Post: #51

When she has on her social network profile or says "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."

Post: #52

I'd say the women who "hang out" with beta guys and never give them honest advice on how to act manly and be attractive to women, but rather just tell the guy what they think "he wants" to hear piss me off the most, but I say that guys who can't read between the lines are to blame for their own ignorance as well.

This also applies to people in general; people who'd rather tell a 'gentle lie' than a 'harsh truth' just to avoid conflict and make everyone "feel good" about themselves without them actually having to do anything or have any goals in life.

Post: #53

When a woman posts an attention seeking image on social media. I.E: Caked in make-up "Getting up for work… Ugh".

Posting selfies might just be the biggest red flag today.

Post: #54

(02-18-2016 09:38 PM)Rush87 Wrote:  When a woman posts an attention seeking image on social media. I.E: Caked in make-up "Getting up for work… Ugh".

Posting selfies might just be the biggest red flag today.

Especially with duckfaces

Post: #55

When a woman waits until the last minute to start packing for a trip and then gets frustrated because she is being 'rushed'. My current gf has done this, but by far the worst case was a bipolar (go figure) ex i dated years ago. Always waited until the morning of to pack and then freaked out, every single time.

Post: #56

(02-18-2016 06:05 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  Ask for advice when they clearly don't want to take it so they can blame you later.

My ex used to do that a lot.

Example: St Patrick's day 2013 right before we are about to go out. All translated from Amharic (our language).

Ex: Do you think i should wear a jacket? It looks windy
Me: Yeah grab one just in case.
Ex: But i don' want to carry it around.
Me: Then don't, I'll give you my jacket if it gets chilly.
Ex: But i don't want you to be cold.
Me: (Head exploding) Ok then don't bother bringing it and I won't give you mine either.

2 hours later she's freezing to death and proceeds to tell a couple of our acquaintances ... "OMG it's sooo chilly. I wanted to grab my jacket but Anabasis insisted that i shouldn't."



Bitches truly be crazy. I am fairly certain it wasn't conscious malice on her behalf. That's just how girls are.

Pretty annoying, definitely, but it sounds like you allowed it.

I hope your response was to look at her with a disapproving look and a stern face and say, "you know damn well I told you to bring your jacket. Don't disrespect me by lying about me right in front of our friends or you'll be walking home and you'll never see me again."

Always easier to look at it in retrospect, but damn I couldn't allow my girl to lie about me, especially in front of others.

One of the most annoying ones for me is being indecisive. Sometimes I don't feel like making each and every decision on what we eat. Fucking christ woman tell me what you "MIGHT" want at least!

I understand this is their nature, but a couple exceptions here and there would be nice.

Post: #57

This is from my beta days

Girl: Do you know my boyfriend now has a cute little brother?
Me: Who's your boyfriend?
Shows me a picture of Niall Horan with a newborn
Me: Oh
Girl: Isn't he adorable?

Post: #58

(02-18-2016 06:05 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  2 hours later she's freezing to death and proceeds to tell a couple of our acquaintances ... "OMG it's sooo chilly. I wanted to grab my jacket but Anabasis insisted that i shouldn't."

Bitches truly be crazy. I am fairly certain it wasn't conscious malice on her behalf. That's just how girls are.

(02-18-2016 07:58 PM)Remington Wrote:  Me: I'm hungry. Let's go out and get something.

Her: Alright, let's do it. I'm up for anything.

Me: Ok, let's go get some Italian food.

Her: No, I'm not in the mood for Italian.

Me: We can try that new burger place a couple blocks away.

Her: Nah, I already ate burgers earlier this week.

Me: Great, then we are having Italian.

Edit: It's alright if a woman offers her opinion. Just can't stand it when she says she is down for anything and then starts rattling off "no's." Really grinds my gears.

Yeah, I've had stuff like this happen, girls really can make you age from the frustration of dealing with their craziness.

