Post: #26

(05-08-2013 08:36 AM)BarkChompson Wrote:  Got laid Sunday with wing, went really well. Did a couple hours day game at Tulane last Saturday, will post breakdowns on both tonight. Really liking morning cocktail ACV/NOS/Adderall.

Give us some info on Tulane and Baton Rouge if you can. Some of us are wondering how the girls are and if it's easy to pull.

Post: #27

I've been stupid busy helping start up this business, I'll post everything soon.

I wasn't active in Baton Rouge even though I was there for a year, so info is gonna be basic. Also I'm done posting in regular game section of forum until I get actual insight or have a good question.

Post: #28

I stayed in B.R. after the storm for a bit and my mom stays out there. Unless u stay around LSU, ur best options for day prospects are shopping areas. They don't have many, if any, festivals and I wasn't able to find many happy hour spots w/ consistent talent. As far as B.R. being easy, its like everything else in game, you do enough approaches it will get easier.

Post: #29

Went to Tulane to spit some game a week ago. I was on 8 hours sleep over course of 3 nights, it's a bad habit I have to get through. It's as much a crutch as drinking, get rid of the same inhibitors so you take more risks, rather than working on my baseline when I'm well rested so my default is approaching.

#5, #6, #7, #8
Shit. I don't remember any details at all. Next time I'll try to be quicker about it.

The lessons I remember learning were:
Rambling is going to be skill I need to get better at. Opener is pretty simple, said I was looking at Graduate programs asking where X building was. Gave too much and asked about them without them wanting to giving me much. Shit. Lessons lost.

I felt good at the time and talked to any girl that walked by, but didn't have a game plan and wasn't alert enough to learn much anyways.

Post: #30

(05-08-2013 09:23 AM)CThunder86 Wrote:  Give us some info on Tulane and Baton Rouge if you can. Some of us are wondering how the girls are and if it's easy to pull.

Just posted on Baton Rouge:
/thread-22110-...#pid419970

I'll try to get a hold on Tulane/Loyola, Delgado, UNO.

NOLA has a million daygame spots, but the big ones are

A) French Quarter - Get a hotel at Harrah's, in the CBD, or in the FQ proper. On nice days girls are walking around shopping/drinking etc. Easy excuse to meet up later that night, because there's so much to do down there, or even just bounce to your hotel if they are day drinking. I say they because there won't be any girls day drinking by themselves, so bring a wing or approach a group.

B) Magazine St - upscale shopping boutiques, yoga studios, and bars. Plenty of college girls that are open to getting approached by non-college dudes, and young professionals and hot Uptown moms. Only problem is it's spread out, so you'll get 1-3 blocks of shops and bars, then blocks and blocks of just houses and offices.

C)Tulane/Loyola - rich college girls that are from NY/NJ, lots of Jews and Italians. Reminds me so much of UD it's scary.

D) Audubon Park + "The Fly" - the latter is Riverfront Park behind the Audubon Zoo. Girls from Tulane/Loyola go there to drink and sunbathe. Not sure how to approach it, any experience on sunbathing girl game would be fantastic.

Post: #31

#9

I'm in Pensacola today, and I did a couple approaches I would never have done.

I was paddle boarding (looks like surfing but standing straight up and using a paddle) and I saw a girl like 100 yards out, while I was 200 yards out from shore already. I was thinking "fuck it if I don't do this I'm going to feel like a pussy later".

I paddle out, fall once on my way there (that shit is hard) and say

B: Hey, in case you were wondering, yes I did paddle over here to say hi.
IOP (Idiot on Paddleboard): Haha
B: This is really hard have you done this before?
IOP: Yeah I own this one. Yours is nice
B: Thanks I rented it from that hotel over there
IOP: Haha
B: You live here?
IOP: Yeah me and my husband blah blah (at this point I tune out)
B: What's a good place to meet single girls?
IOP: There's Blah blah blah

I start to drift away which was convenient, because there was a kayak with a cute girl and a fat girl in it.

Ends up they are in high school, after asking if they were going to school at UWF or whatever.

Jump in pool at hotel, say "this is so much warmer than the ocean" and b-line straight towards two girls. They laugh and swim away. I keep swimming in original direction and jump in hot tub. Then they actually come approach me, what ends up is the 30 year old aunt of the 16 year old other one.

Strike out, but feels good with the positive momentum. Talked to surfer dudes at beach asking where to get some tail, they pointed me to some local bars across the street from the hotel. Gonna hit them up tonight.

I'll exit with this video, Patrice O'Neal on 2 Girls 1 Cup for some perspective:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPcVFZmg7uI

Post: #32

To clarify, I'm only posting sober, daylight/well lit approaches, where girls aren't expecting to get approached.

