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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
(03-16-2013 02:50 PM)More and more Wrote: I expected to see Atlanta mentioned. I actually passed through there briefly last year, but only went out one night. I stayed at a hotel Downtown, but I stayed Downtown pretty much the whole time; if you know ATL, you know that the action is elsewhere.
But I have some questions about Atlanta for anybody who can answer:
First, I'm not just asking if there are good looking middle class black women; I also interested in easy lays. For guys who have spent a good bit of time there, how long did it typically take you to bang?
Your question is broad... ease of bang depends on many factors including your own front - i.e. how you present yourself to the world. So if I were to tell you a had x amount of 1 night stands in the ATL , doesn't mean you necessarily would or visa versa.
How old are you?
Do you have black friends?
Have ever dated a black woman?
More and more Wrote:Do you think a non-stereotypical black guy would do well there? (I don't just mean non-thuggish, I mean very proper-seeming, white sounding, etc.)
Nope not really. White sounding black men not named Bryant Gumbel are generalized ostracized and labeled as corny. The last thing you want to appear to a black woman is corny.
More and more Wrote:In predominantly black bars and clubs, is it all dance floor game? I think I've had enough of that.
Yes and why have you had enough of that? You want easy lays from beautiful non hoodish black women then you better bring something to the table..you don't need to be Chris Brown but you DO need to display some proficiency with the "vertical" bedroom moves for black women - if you are a black man. Otherwise you will be seen as corny.
More and more Wrote:Also, do the women there have this attitude where they kind of walk around with the expectation that men they come across are not good enough for them? Brothers who have lived or visited certain places will know what I'm talking about.
All will have that attitude to a degree. basically it's to weed out the "weak" men. Typical players look forward to cracking the biatch shields.
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
(03-18-2013 01:45 AM)rhodey Wrote: (03-16-2013 02:50 PM)More and more Wrote: I expected to see Atlanta mentioned. I actually passed through there briefly last year, but only went out one night. I stayed at a hotel Downtown, but I stayed Downtown pretty much the whole time; if you know ATL, you know that the action is elsewhere.
But I have some questions about Atlanta for anybody who can answer:
First, I'm not just asking if there are good looking middle class black women; I also interested in easy lays. For guys who have spent a good bit of time there, how long did it typically take you to bang?
Your question is broad... ease of bang depends on many factors including your own front - i.e. how you present yourself to the world. So if I were to tell you a had x amount of 1 night stands in the ATL , doesn't mean you necessarily would or visa versa.
How old are you?
Do you have black friends?
Have ever dated a black woman?
More and more Wrote:Do you think a non-stereotypical black guy would do well there? (I don't just mean non-thuggish, I mean very proper-seeming, white sounding, etc.)
Nope not really. White sounding black men not named Bryant Gumbel are generalized ostracized and labeled as corny. The last thing you want to appear to a black woman is corny.
More and more Wrote:In predominantly black bars and clubs, is it all dance floor game? I think I've had enough of that.
Yes and why have you had enough of that? You want easy lays from beautiful non hoodish black women then you better bring something to the table..you don't need to be Chris Brown but you DO need to display some proficiency with the "vertical" bedroom moves for black women - if you are a black man. Otherwise you will be seen as corny.
More and more Wrote:Also, do the women there have this attitude where they kind of walk around with the expectation that men they come across are not good enough for them? Brothers who have lived or visited certain places will know what I'm talking about.
All will have that attitude to a degree. basically it's to weed out the "weak" men. Typical players look forward to cracking the biatch shields.
I'm in my mid-30s, and while I do have black friends I have mostly dated white women. But I have dated black women.
About dance floor game, there are several reasons. One reason (and a main one) is that I feel that I bring so much to the table that I shouldn't have to be out on the dance floor. Another is that I don't like Southern rap, which is ubiquitous and unrelenting in black clubs. Yet another is that I'm not that great at dancing anymore.
Honestly, I feel that the 'corniness' factor is a factor in my player life as far as black women is concerned. That's why it would be great if I could find somewhere where it isn't a factor. It seems that most of the women for whom it wouldn't be a factor mostly date non-black men, and that it is hard to meet the rest except through work or social circle.
