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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
Quote:Dunham -- in an attempt to convince herself that she'd given consent -- talks dirty to him as he forces himself on her.
The female hamster truly knows no bounds.
I wonder if, after another five or so years of rape hysteria, they will have pushed the boundaries far enough to claim that even videos of 'enthusiastic consent' aren't evidence against rape. Using this kind of logic, "Yeah, fuck me harder baby! I'm your little slut!" might actually just be her attempting to "convince herself that she'd given consent". I watch the future unfold with a continuing morbid curiosity.
There's a lesson amidst this insanity, however. Spending a little time comforting a girl post-bang pays off in terms of your own safety. All these stories of regret rape seem to have one thing in common: the guy bolted after the deed was done, leaving the girl to rationalise her looseness with feelings of being used, violated and abandoned. This can quickly transform the event into rape in her mind, especially with feedback from her girlfriends ("omg you were, like, totally raped").
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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
I think crying rape could also be an ego defense mechanism for women. If the guy just uses her for sex and never contacts her again she is undesirable. However by changing it to rape she becomes desirable again. She didn't want to have sex but the guy wanted her so bad he was willing to rape her. With this rationalisation she instantly goes from being undesirable to very desirable.
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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
A man is only as faithful as his options-Chris Rock
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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
The always classless Lena Dunham in the headlines (the ones who aren't focusing on the apology of her molestation tweet), apparently she molested her younger sister and details the experience..
Quote:In her newly published collection of personal essays, Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham describes experimenting sexually with her younger sister Grace, whom she says she attempted to persuade to kiss her using “anything a sexual predator might do.” In one particularly unsettling passage, Dunham experimented with her six-year younger sister’s vagina. “This was within the spectrum of things I did,” she writes.
In the collection of nonfiction personal accounts, Dunham describes using her little sister at times essentially as a sexual outlet, bribing her to kiss her for prolonged periods and even masturbating while she is in the bed beside her. But perhaps the most disturbing is an account she proudly gives of an episode that occurred when she was seven and her sister was one.
Quote:Excerpt: "“Do we all have uteruses?” I asked my mother when I was seven.
“Yes,” she told me. “We’re born with them, and with all our eggs, but they start out very small. And they aren’t ready to make babies until we’re older.” I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte’s Webb, and her uterus, the size of a thimble.
“Does her vagina look like mine?”
“I guess so,” my mother said. “Just smaller.”
One day, as I sat in our driveway in Long Island playing with blocks and buckets, my curiosity got the best of me. Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn’t resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked.
My mother came running. “Mama, Mama! Grace has something in there!”
My mother didn’t bother asking why I had opened Grace’s vagina. This was within the spectrum of things I did. She just on her knees and looked for herself. It quickly became apparent that Grace had stuffed six or seven pebbles in there. My mother removed them patiently while Grace cackled, thrilled that her prank had been a success"
How she remains in such high regard, I haven't a clue.
http://www.truthrevolt.org/news/lena-dun...ler-sister
(This post was last modified: 10-31-2014 10:25 PM by Impulse.)
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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
(10-31-2014 10:24 PM)Impulse Wrote: The always classless Lena Dunham in the headlines (the ones who aren't focusing on the apology of her molestation tweet), apparently she molested her younger sister and details the experience..
Quote:In her newly published collection of personal essays, Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham describes experimenting sexually with her younger sister Grace, whom she says she attempted to persuade to kiss her using “anything a sexual predator might do.” In one particularly unsettling passage, Dunham experimented with her six-year younger sister’s vagina. “This was within the spectrum of things I did,” she writes.
In the collection of nonfiction personal accounts, Dunham describes using her little sister at times essentially as a sexual outlet, bribing her to kiss her for prolonged periods and even masturbating while she is in the bed beside her. But perhaps the most disturbing is an account she proudly gives of an episode that occurred when she was seven and her sister was one.
Quote:Excerpt: "“Do we all have uteruses?” I asked my mother when I was seven.
“Yes,” she told me. “We’re born with them, and with all our eggs, but they start out very small. And they aren’t ready to make babies until we’re older.” I look at my sister, now a slim, tough one-year-old, and at her tiny belly. I imagined her eggs inside her, like the sack of spider eggs in Charlotte’s Webb, and her uterus, the size of a thimble.
“Does her vagina look like mine?”
“I guess so,” my mother said. “Just smaller.”
One day, as I sat in our driveway in Long Island playing with blocks and buckets, my curiosity got the best of me. Grace was sitting up, babbling and smiling, and I leaned down between her legs and carefully spread open her vagina. She didn’t resist and when I saw what was inside I shrieked.
My mother came running. “Mama, Mama! Grace has something in there!”
My mother didn’t bother asking why I had opened Grace’s vagina. This was within the spectrum of things I did. She just on her knees and looked for herself. It quickly became apparent that Grace had stuffed six or seven pebbles in there. My mother removed them patiently while Grace cackled, thrilled that her prank had been a success"
How she remains in such high regard, I haven't a clue.
http://www.truthrevolt.org/news/lena-dun...ler-sister
These behaviors are often the result of a child acting out sexual abuse from an adult on another child. I had a family friend who had this happen. Her daughter (age 5) was molested by another girl (13). When she called the thirteen year old dad, he was not shocked at all, but calmly replied "oh" and the was silent. She put two and two together and realized he was sexually abusing his daughter, who internalized the abuse and acted it out on her kids. Needless to say, the family was deviated and they're still healing from that one.
I wouldn't be surprised if, especially given Dunham's treatment of sex and her own body, there wasn't some history of sexual abuse. Her mother and sister appear in her first film and the whole dynamic struck me as very odd. Demons run in families.
The thing is our culture doesn't know how to handle a story like this. It's considered weird experimenting and written off as a personal anecdote, despite the fact if an adult were to do it - or even a male minor - they'd be looking at prison for life. Getting too deeply into the story would mean questioning our cultures caviler attitude towards both sexuality and children, and the idea families are disposable relative structures, rather than the only thing separating us from the lizards.
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RE: Lena Dunham Appreciation Thread (Dunham Master Thread)
Oh jesus, her hair now:
I'm sure Tuth must love her even more now.
From the article:
http://gawker.com/lena-dunham-responds-t...1653637030
The horrible thing about this whole controversy? It will probably just sell her more books.
Dunham wrote on twitter:
Quote:And by the way, if you were a little kid and never looked at another little kid's vagina, well, congrats to you.
Lena, none of us did that shit. Is this some kind of common thing? Most of the kids I know didn't either, even talking about our childhoods as adults.
Quote:Sometimes I get so mad I burn right up. Also I wish my sister wasn't laughing so hard.
Anger of a narcissist. "Why don't you see me the way I see me?"
The accusations Lena is getting would not be as harsh as they are, if she and other feminists did not scrutinize adult male sexuality as harshly as they do.
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