Post: #1

So I met this girl last time I was overseas. Just came back, tried to set up a time to meet with her, gave her a choice between two days. Here's the jest of how she replied.

How her time is important and that I should have given her the time to choose...as in here's the calendar pick a date, and 'I'm' supposed to whimper and be available (from what I understand this is exactly what I don't want to do, have my time at her mercy), and some other bla bla bla and her refusing both days, and she continues by saying that we can catch up later for a drink because I'm not leaving the country yet.

At the moment while I'd love to write back a simple (lol) from reading this forum it seems my best bet is to shut up and move on (I have not replied to her yet). Is that correct?

When I proposed the timing I said "Let's meet for a drink on <day> or this <day>" Any advice on how I could have done this better for next time?

Ty

Post: #2

seems you failed to build enough comfort.

""""only""" if she is worth the effort and you dont have any other plates to spin send her a tease text- "purrrfectionists!!are we i'll organise sthing ltr" and radio silence for a couple weeks before hitting her up again a bit softly.

lookup krauser's blog for more optacts

Post: #3

There's no harm in sending a restart text. Remember, you're learning, so any experience you can get right now will be beneficial long-term. Has this one got away? Probably, but now you have nothing to lose. An "LOL" text is fine if you're done with her.

In this case, I'd probably just try to catch her at a good time on a weekday, and send her something like "What's up?" and quickly transition to, "So, how about that drink?" assuming she's not doing whatever stupid shit girls do during the week. If she refuses again, depending on how she does, you can use your "LOL" or just a dismissive, "Ok, maybe next time." Then don't text her again, unless she texts you.

Post: #4

(04-14-2013 03:18 PM)CJ Wrote:  There's no harm in sending a restart text. Remember, you're learning, so any experience you can get right now will be beneficial long-term. Has this one got away? Probably, but now you have nothing to lose. An "LOL" text is fine if you're done with her.

In this case, I'd probably just try to catch her at a good time on a weekday, and send her something like "What's up?" and quickly transition to, "So, how about that drink?" assuming she's not doing whatever stupid shit girls do during the week. If she refuses again, depending on how she does, you can use your "LOL" or just a dismissive, "Ok, maybe next time." Then don't text her again, unless she texts you.

Thanks for the tip I'll do that.

Post: #5

(04-14-2013 01:31 AM)hashem Wrote:  How her time is important and that I should have given her the time to choose...

I would say you need to be pounding the pavement and talking to and trying to bang more chicks. I often realize I have the least and almost ZERO game questions or "what should I do " thoughts when I have 5+ girls I am communicating and trying to bang at once. The lower that number the more I look for advice when I already know the right answer which is you are putting her in WAY TOO HIGH OF DEMAND! I would give one lady a day or two if she is busy both or complains ignore her and book another girl, chase new girls that day, or improve your life and relationships.

Girls that bitch about time and are extremely busy are the girls you put as your "I'll hit this once or twice a month" with as little effort as possible.

Girls that I have experienced bitching about time are often college girls and grad students with jobs. If they aren't available no big deal. The rare time they are if you give them "good sexy time" they may become your regular X night of the week "thing" because they want a good fuck in their busy schedule planned. Don't try to own this pony, ride her when she wants to come into town.

Post: #6

You're fine. She's just unavailable [for whatever reasons] in those days you wanted to meet her. Next move? Follow CJ advice

Post: #7

Yeah... I fail to recognize a problem here. You're fine. Just let her sit a little while then re-initiate as if nothing happened and you were un-phased. And, of course, start gaming other chicks in case she decides to turnout to be a total flake.

Post: #8

Just remember that whatever you do, it is a lesson learned. Worst case scenario here is that you move on to the next one.

Post: #9

Set the date and go out on the date.

Who cares if its on a day you suggested or on a day she suggested..?

The point is to go out on a date.

Not, to win some imaginary power struggle.

Post: #10

Sent her a 'what's up' after about a week, no reply, so I got the hint to move on.

Post: #11

Another case. I met this girl on the subway. She gave me eye contact two times so I approached her. She was blushing (shy?). Anyway at one point she says she can't hear because of the subway. What do we do in situations like this? She got off at the next stop...should i have followed her? (noob here...)

Post: #12

(04-19-2013 09:14 AM)hashem Wrote:  Another case. I met this girl on the subway. She gave me eye contact two times so I approached her. She was blushing (shy?). Anyway at one point she says she can't hear because of the subway. What do we do in situations like this? She got off at the next stop...should i have followed her? (noob here...)

Perfect .... Pull your phone out, Signal/tell her to put her number in , You will contact her later as it is too nisy right now......

For Bonus Points you can use Gio's Line. " I will call you later to flirt with you "

happy Hunting.

Post: #13

If you aren't that busy just say fuck it and Let her pick the day. You pick the place. Or tell her okay but first drinks on her. Show up late and alpha the fuck out of her.

Post: #14

Ty for the reply to my subway problem, will try that out as soon as I get a chance...

On another note met another woman got along great with her texted her the next day, she replied but with easter here around the corner she will be out of town and so will I (different places)...so my question is do I bother texting her or calling her again now or wait until after easter when we're both in town to attempt the date schedule etc?...two weeks seems like a long time for a lot to happen.