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
Quote:Looking for places where the women are:
primarily into black guys
middle class at least (not into hood chicks, and they aren't into me)
non-fat
nice (no or little attitude)
Can meet them at bars and clubs (not talking about social circle game)
don't require a whole lot of work to bang
You have quite the laundry list but I'll take a stab. A few things must be said before I begin my list. There's no shortage in the amount of fat black women in any city I've been to in the United States. I'd say New York had proportionally the least overweight/obese women, 3 out of 10 or so. Never been to Canada or Mexico.
A large number of sistas in Atlanta meets at least 5 of your 6 said criteria. Dallas is about the same as well.
Sleepers: Jacksonville (US and Caribbean black girls), Memphis (tons of 7+s who only come out at night, a weird phenomenon), Baton Rouge (they're everywhere), New Orleans (lots of fatties, but still loads of stunners especially during the day), Charleston (they showed me love, only spent 24 hours there though), Hattiesburg, MS (for some reason, USM attracts a lot of stunners)
The Hopeless: Jackson, MS (fatties are literally 5+ out of 10, no joke) Gainesville, FL (stunners from all over the country and Caribbean, fierce competition, seem to have way more black men than women), Gulfport/Biloxi, MS (fatties and unwarranted attitudes)
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rhodey
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: I'm in my mid-30s, and while I do have black friends I have mostly dated white women. But I have dated black women.
ok that explains a lot
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: About dance floor game, there are several reasons. One reason (and a main one) is that I feel that I bring so much to the table that I shouldn't have to be out on the dance floor. Another is that I don't like Southern rap, which is ubiquitous and unrelenting in black clubs. Yet another is that I'm not that great at dancing anymore.
I hear you, didn't realize your age. But there are other genres of music and dance out there, or just check out some of the big Jazz festivals.
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: Honestly, I feel that the 'corniness' factor is a factor in my player life as far as black women is concerned. That's why it would be great if I could find somewhere where it isn't a factor. It seems that most of the women for whom it wouldn't be a factor mostly date non-black men, and that it is hard to meet the rest except through work or social circle.
Yep or the careerist type's in cities like D.C. They are out there but the attractive one's will still require some level of game IMO.
Honestly, you may need go outside the country for what you are looking for. If not you will have to CHANGE somewhat. You will have to ADAPT to the market you seek.
Maybe shoot for a more "grown man style" like Idris Elba. Not a thug but not corny either, and black women loved men like that. If cant or wont adapt then again I suggest you travel abroad.
(This post was last modified: 03-18-2013 07:59 PM by rhodey.)
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
To whoever stated Canada earlier- I second that emotion. Try Canada if it's feasible for you, of course. I found the black women there to be articulate, fun, outgoing and definitely into good black men with their lives together. This was my experience there with the ones I met and dealt with. If you are willing to travel to the cold North, you may find some warm hearted black women waiting as long as you can project the right mixture of strength, being in charge, adventure, fun, you know the things that get any woman's juices flowing. Somehow I get the feeling that yours is not an issue of no black women being open to a non-thug type black man as much as it may some things that you may need to address and calibrate within self in order to get the kind of women: black, white or otherwise. If you project, knowingly or unknowingly, a beta vibe-this will curtail your success with even black women who are solely into good black men who are articulate b/c women of all stripes do not respond well to that. They are hard-wired to reject that. Could it be that there are other issues you may need to address within self and your own game and that by addressing those things you would necessarily erase this "problem" with finding viable black women? Just a thought/question. Anyway, I wish you well on that journey as I love good natured and beautiful black women too. Lastly, to piggyback on another posters comment, you may need to go abroad to find these black women-but even there (as anywhere and with any kind of women) you will need game. Good luck my friend.
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: (03-18-2013 01:45 AM)rhodey Wrote: (03-16-2013 02:50 PM)More and more Wrote: I expected to see Atlanta mentioned. I actually passed through there briefly last year, but only went out one night. I stayed at a hotel Downtown, but I stayed Downtown pretty much the whole time; if you know ATL, you know that the action is elsewhere.