Post: #59

(02-19-2016 10:32 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  I hope your response was to look at her with a disapproving look and a stern face and say, "you know damn well I told you to bring your jacket. Don't disrespect me by lying about me right in front of our friends or you'll be walking home and you'll never see me again."

Geez, don't you think that's a little too much?

Post: #60

The biggest red flag i think you can find in a girl is when you go to hour house where her parents live.
If she doesn't help her parents with cooking or anything like that, then its a red flag shes a lazy cunt and she will probably get fat and ugly.

Post: #61

Not just with girls, but with pretty much anybody: "I'll let you know if I'm free"
I don't know why, but this makes me cringe every time.

Also, girls who do not have what we call "timing sense", or girls who can never find their way around a place.

Post: #62

(02-20-2016 12:18 PM)Teutatis Wrote:  

(02-19-2016 10:32 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  I hope your response was to look at her with a disapproving look and a stern face and say, "you know damn well I told you to bring your jacket. Don't disrespect me by lying about me right in front of our friends or you'll be walking home and you'll never see me again."

Geez, don't you think that's a little too much?

No, because she completely mischaracterized what happened RIGHT IN FRONT of their mutual acquaintances. It's not like she exaggerated a little bit. What do you think allowing that kind of disrespect is going to result in down the line? Nip it in the bud immediately.

About the only thing I could conceive of working is something along the lines of the following two options:

1. Give her an opportunity to correct herself, "excuse me what did you say about me?" with an incredulous smile on your face and your eyebrows raised like "What the fuck did this bitch just try to say about me?"

2. Treat her like the petulant child she is. Laugh at her and tell her what's what: "Hahaha, you're cold because of your own damn fault, don't try to turn it around on me." The people with you will get the implication that she's being completely ridiculous and she'll be left with little recourse.

If you think it's harsh to check someone when they lie about you/disrespect you around other people that's all good and well, but I like not feeling like a doormat and people's reactions are vastly better when you maintain your frame and self-respect.

Post: #63

(02-20-2016 02:02 PM)Ruivinho Wrote:  The biggest red flag i think you can find in a girl is when you go to hour house where her parents live.
If she doesn't help her parents with cooking or anything like that, then its a red flag shes a lazy cunt and she will probably get fat and ugly.

I agree with the sentiment and I would say it's totally suitable for LTRs...but any time a woman wants me to meet her parents I'm long gone...

Post: #64

Saying like every other word. All of them do it here in the states. I even catch myself sprinkling likes into sentences more than I should sometimes.

Post: #65

When I go out with a girl who, when talking about herself (without even realizing it) inadvertently gives away that she has had more than a few one night stands (or obviously has a high notch count) but now makes guys wait and work for it cause she is going through a "reformed slut" phase.

Honestly, these are some of the worst type of girls to go out with.
No matter how hot she is, you will resent her if you have to go on more than 2 dates to get the notch, that other guys before you got on the 1st date or even within a few hours of meeting her.

I have much more respect for an "easy" girl who doesn't lie about being "easy" and doesn't make it difficult for me just because I didn't meet her earlier in life.

I don't mind dating a girl a few times to build some trust and familiarity if she hasn't been with that many guys or has had only LTRs....but as soon as I feel that I'm dealing with a former slut that gave it away very easily in the past, but has now decided she is something special, that guys have to wait and work for, I get like this if she doesn't put out by date 2.

Post: #66

I feel like I'm about to channel Jim Carrey in "Liar Liar" now:

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"OK, here it goes..."

1.) Talking about guys they've fucked.

Why do girls do this? The only two reasons I can come up with are:

A. They're stupid and thus unaware they're even saying something repugnant.

B. They mistakenly believe that since they are attracted to men who are pre-selected by other women that we will somehow be more attracted knowing she's been pre-selected by other men. New flash, ladies...It doesn't work this way. When I go to a fancy restaurant and order a filet mignon, I'm only interested in enjoying the taste for myself. I will not be sharing my dinner with any other patrons nor am I interested in hearing details about what happened to the cow at the slaughterhouse before it got to me. Ignorance, in this regard, is bliss.