#10
At work, huge festival. Before things get started, I overhear a girl in good shape with a cute face and tight body (7.5, 8 for me b/c she's my type). She's walking by and I'm standing behind the table at my booth.

Cute Face Tight Body: I think they're out of donuts
Me: Why would you say that! You're smashing my dreams. I would've been blissfully ignorant, now I know I can't have donuts.
CFTB: ::laughs, taken off guard::

One thing I'll give myself is that I have a great energy first thing in the morning at work, because I go so hard at what I do I'm exhausted by the end of the day. It usually takes people off their guard.

So I leave my booth for ten minutes, on my way back thank the old security guard dude for watching over it and he says "there was a cute girl that dropped off some food for you" and I try to play it off like "if she brought food it doesn't matter how cute she is I love her" (didn't need to be said, but he in turn took ME off guard).

Lo and behold there's a plate with mini donuts and a muffin and bagel sitting on my table. In PUA terms, this is known as an IOI (Indicator of Interest). Big fucking IOI.

She comes over about a minute later (I guess she was watching me from her tent).

I don't hesitate and immediately give her a big hug (she went for the handshake and I completely ignore it).

M: You brought me breakfast, you get a hug.
CFTB: Haha thank you
M: No CFTB, thank YOU.

We banter for a bit, she tells me where she's staying (on the North Shore ~40 minutes away) and actually starts complaining about how she couldn't stay in NOLA because of getting fucked over by blah blah blah. That was a red flag because she goes deep into her personal problems in a light conversation.

M: I'll let you get back to your table so you don't have to watch me get cream cheese all up in my beard.
CFTB: Haha yeah blah blah blah
M: We should hang out next your in town
CFTB: Absolutely
M: Cool what's your number? (I hand her my phone, she calls to make sure it rings)
CFTB: Blah blah bye

I see her a few times throughout the day, make solid but brief convo, and leave forgetting to say bye.

Texted her tonight

M: survive [the event]?
CFTB: Yep
M: I owe you a beer for the bagel this morning. how's tomorrow night after the event?

Haven't heard back from her, although I don't expect to. I lead her pretty hard throughout the interaction, which is something I'm not used to. I'm glad I'm getting put in the situation where I can lead, and with that is going to bring fuckups.

Also seriously in retrospect she sounded crazy as shit. I never would have acknowledged a red flag before because I would have just been so happy to be able to get an 8's number during the day, and would have been crushed to not hear back from her.

Now I'm able to see flaws in otherwise physically excellent women. There is no spoon.

Post: #33

#11

Trying to do approach-a-day resulted in this shitty approach:

Idiot walks by my car

BC: I like that your shoes match your thing (point to sports bra under shirt)
I: Haha thanks blah blah blah

She walks away, I hop in car with Fox and he says "why didn't you ask for her number?" "Fuck you're right."

Pull up in car

BC: Hey do you have a boyfriend?
I: Sorry I do (big smile)

Fox asks why the fuck I would ask her that. I don't have a good answer.

Post: #34

These are entertaining and enlightening.

Post: #35

12

Almost forgot this one! Yesterday at Whole Foods

Feeling like a baller, good day at work. Gonna meet up with some idiot from last week to make dinner at her place then bang (long story short that doesn't pan out, but I up and left at 6am after she said she wouldn't have sex with me, which felt good).

See a girl looking at Arugula, 7 body but blonde and short which I like.

BC: What is Arugula?
Arugula Idiot: It's this leafy green plant
BC: Is it good like spinach?
AI: Not really blah blah blah

We chat a bit about how I hate eating salad so I'm trying to get the most in without eating it, she shares with me a tasty sounding recipe, and elaborates when I act confused if she likes eating salad or hates it like me. She agrees she hates it like me we decide, gives some hair flicks.

I'm good about planting my feet and body language, but fucked up on forgetting to drop bait or continue past salad.

AI: Good luck with the salad
BC: Thanks it's gonna be awful

I see her after I buy everything, and after I put my groceries in the car I think of awesome line.

I was going to hand her my phone and tell her to write the recipe for the tasty salad, or use voice recorder and ask her to repeat it, then just hand her the phone and say "give me your number I'll let you know how it goes" or something.

I walk back inside and look for her, but she's not there.

This is the second time this happened in the past few days that I think of something awesome to say or see her from far away and lose her for reasons outside of my control.

The frustration is genuine, and I'm pumped that I have it. I genuinely want to approach and when I can't it drives me to do it next time. Finally getting some momentum. Thanks RVF.

Post: #36

#13

I go to Chipotle a lot. The first month that it opened just outside NOLA I went 10 times. Now it's about once a week.

There's usually cute girls there. Almost every time, there is one pair of cute girls that is eating in (if she's alone she usually get it to go).

Chipotle is the perfect burrito business model. They have taken every aspect of their business and made it "green", "sustainable", "fair trade", and "humane". This you to eat a 1300 burrito without feeling guilty. Amazing.

I digress.

I was with LikeACarSalesman, shootin the shit in line with a cute girl behind me (getting a burrito for her bf waiting in the car (respect)), and the girl making the burritos. There are two girls sitting down at the tables behind the partition who look kind of cute. I ignore them for now, get burritos and sit.

The girls are now standing outside chatting. LikeACarSalesman sits down and starts eating, I tell him I'm going to get these girls to grab a drink with us after chipotle.

I walk outside and decide to go direct, since I don't know when they are splitting up and leaving, and waiting until then would be too obvious.

Cast: BC, [LACS eating burrito inside], Idiot 1 (7.5, 5'6" with good boobs and FANTASTIC ass in yoga pants), Idiot 2 (7, 5'10" with mediocre boobs and nice ass, also in yoga pants)

BC: Hey me and LACS thought you were cute, do you want to grab a drink later?
I1: I'm not sure ask her (deferring to her friend, not bitchy)
I2: I have to finish this proposal (or whatever I wasn't interested)
BC: Another night then. Proposal for what?
I1: We're starting a business, personal trainer, blah blah blah I trained I2
BC: {to I2} You look great
I2: Thanks (smiles politely then goes back to texting, which is perfect)

At this point I'm BSing with I1 for another two minutes, telling her how I'm starting a business too so I know what it's like to be so busy then:

BC: I'm starving so I'm going to go back and devour that burrito, why don't you give me your number and we'll try again
I1: We're really busy so why don't you give me yours
BC: sure it's xxx-xxx-xxxx, but call it because I just got Google Voice and was working on it for two fucking hours today and I'm not sure it's taking calls (half truth)

She calls it, I get her name, say hi I'm BC, then go back and eat.

About to text her "what's up", don't expect it go anywhere but I had to get in my one approach per day and it felt good to go direct for a change.

However, it wasn't strong and to quote a great man "I'm in the business of getting dates, not numbers".

Post: #37

No real time to game this week b/c of work and hobbies, but that's ok.

Anyone else have this problem:

I don't jack off any more, but if I don't get pussy for 5-7 days I'll ejaculate for no reason during the day. Like I need to get my nut out but if I don't have time to approach and fb's aren't available. When I sense that I'm at that point I rub one out real quick and it doesn't do anything to my drive/testosterone, but if I don't it's like I'm fucking 13 and having wet dreams/daydreams.

Anyways during a cold call I ended up saying "unless he wants to hear my sweet voice again", referring to a manager I had talked to, and this sexy sounding girl from LA starts talking to me in a porn star voice for the 20 seconds before I hang up. It was crazy my game is getting so thorough even ELECTRICITY can't hold me back!

Post: #38

Love reading your stuff man.

Post: #39

#13 12

Actually lost progress today.

Cute doctor opened me up on the elevator.

CD: Blah blah blah about thing you're carrying.
BC: Blah blah blah

I was taken off guard, she was cute with a tight body, and was awkward as shit (she's a doctor, super smart and doesn't need social skills).

In other words underhand toss with a wiffle ball, and I didn't even swing.

My biggest weakness right now is the same one it's been, but it's time to address it because it is now without a doubt the limiting factor. I don't sleep enough, and because of that even though I had warmed up with two presentations, I couldn't get this idiot's number when she basically handed it to me.

Post: #40

I'm on an approach hiatus except for 2 hrs/week internet, working two jobs through the middle of August.

Can't put in the proper time to learn from constant repeat mistakes, so I'm working on how I spend my time in general and getting things ready for hunting season (sales job only and more free time).

Post: #41

13

Definitely counting this one.

I go to a lot of libraries, and today I came to a realization:

Children's Librarians Are Hot.

Most of the time, the regular library staff are old hags that have been at it for a while. The ones that run the Children's sections, however, are young. They just got their MLIS (yes you can get a master's degree in library science), they are in their 20's... fuck it I'm posting somewhere else for this part (/thread-8271-p...id477660).

We chatted as I was packing up, went something like this:
BarkChompson: How long have you been at this?
Children's Librarian: About a year now.
BC: So you got your MLIS? [NOTE: all CL's will be impressed you know that is a thing that exists]
CL: Yep, from Dumbfuck State College Online
BC: Blah Blah blah
CL: haha blah blah blah blah
BC: Do you ever make it to NOLA?
CL: Sometimes, I like it here because NOLA is crazy and I can visit, then come home to [wherever] where it's quiet and I can escape.
BC: Oh cool, next time you're in town we should hang out.

I hand her my phone, she puts in her number. This is what day game should feel like, and now I have an example to strive for. Good day.