But I have some questions about Atlanta for anybody who can answer:
First, I'm not just asking if there are good looking middle class black women; I also interested in easy lays. For guys who have spent a good bit of time there, how long did it typically take you to bang?
Your question is broad... ease of bang depends on many factors including your own front - i.e. how you present yourself to the world. So if I were to tell you a had x amount of 1 night stands in the ATL , doesn't mean you necessarily would or visa versa.
How old are you?
Do you have black friends?
Have ever dated a black woman?
More and more Wrote:Do you think a non-stereotypical black guy would do well there? (I don't just mean non-thuggish, I mean very proper-seeming, white sounding, etc.)
Nope not really. White sounding black men not named Bryant Gumbel are generalized ostracized and labeled as corny. The last thing you want to appear to a black woman is corny.
More and more Wrote:In predominantly black bars and clubs, is it all dance floor game? I think I've had enough of that.
Yes and why have you had enough of that? You want easy lays from beautiful non hoodish black women then you better bring something to the table..you don't need to be Chris Brown but you DO need to display some proficiency with the "vertical" bedroom moves for black women - if you are a black man. Otherwise you will be seen as corny.
More and more Wrote:Also, do the women there have this attitude where they kind of walk around with the expectation that men they come across are not good enough for them? Brothers who have lived or visited certain places will know what I'm talking about.
All will have that attitude to a degree. basically it's to weed out the "weak" men. Typical players look forward to cracking the biatch shields.
I'm in my mid-30s, and while I do have black friends I have mostly dated white women. But I have dated black women.
About dance floor game, there are several reasons. One reason (and a main one) is that I feel that I bring so much to the table that I shouldn't have to be out on the dance floor. Another is that I don't like Southern rap, which is ubiquitous and unrelenting in black clubs. Yet another is that I'm not that great at dancing anymore.
Honestly, I feel that the 'corniness' factor is a factor in my player life as far as black women is concerned. That's why it would be great if I could find somewhere where it isn't a factor. It seems that most of the women for whom it wouldn't be a factor mostly date non-black men, and that it is hard to meet the rest except through work or social circle.
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
(04-02-2013 03:50 AM)Prince X Wrote: To whoever stated Canada earlier- I second that emotion. Try Canada if it's feasible for you, of course. I found the black women there to be articulate, fun, outgoing and definitely into good black men with their lives together. This was my experience there with the ones I met and dealt with. If you are willing to travel to the cold North, you may find some warm hearted black women waiting as long as you can project the right mixture of strength, being in charge, adventure, fun, you know the things that get any woman's juices flowing. Somehow I get the feeling that yours is not an issue of no black women being open to a non-thug type black man as much as it may some things that you may need to address and calibrate within self in order to get the kind of women: black, white or otherwise. If you project, knowingly or unknowingly, a beta vibe-this will curtail your success with even black women who are solely into good black men who are articulate b/c women of all stripes do not respond well to that. They are hard-wired to reject that. Could it be that there are other issues you may need to address within self and your own game and that by addressing those things you would necessarily erase this "problem" with finding viable black women? Just a thought/question. Anyway, I wish you well on that journey as I love good natured and beautiful black women too. Lastly, to piggyback on another posters comment, you may need to go abroad to find these black women-but even there (as anywhere and with any kind of women) you will need game. Good luck my friend.
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: (03-18-2013 01:45 AM)rhodey Wrote: (03-16-2013 02:50 PM)More and more Wrote: I expected to see Atlanta mentioned. I actually passed through there briefly last year, but only went out one night. I stayed at a hotel Downtown, but I stayed Downtown pretty much the whole time; if you know ATL, you know that the action is elsewhere.
But I have some questions about Atlanta for anybody who can answer:
First, I'm not just asking if there are good looking middle class black women; I also interested in easy lays. For guys who have spent a good bit of time there, how long did it typically take you to bang?
Your question is broad... ease of bang depends on many factors including your own front - i.e. how you present yourself to the world. So if I were to tell you a had x amount of 1 night stands in the ATL , doesn't mean you necessarily would or visa versa.
How old are you?
