Post: #1

I talked to this girl at a bar. as soon as I approached her, she was very nice to me. she seemed she was into me whole time.

During conversation, I did some cold reading and told her 'you look like you cry sometimes'

She said she actually cried yesterday. I asked why? movie?
she said it was because of some guy. it sounded like he didn't want to commit and she felt betrayed.
I told her clearly I don't want to be in an awkward position. she said she was not exclusive anything.

Anyways, I didn't try to make her feel better.

Typical comments by average guys
'you are a good girl. you deserve better'
'he is such a douche bag'
'You won't cry ever because of me'

When she started to talk up out of nowhere. of course she would be more nice to him t about her guy, I felt like a rebound guy. (she was upset and some guy shows han usual)

I believe I should stay away from those white knight tactics?
(hey I can treat you better than your bf)

How about just disqualifying myself?
(I can't hangout with you unless you end things with your guy)

Post: #2

If you escalate too quickly, get too sexual or too sweet she may use you to feel better. Girls like this are trouble if you want a relationship. The fact that she is heartbroken over someone that isn't exclusive is a red flag. I want love but wont label it? I wouldn't try. You will definitely get to bang her if you try though but do you want the drama?

Post: #3

If you're just looking for the bang, then it doesn't get much easier than a girl on the rebound. Tell her whatever she needs to hear. Who cares if you come across as a white knight - flip down your helm, draw your lance and charge her! Rebound girls are easy. But you should, of course, discard my advice if you're talking with any other type of girl because she'll friend zone you quicker than the time it takes to get a boner.

Post: #4

let her use you!! be the rebound lay!!!!! was she pretty? yes? she was gonna have a rebound lay regardless, so it may as well be YOU!!!!

Post: #5

I think I will show her some disinterest intentionally.
I will just tell her it was great to meet her. she seems like a great girl but I can't be in a position like that. we can just keep in touch through txting till she sorts things out. After several days, I will just randomly ask her out to coffee or some drinks......

Post: #6

Use Giovonny's line "I know you're not emotionally available..." and ask if she wants to hang out sometime.

Post: #7

Best soul song ever: