Post: #1

Cliffs:
-already sealed the deal
-made girl angry by negging too hard
-possible flake tonight as a result (no excuse to back down and be a beta tho I think)
-got me thinking about how to deal with situations like this

My Propositions:
-if flake, get angry back at her (Roosh post)
-if no flake, and confronted -- just be real and tell her it was a joke and hug her out with some caressing words
-what do if she continues to flip out? -- thinking to tell her to calm down and discuss this like adults

Any tips or experience you guys have with dealing with an angry girl before or after sealing the deal?[/align]

Post: #2

before -- little to do, you're on ice
after -- fuck her

Post: #3

When you say negging I'm going to assume you insulted something she is insecure about.

My advice would be radio silence until she reconnects. Remember after the bang you hold all the power.

Post: #4

When a girl gets angry, I listen with a stone face and when she's finished I just say "you done?", I leave and don't answer her calls or any other form of contact - courtesy of Heartiste.

Post: #5

I ran into a similar issue yesterday. There's a 9.5 in my place of work that I've been working on for a while. She was dating the boss, so I was keeping her at arms length. They recently split, so I started gaming harder. I tease women a lot, and she usually responds well, but I said something the other day (I thought it was innocuous enough) that set her off. Any thoughts?

Our conversation was something like this, if anyone is interested. The conversation was in Japanese, so it might seem strange. She had borrowed 5 bucks from me for lunch earlier that day and we were on our way out.

Me: You owe me big time, missy. Big time.
Her: I'll pay you back tomorrow!
Me: I'm not here tomorrow. I'm charging interest, too. Oh, you owe me.
Her: Ah! What can I do?
Me: I'd take some cookies (she likes to bake)
Her: I can do that!
Me: Cookies AND my money AND tacos. [Coworker] told me you can make them.
Her: You're American, you should make them for me.
Me: Fuck that! ...Did I just say that out loud?! I mean... I'll think about it. ::thumbs up::
Her: You dirty old man! (this is a common insult in Japanese)

I have a good harem working right now, so I'm not super invested, but I'd like to salvage this if I can. She'd easily be in my top two.

Post: #6

(06-06-2013 10:53 AM)Skotch Wrote:  I ran into a similar issue yesterday. There's a 9.5 in my place of work that I've been working on for a while. She was dating the boss, so I was keeping her at arms length. They recently split, so I started gaming harder. I tease women a lot, and she usually responds well, but I said something the other day (I thought it was innocuous enough) that set her off. Any thoughts?

Our conversation was something like this, if anyone is interested. The conversation was in Japanese, so it might seem strange. She had borrowed 5 bucks from me for lunch earlier that day and we were on our way out.

Me: You owe me big time, missy. Big time.
Her: I'll pay you back tomorrow!
Me: I'm not here tomorrow. I'm charging interest, too. Oh, you owe me.
Her: Ah! What can I do?
Me: I'd take some cookies (she likes to bake)
Her: I can do that!
Me: Cookies AND my money AND tacos. [Coworker] told me you can make them.
Her: You're American, you should make them for me.
Me: Fuck that! ...Did I just say that out loud?! I mean... I'll think about it. ::thumbs up::
Her: You dirty old man! (this is a common insult in Japanese)

I have a good harem working right now, so I'm not super invested, but I'd like to salvage this if I can. She'd easily be in my top two.

Perhaps I really don't understand Japanese humor/interaction (I know it's VERY different than what I've experienced), but she was dating the boss (who was probably older) and so many women are into the older man. Perhaps she wasn't just using it as the common insult. Maybe she was shit testing you. Nothing in that interaction really spelled out that it "set her off."

Post: #7

I guess I forgot the most important part then. She called me a dirty old man and stormed off. I emailed her about something work related later and she never got back to me.

Post: #8

(06-06-2013 05:06 PM)Skotch Wrote:  I guess I forgot the most important part then. She called me a dirty old man and stormed off. I emailed her about something work related later and she never got back to me.

I don't understand, does this chick actually owe you money? If she doesn't have it, that would be why she is reluctant to get back to you.