Do you have black friends?
Have ever dated a black woman?
More and more Wrote:Do you think a non-stereotypical black guy would do well there? (I don't just mean non-thuggish, I mean very proper-seeming, white sounding, etc.)
Nope not really. White sounding black men not named Bryant Gumbel are generalized ostracized and labeled as corny. The last thing you want to appear to a black woman is corny.
More and more Wrote:In predominantly black bars and clubs, is it all dance floor game? I think I've had enough of that.
Yes and why have you had enough of that? You want easy lays from beautiful non hoodish black women then you better bring something to the table..you don't need to be Chris Brown but you DO need to display some proficiency with the "vertical" bedroom moves for black women - if you are a black man. Otherwise you will be seen as corny.
More and more Wrote:Also, do the women there have this attitude where they kind of walk around with the expectation that men they come across are not good enough for them? Brothers who have lived or visited certain places will know what I'm talking about.
All will have that attitude to a degree. basically it's to weed out the "weak" men. Typical players look forward to cracking the biatch shields.
I'm in my mid-30s, and while I do have black friends I have mostly dated white women. But I have dated black women.
About dance floor game, there are several reasons. One reason (and a main one) is that I feel that I bring so much to the table that I shouldn't have to be out on the dance floor. Another is that I don't like Southern rap, which is ubiquitous and unrelenting in black clubs. Yet another is that I'm not that great at dancing anymore.
Honestly, I feel that the 'corniness' factor is a factor in my player life as far as black women is concerned. That's why it would be great if I could find somewhere where it isn't a factor. It seems that most of the women for whom it wouldn't be a factor mostly date non-black men, and that it is hard to meet the rest except through work or social circle.
To an extent. Remember that Black men in Canada for the most part are articulate and well versed so being this is no stand out here. The key is that Black women here due to growing up in Canada are bit more mild and well mannered in comparison to their beast American counterparts. So they will give you a fair chance like any other girl here if you have some game and flair. The only issues with Black Canadian women is their is not enough of them, if you LIVE in a certain City you run through top prospects quickly. Another issue is that Black women in Canada maybe do not try to act the part of Black American women but they lust after the same unrealistic memes of Black men, maybe even more so then American Black women. Black Canadian women thirst after American Black men and the strong street image... a lot. Many will travel down to Atlanta, LA, Miami, New York to get their fix of Southern American gentlemen because us Canadian brothers are just to tame and articulate for them. They are quick to blame that Canadian brothers chance after white women so this is why they flee to look for American men but I do not buy that argument fully. I think the more they try to mimic characteristics of American Black women it ends up turning many Canadian brothers off.
If you are American though you will have heavy currency here in Canada and outside of Toronto and the GTA you will find a good well mannered (for the most part) Canadian black females scattered around. Cities of note: Winnipeg, Edmonton, Calgary, Halifax, and Ottawa.
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RE: Best N. American cities for black guys to pick up black girls?
(04-08-2013 02:43 AM)kosko Wrote: (04-02-2013 03:50 AM)Prince X Wrote: To whoever stated Canada earlier- I second that emotion. Try Canada if it's feasible for you, of course. I found the black women there to be articulate, fun, outgoing and definitely into good black men with their lives together. This was my experience there with the ones I met and dealt with. If you are willing to travel to the cold North, you may find some warm hearted black women waiting as long as you can project the right mixture of strength, being in charge, adventure, fun, you know the things that get any woman's juices flowing. Somehow I get the feeling that yours is not an issue of no black women being open to a non-thug type black man as much as it may some things that you may need to address and calibrate within self in order to get the kind of women: black, white or otherwise. If you project, knowingly or unknowingly, a beta vibe-this will curtail your success with even black women who are solely into good black men who are articulate b/c women of all stripes do not respond well to that. They are hard-wired to reject that. Could it be that there are other issues you may need to address within self and your own game and that by addressing those things you would necessarily erase this "problem" with finding viable black women? Just a thought/question. Anyway, I wish you well on that journey as I love good natured and beautiful black women too. Lastly, to piggyback on another posters comment, you may need to go abroad to find these black women-but even there (as anywhere and with any kind of women) you will need game. Good luck my friend.
(03-18-2013 02:50 AM)More and more Wrote: (03-18-2013 01:45 AM)rhodey Wrote: (03-16-2013 02:50 PM)More and more Wrote: I expected to see Atlanta mentioned. I actually passed through there briefly last year, but only went out one night. I stayed at a hotel Downtown, but I stayed Downtown pretty much the whole time; if you know ATL, you know that the action is elsewhere.
But I have some questions about Atlanta for anybody who can answer:
First, I'm not just asking if there are good looking middle class black women; I also interested in easy lays. For guys who have spent a good bit of time there, how long did it typically take you to bang?
Your question is broad... ease of bang depends on many factors including your own front - i.e. how you present yourself to the world. So if I were to tell you a had x amount of 1 night stands in the ATL , doesn't mean you necessarily would or visa versa.
How old are you?
Do you have black friends?
Have ever dated a black woman?
More and more Wrote:Do you think a non-stereotypical black guy would do well there? (I don't just mean non-thuggish, I mean very proper-seeming, white sounding, etc.)
Nope not really. White sounding black men not named Bryant Gumbel are generalized ostracized and labeled as corny. The last thing you want to appear to a black woman is corny.
More and more Wrote:In predominantly black bars and clubs, is it all dance floor game? I think I've had enough of that.
Yes and why have you had enough of that? You want easy lays from beautiful non hoodish black women then you better bring something to the table..you don't need to be Chris Brown but you DO need to display some proficiency with the "vertical" bedroom moves for black women - if you are a black man. Otherwise you will be seen as corny.
More and more Wrote:Also, do the women there have this attitude where they kind of walk around with the expectation that men they come across are not good enough for them? Brothers who have lived or visited certain places will know what I'm talking about.
All will have that attitude to a degree. basically it's to weed out the "weak" men. Typical players look forward to cracking the biatch shields.
I'm in my mid-30s, and while I do have black friends I have mostly dated white women. But I have dated black women.
About dance floor game, there are several reasons. One reason (and a main one) is that I feel that I bring so much to the table that I shouldn't have to be out on the dance floor. Another is that I don't like Southern rap, which is ubiquitous and unrelenting in black clubs. Yet another is that I'm not that great at dancing anymore.
Honestly, I feel that the 'corniness' factor is a factor in my player life as far as black women is concerned. That's why it would be great if I could find somewhere where it isn't a factor. It seems that most of the women for whom it wouldn't be a factor mostly date non-black men, and that it is hard to meet the rest except through work or social circle.
To an extent. Remember that Black men in Canada for the most part are articulate and well versed so being this is no stand out here. The key is that Black women here due to growing up in Canada are bit more mild and well mannered in comparison to their beast American counterparts. So they will give you a fair chance like any other girl here if you have some game and flair. The only issues with Black Canadian women is their is not enough of them, if you LIVE in a certain City you run through top prospects quickly. Another issue is that Black women in Canada maybe do not try to act the part of Black American women but they lust after the same unrealistic memes of Black men, maybe even more so then American Black women. Black Canadian women thirst after American Black men and the strong street image... a lot. Many will travel down to Atlanta, LA, Miami, New York to get their fix of Southern American gentlemen because us Canadian brothers are just to tame and articulate for them. They are quick to blame that Canadian brothers chance after white women so this is why they flee to look for American men but I do not buy that argument fully. I think the more they try to mimic characteristics of American Black women it ends up turning many Canadian brothers off.
If you are American though you will have heavy currency here in Canada and outside of Toronto and the GTA you will find a good well mannered (for the most part) Canadian black females scattered around. Cities of note: Winnipeg, Edmonton, Calgary, Halifax, and Ottawa.
Is tis true!!! WOW...how ca it even be possible?(BTW i'm not disputing..just in disbelief) Black women from the states all crowed to date these same ball players...to epic typical levels. Regardless of even hearing that the are passing STDs around. Its redic...& so typical. So what are Canada blacks looking for, the same...types?
"All My Bitches love me....I love all my bitches,
but its like soon as I cum... I come to my senses."
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