place, not even to 'hangout', just gentleman style. When you get there, tell her you're real tired and don't have energy to take the train all the way back to Long Island/Jersey/Staten/Westchester/XXXXX. Ask to crash on her couch. Once you're in the apt, escalate with her as usual.


@MidniteSpecial - good call on BigL.

"All I got for hos is hard d--- and bubble gum"

Post: #11

If she's not willing to take you home, her loss...

If your the "right" kind of guy these girls won't give a fuck whether its your place or theirs. I personally have no place to pull BUT chicks who have good logistics taking me home OR simply go to the bathroom of any nice hotel/club (or soho streets hahaha)

The only time its clearly out of your hand is when they live far or live in the dorms. Public sex is the only option

P.S...When logistics are stacked against you, when you finally do have your own place pulling is easy. SO MANY TIMES, I take girls back to friends places to pull. Like one guy once said that I know, "You don't need to own the yacht, just no someone who does". If you got friends who have sick apartments they'll let you hookup too. I once pulled in my female friends model apartment before hahaha. I was in living room, random model chick opens door to see me n girl.

Post: #12

I'll work on the game. Its not really the end of the world for me. Maybe it is for the best.

Post: #13

(05-01-2013 09:36 PM)SHANbangs Wrote:  This is tough, man.

I already think upper west side = bad logistics for NYC if you're gaming 40's and below.

Can't imagine not having my own place at all in the city.

So true. Living on the UWS fumbled me more than one takeout from East Village. Now though I've wised up and just say I live midtown and spring for a cab.