2.) Talk about previous relationships.

If the first point related to my feeling disgust at hearing about their physical past, this point is about the disgust I feel at hearing about their emotional past. In my opinion, there is one time and one time only where it is ever permissible to talk about previous relationships and that is in the beginning. You let her know where you stand and what your circumstances are and she'll likely do the same. There is absolutely no reason, in my opinion, for any guy from their past to be mentioned once you've started seeing each other and certainly once an agreement of exclusivity has been reached.

Additionally, no guy should never have to listen to any stories about what a girl and a former boyfriend did for their six "monthiversary" or how much she enjoyed staying at his family's summer home. Even hearing negative stuff is annoying. Ladies, don't say "I'm happier with you than any other guy I've been with" just say "You make me happy". That's good enough.

3.) Drinking/Smoking/Drugs/"Party Girl" Lifestyle

Never get involved with a girl who brags about how much she can drink. Your goal, in my opinion, should be finding a girl who rarely drinks, a lightweight. A girl who will drink enough to loosen up socially, but not enough you're left having to babysit. Never go for a girl who talks up how she can "bottle pull". As for smokers, their breath stinks and making out is miserable. This should go without saying but NEVER get involved with a girl who does hard drugs.

4.) Sense of Entitlement

I'm sure we can all agree on this one and requires no further elaboration.

5.) Not Being Sexually Adventurous

It's hard to believe that in 2016 there are girls who won't swallow, do anal, etc. Especially, since the market is saturated with girls who will. If a girl expects to keep her man from straying, she better be willing to provide all the same services as the competition or she really has no one to blame but herself if he does. If Company A offers certain goods/services but Company B offers even more goods/services for the same price or cheaper, it would be foolish to do your business with Company A. It's just economics. A modern girl should have something approaching a porn star's sexual repertoire or damn close.

If a girl has ever done something with another guy, she needs to be willing to do that same activity with you. Period. I don't care if she didn't like anal, there's no reason why the last guy should've had the pleasure of penetrating her anus and you don't. Even if you don't personally care for anal sex, you need to do it anyway. I'm sure someone's said something similar already but it's sort of like being a gang member spray painting over a tag by a rival gang. You're claiming that shit as your own.

Sam Kinison has a great bit about being the "darkest chapter" in a girl's sexual diary:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guDAUHirgDQ (Sam Kinison - Sexual Diaries)

This is certainly a far from exhaustive list, but these were just some of the first ones to come to mind.

Post: #67

The thing that irritates me the most about modern women is the selfie culture. Nothing warms my heart more than when I visit a chick's social media and it has normal photos of her and her friends looking like happy, well-adjusted human beings. What is more common though is duck-faced selfie after duck-faced selfie. I would rather die than take photos of myself and upload them to social media, because it screams value-seeking, attention-whoring, and narcissism. But girls seem to have no problem with it, probably because they're naturally solipsistic. It has become a way for chicks to soothe their insecurities (all the women are feathering each other's nests by commenting "stunning!!!") and is also a way of amassing orbiters. It never ceases to amaze me seeing the likes (83) and comments (64) under a 6's ridiculous selfie.

I've asked girls why they feel the need to comment "stunning!!!!" and they've told me they're operating under a policy of reciprocity, and to be nice. Guys are commenting because they think they're making inroads to the girl's panties. It's disgraceful.

Some of these selfies are aesthetically grotesque and I have no idea how they think think they look good.

It's demented.

Post: #68

(05-11-2016 08:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  The thing that irritates me the most about modern women is the selfie culture. Nothing warms my heart more than when I visit a chick's social media and it has normal photos of her and her friends looking like happy, well-adjusted human beings. What is more common though is duck-faced selfie after duck-faced selfie. I would rather die than take photos of myself and upload them to social media, because it screams value-seeking, attention-whoring, and narcissism. But girls seem to have no problem with it, probably because they're naturally solipsistic. It has become a way for chicks to soothe their insecurities (all the women are feathering each other's nests by commenting "stunning!!!") and is also a way of amassing orbiters. It never ceases to amaze me seeing the likes (83) and comments (64) under a 6's ridiculous selfie.

I've asked girls why they feel the need to comment "stunning!!!!" and they've told me they're operating under a policy of reciprocity, and to be nice. Guys are commenting because they think they're making inroads to the girl's panties. It's disgraceful.

Some of these selfies are aesthetically grotesque and I have no idea how they think think they look good.

It's demented.

Ever heard of conformism? It actually is smart (most of the time) and advantageous from evolutionarily point of view to adapt your behaviour (most of the time) to your peers' behaviour. Especially for women, who usually are more socially interconnected, than us, males. It can be subsumed under 'when in Rome do as Romans do' strategy. It's quite smart thing to do most of the time, really.

Post: #69

I hate it when bitches get short with me. I would rather call me a ugly piece of shit and reject me than give me snoppy one word responses when I ramble, or constantly interupt my ramble with "uh huh". These bitches that expect you to " take a hint", nothing enfuriates me more.

Post: #70

(05-10-2016 08:51 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  I don't care if she didn't like anal, there's no reason why the last guy should've had the pleasure of penetrating her anus and you don't. Even if you don't personally care for anal sex, you need to do it anyway. I'm sure someone's said something similar already but it's sort of like being a gang member spray painting over a tag by a rival gang. You're claiming that shit as your own.

Literally.

Post: #71

When they use uptalk or draw out their syllables. eg: "It was sooooo good".

Any type of trendy language.

To be fair, many guys are also guilty of the above two sins.

When they tell me stories about their girlfriends or other people that I don't give a shit about.

That's about it.

Post: #72

(05-14-2016 12:44 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  When they use uptalk or draw out their syllables. eg: "It was sooooo good".

Any type of trendy language.

To be fair, many guys are also guilty of the above two sins.

When they tell me stories about their girlfriends or other people that I don't give a shit about.

That's about it.

(edit: did this make sense?)
Those men usually lack masculine qualities. The men with the girlfriends who are only in them for either the constant pussy or to show that they are straight, are at a loss.

You will be able to pick those men out very easily. Those guys will always fawn over their girlfriends or have one or maybe two go to stories that will make them sound impressive. Those stories will be their justification that they are on the "right path" that trends with societal norms. That path typically leads to marriage and later mistakes and/or regrets.

Of course, I have had those moments in my life. I have never been perfect. Shit has happened that makes me feel like a real douche. I have mentioned my current gf once or twice on the forum. Does that make me whipped? No. Does it make me complacent? Possibly.

But, I am very self aware. That has been a very strong aspect of what has made me the man I currently am today.

My analytical lifestyle and approach makes me consider every possible option that I have available. Just depends on whether I pursue my gut, or emotion. Typically, my gut is the winner. Emotion also plays the part when I have been drinking where I don't give a crap about what takes place.

Just make sure you are aware of what you want. Don't be the drunk asshole that just goes with the flow. Consider your possibilities, and make a logical decision.

Post: #73

Was gonna say

"my ex is an asshole"

But then that usually means I've chosen wisely and am about to get laid. It's as if hot chicks think we're just plain stupid.

Post: #74

(05-17-2016 02:47 PM)heavy Wrote:  Was gonna say

"my ex fucked me in the asshole too many times"

But then that usually means I've chosen wisely and am about to get laid. It's as if hot chicks think we're just plain stupid.

Fixed it for you.

Post: #75

I dislike sexual initiative on a girl's part. I want her to just do anything I ask her to do, but I don't want her to do anything by her own initiative. For some reason it turns me off.