Post: #1

I get this shit all of the time, sometimes it'll be from a chick who's number I just got, sometimes from a chick I just fucked for the first time, sometimes from a chick I've been dating, etc.... I'll hit a girl up after a couple days or so, and she'll respond with.... "Hey! I didn't expect to hear from you again" or "Hey!" I didn't think you were going to hit me back up!"

I would ask why girls say this, but I kind of don't care, I just need a real solid, Roissy-esque type response to this shit, cuz normally I'll just say "Why is that?" but then they always just say, "I don't know, just thought you wouldn't...."

Anybody got any good responses for this shit?

Post: #2

"Hey!" I didn't think you were going to hit me back up!"

..."is there a reason I shouldn't? Because we can end this conversation now." Keep some light sarcasm in your voice.

Post: #3

(06-02-2010 04:00 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Anybody got any good responses for this shit?

I'd just hang up the phone. Why would you want to waste those extra five seconds on her if she obviously doesn't care?

Post: #4

(06-02-2010 04:57 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(06-02-2010 04:00 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Anybody got any good responses for this shit?

I'd just hang up the phone. Why would you want to waste those extra five seconds on her if she obviously doesn't care?

What?!?! Why would that mean she doesn't care? I always thought that meant she did care....

Post: #5

Just ignore what she says, change the subject. I only start ignoring women when they are too annoying.

Post: #6

Haha, classic facetious shit test. Don't look into it or take offense, and definitely don't act bitter. If she is replying something like this then she probably likes you more than she wants to let on; she is looking for a response that you are as much into her as she is into you. You just need to validate her a little more. Tell her she is cool, tell her she is sexy, make her feel good about herself. Just do it as a man and not a needy beta.

You're thinking too much into it. No matter how sexy the girl, if you game too hard it makes you seem unattainable and they will pull this type of thing. If you're into her then by all means let her know, just do it without being a sap.

Hey!" I didn't think you were going to hit me back up!"

do: "yea of course. You are a cool girl it would be stupid not to."

don't: "what why?! no I miss you. You are the coolest girl ever I just want to hang around you always."

Ok I am embellishing a little but you get the point. Say whatever you want just be a man about it.

Post: #7

Girls are starting to pick up on the 3 day rule since a lot of PUA stuff is going mainstream. Its a subtle shit test they throw out there, trying to get you to declare you were interested in her and that you play by the 3 day rule.

Best thing to do is treat it like any other of this stupid little tests. Blow it off with barely a notice "ya, well .... into real conversation" or turn it back on her as in "well i already gave you 3 days to call, but i figured ..... something clever (im tired now so not as witty as i could be)"

I personally dont call back girls that i havent already set up future plans with. It makes things much smoother, and i always hook them into something, so i have a reason to call. So i rarely get this.

Post: #8

I would play along with her insecurity, and joke around with something like:

1. "Yeah, I wasnt going to, but:

a. you've got great boobs (direct but caddish/funny-ish if done with the right tone)
b. you looked like you could use at least one friend
c. my mother says I need to do at least one good deed per week
d. i cant get that ass out of my mind (very direct)
e. etc...

2. "Oh, who's this stacy? I guess I dialed the wrong number" Of course, don't let her hang up.

In general, just bust her lady-balls for being insecure...but in a funny way or in a way that creates some type of positive emotion in her. Of course, direct comments, if you can pull them off, will plant the seeds of horniness.

Post: #9

hydrogonian and others have the right idea.

With american girls, you have to make fun of her. It works.

Especially when she says something like "Hey! I didn't expect to hear from you again", she is just asking for it.

I have recently re-come to the conclusion that there is no other way to deal with american girls.

Post: #10

Damn, yeah, I definitely like hydrogonian's answers.... why didn't I think of that?

Post: #11

(06-02-2010 10:37 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  b. you looked like you could use at least one friend
c. my mother says I need to do at least one good deed per week

Nice.

Post: #12

(06-02-2010 05:19 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  What?!?! Why would that mean she doesn't care? I always thought that meant she did care....

Interesting. Well, being from Europe I'd interpret it as she didn't, and would hang up.
But, on the other side, I haven't met yet an American girl which I would like to call.