Post: #1

Just another cautionary tale for you players who are considering getting into an LTR:

Met senior side piece a few months ago, legit 8 latina. Good girl, wicked smart, doesn't drink, doesn't party, cool as hell. We hung out every few weeks, had mind blowing sex. She's super submissive, calls me sir, etc. Does anything I want sexually. Finally spent a whole week together fucking and talking. I opened up, she opened up. I thought, damn, this chick is LTR material, maybe I should get my house in order.

Then her phone started blowing up. Like tons of text messages. I glanced over as she responded to one and she was typing something like, "well at least we had fun together". I figured she was getting rid of some dude, no sweat. Next morning first thing her phone rings, she says she has to get it, I hear her talking. Clearly some guy upset he can't get ahold of her. I confront her and she says it's her married friend who's having problems with his wife. Yeah right.

I snoop her phone, find out it's a married dude she's having an affair with. She was telling one of her friends that she thought she was falling in love with him (moments after saying the same thing to me). She'd told me unprompted earlier in the week that she wasn't seeing anyone else seriously.

Fuck that. Next.

tl;dr: All women are indeed like that - even the good girls with PhDs and MBAs from Harvard and Yale.

Post: #2

Charge it to the game, sir. And good on you for commandeering the situation.

Post: #3

You're still gonna hit that though, right?

Post: #4

(04-02-2013 05:13 PM)Ensam Wrote:  Just another cautionary tale for you players who are considering getting into an LTR:

Met senior side piece a few months ago, legit 8 latina. Good girl, wicked smart, doesn't drink, doesn't party, cool as hell. We hung out every few weeks, had mind blowing sex. She's super submissive, calls me sir, etc. Does anything I want sexually. Finally spent a whole week together fucking and talking. I opened up, she opened up. I thought, damn, this chick is LTR material, maybe I should get my house in order.

Then her phone started blowing up. Like tons of text messages. I glanced over as she responded to one and she was typing something like, "well at least we had fun together". I figured she was getting rid of some dude, no sweat. Next morning first thing her phone rings, she says she has to get it, I hear her talking. Clearly some guy upset he can't get ahold of her. I confront her and she says it's her married friend who's having problems with his wife. Yeah right.

I snoop her phone, find out it's a married dude she's having an affair with. She was telling one of her friends that she thought she was falling in love with him (moments after saying the same thing to me). She'd told me unprompted earlier in the week that she wasn't seeing anyone else seriously.

Fuck that. Next.

tl;dr: All women are indeed like that - even the good girls with PhDs and MBAs from Harvard and Yale.

What is a senior side piece? You have a main chick and you are thinking about getting in an LTR with a "senior side piece?" What is she 40+? Why are you getting into a side relationship? Relationships are what the main chicks/LTRs are for and relations are for the side pieces/mistresses.

Post: #5

I thought he meant a senior in high school or college

Post: #6

Eh. She called me today and called it off anyway. Guess there will be no more smashing. Oh well.

In other news I pulled a PR dead lift in the gym tonight and the surf's up this weekend.

Post: #7

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Post: #8

You missed a golden chance to dump her. See CH's post on this from yesterday.

Post: #9

Dunno about the "AWALT". Not convinced that a dispassionate observer meeting her for the first time would consider her anything less than a slut. Just my hunch.

Post: #10

@augen sehen
Yeah, I know, I wish I was better at keeping my cool. Something to work on.

@RawGod
I don't actually believe that AWALT, clearly my sister and my mother are two notable exceptions . On the other hand I don't think there's a reliable indicator for which ones are and which ones aren't. The saying AWALT is to remind guys that every girl, no matter how innocent, has that potential in her and as a dude you just never know what you're dealing with. Fortunately this situation sorted itself out in a few months but I've been in ones where the slutty behavior wasn't evident until years later.