Post: #101

+1 for edging. Practice during self love going to the edge and then stop. Do this for hours and you will last as long as you like.

Getting old helps, you are less excited about the whole thing in general, and can last as long as you like.

Post: #102

I think the solution of viagra to reduce to refactory period is the most efficient for the short term.

But is viagra dangerous ? i mean if your body gets used to it , whats the impacts ? will it be harder to get natural full erection. ?

Could people who uses viagra share their experiences ? specially that it is mainluy for ED more than PE , but as it helps for to get faster second round so it is good solution

Post: #103

(07-03-2017 08:34 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  +1 for edging. Practice during self love going to the edge and then stop. Do this for hours and you will last as long as you like.

Getting old helps, you are less excited about the whole thing in general, and can last as long as you like.

x2. My problem now is that I have to concentrate on having an orgasm now or else I can go forever.

Also change to a position that requires some effort and make you totally comfortable, like standing at the edge of the bed while plowing her. That usually has made me last longer in my younger years. Also remember to change the rhythm from fast to slow to pace yourself.

Post: #104

I've stopped caring. I've found more women seem to prefer multiple shorter rounds than one long session. Plus by the time you get to round 3-4 you will practically have to force yourself to cum anyway.

Post: #105

^Yep

Post: #106

(07-05-2017 04:01 PM)Repo Wrote:  I've stopped caring. I've found more women seem to prefer multiple shorter rounds than one long session. Plus by the time you get to round 3-4 you will practically have to force yourself to cum anyway.

it depends in your refactory time , thats why i asked if taking viagra is dangerous , and maybe your body will be used to it

Post: #107

Slow down. It's anxiety that's makes you cum fast. Slow down and give your self a chance to catch up to the moment.

Post: #108

I think about work or some kind of chore, it usually does the trick.

Post: #109

It's mental.... You are not coming to fast because of a physical sensation.

I herd a old tale once thats pretty relevant... forgive me as I don't recall exactly how it went but the gist of it was something like this:

Long ago Vinny who was having sexual performance issues went to see a witch doctor for help. The witch doctor said he had just what the man needed and went into his bag and pulled out a pendant. He told Vinny this pendant was very powerful and whoever wore it would become a god in the bedroom. Vinny gladly paid for the pendant with a free Instagram overhaul an ran out of the store happy to put it to the test. Vinny became a legend in the village for his newfound sexual prowess. Women lined up around the block to ride his cock. Later the witch doctors friend asked him "what was so special about that pendant" the witch doctor replied "nothing."

Post: #110

If you're on nofap I find it hard to believe it doesn't have to do with sensation/physiology.

If you bang regularly, obviously day to day or every 2 days you last fairly easily.

I've been on both sides of it.

Post: #111

Just go slow and don't freak out if you do cum, I never acknowledge that I came too quick, besides I usually get a boner in a minute or two after anyway. You'll always last longer the 2nd time after the 1st.

I don't fap so I used to think about this a lot.

Post: #112

Cr33pin's back!

I've probably read this thread three or four times. Doing NoFap, performance obviously declines, especially if I don't have a "girlfriend."

The major keys have been

1. Don't give a fuck

I straight up tell girls I don't jack off. It's what I do and I have no hesitation in my opinion. This is my life.

I used to jerk off before dates to last longer. I don't care anymore. Sex feels better when I don't jack off.

King eats first. She comes next. Then I come again.

2. Fuck multiple rounds ALWAYS

Having a lot of sex makes performance improve guaranteed.

Pretty much be a complete horn dog.

Fuck her once when she shows up. Drink a few glasses of wine and do it again.

Go for a walk and smash her in the park.

Going on a long drive? Pull over and have her ride you in the backseat at the rest stop.

Fuck once then walk around naked listening to deep house music playing with her pussy until you get hard again.

There's nothing wrong with having sex and doing something else then having sex again.

Post: #113

I thought life was having sex and doing something else and having sex again.

Post: #114

I have found math is excellent to distract me, as it's related to absolutely nothing. You can do 2 or 3 in exponents, or just continuously add sequential numbers. Or you can just enjoy yourself and cum when you want to. Personally there's sometimes a small satisfaction to going for like 20 minutes or so and then quitting, leaving her flabbergasted as to how she couldn't make you cum.

Post: #115

(08-02-2017 09:11 PM)Sonoma Wrote:  I have found math is excellent to distract me, as it's related to absolutely nothing. You can do 2 or 3 in exponents, or just continuously add sequential numbers. Or you can just enjoy yourself and cum when you want to. Personally there's sometimes a small satisfaction to going for like 20 minutes or so and then quitting, leaving her flabbergasted as to how she couldn't make you cum.

I'm a total math nerd but I think this technique (as well as, thinking about your Grandma or John McCain naked) is totally gay.

The purpose of doing math in your head is to take you out of the moment, to enjoy sex less, and to continue pumping away for her pleasure.

Wrong!

Sex is for MY pleasure and she's along for the ride.

ALSO - I've found that enjoying the sex and being more in the moment (the opposite of doing math) helps last longer because you're not thinking as much.

NOW I yell, moan like a gorilla, proclaim "YES that's good you little bitch" switch positions, joke around, whatever...I enjoy it and lat longer.

Post: #116

The best way to last longer in my experience is to be immersed in the experience. Some people say it's better to do math equations, think about baseball statistics, or imagine you're fucking some homeless man with AIDS. But I strong disagree with this method. It's better to be mindful of what's going on and pay attention to your body, and hers. You can generally notice if you're close to orgasm way before you actually do. When you get the feeling, just stop thrusting for a second. It will give you both a chance to sit back and soak up the intensity you've been experiencing. Then focus on your breath. Breathe deeply with your diaphragm and use the same muscles that are activated when you stop the flow of urine midstream. Kegels can help with this a lot.

After doing this, try changing positions. Girl on top provides the least amount of sensation. Keep staying in the moment and pay attention to your body and breath. You shouldn't really just fuck a girl nonstop like a jackhammer anyway, throwing in pauses here and there lets you enjoy the intense sensations you've been too excited to really notice.

(07-05-2017 02:11 PM)casa-nostra Wrote:  I think the solution of viagra to reduce to refactory period is the most efficient for the short term.

But is viagra dangerous ? i mean if your body gets used to it , whats the impacts ? will it be harder to get natural full erection. ?

Could people who uses viagra share their experiences ? specially that it is mainluy for ED more than PE , but as it helps for to get faster second round so it is good solution

Viagra isn't psychoactive. It was developed for heart conditions. It doesn't build a tolerance and quitting it after repeated use won't do anything. If anything, future erections may be more powerful. As most people should know, the penis isn't a muscle, it's a spongy tissue that uses hydraulics to fill with blood. If you're regularly getting rock hard erections from viagra it makes sense that it would make your future erections more effective if it's regularly being worked, but this is just conjecture. Supposedly morning wood is your body "working out" so your penis so will work properly.

Take cialis, though. It's half life is like 18 fucking hours, and the required dose is a lot smaller. It definitely helps shorten the refractory period.